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 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
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well isn't that a coincidence. lol
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/7/2012 9:37:36 AM
Older women might also be in tune with their "inner zlut" so to speak.
They are more likely to allow their sexuality to develop a role as a more dominant source of dynamic energy.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 703
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 1:26:57 AM
darightguy

I think you are right. Whenever there is an age discrepancy there may be ulterior motives as it is not the norm.'
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 9:33:31 AM

Why do some younger guy want to have sex with older woman?


Hmm, Me thinks the younger guys wants to investigate if "down there" have a plastic surgery too like their smooth faces that looks like 23 years old... Hey ! dont look at me I can think can I...............
 pinkpetal5
Joined: 8/10/2010
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 1:45:30 PM
i have a 21 yr old chasing me at the minute and i,m 46! he,s fit as hell...i have slept with him but he told me he was older then eventually told me the truth...i feel torn because he wants a relationship and i feel like some freak and refuse to think it,ll work because of the very big age gap! advice please :)
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 706
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 2:16:32 PM
@pinkpetal5 sweetheart GO FOR IT an see where things lead.. even if things do or dont workout or even if you 2 end up good friends 18-80 blind cripple or crazy men will be men.. an if you was talking about a 50yr old an saying should i go for it it would be the same questions or issues if things didnt workout only differance is you would exspect the older to more have his s hit together then younger but infact there are older men who still play games are liars cheaters an abusers mentally an physically so age anit to be nothing but a number in the case..


if he's acting like talking like an looking like he's on grown man status then give it a chance being with a guy older then you doesnt ever promise more maturity or less problems hell the older some guys are the more emotional an physicall baggage they come with..
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 2:25:20 PM
Do it. I love younger men its all I date for my own personal reasons. If I had a 21 yr old that wanted to be serious with me id be like hell yea. no ? asked.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 708
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:20:12 PM
@ domo31 YUP ME too.
 balrog67
Joined: 4/1/2012
Msg: 709
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/8/2012 3:31:55 PM
I lost my cherry to an older woman. Had an affinity for them ever since. We are the products of our experiences, neh?
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/9/2012 11:47:33 AM
Pink

Don't let the "number" bother you. I say it like that, because I think there might be other issues (like him lying until you were in the sack). In addition, be sure that it is only the number that separates you.

Surely do not listen to Leonalioness rants of how it could never work. It could never work for her, not necessarily the same for others.

It can work. Probably not a forever thing, but a long term thing. My story has been told on this subject numerous times.

I was 25 and she was 45. I met her through my job (she was a customer). I asked her out for coffee, ended up at her house, we talked all night long. The sex didn't even happen till the sun was rising. I moved in the next day. That relationship lasted 4 wonderful years. I was the one who broke it off. Hitting 30 and not having any kids (even though I kept telling myself that I never wanted kids) probably was the motivation behind my exiting the relationship. The relationship was great right up until the day I left.

Just like any other relationship.... its what goes on when the sex isn't going on that will determine the success of the relationship.

Enjoy!!!
 Ravewitme
Joined: 3/12/2012
Msg: 711
Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/10/2012 8:59:50 AM
I think its an ego thing on their part in whatever way that may be conceived, its has been mentioned on here that young girls can be cruel. Yes I agree with this. I have had a friends with benefits type relationship with a guy 15 years younger than me.

He wasn't particular gifted in the size of his penis, very good looking and a very caring guy. I think younger girls have been cruel towards him about his size.

I truly believe if he were better endowed he would not have an attraction to older women...?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 712
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Posted: 4/10/2012 10:02:03 AM

I think its an ego thing on their part in whatever way that may be conceived, its has been mentioned on here that young girls can be cruel. Yes I agree with this. I have had a friends with benefits type relationship with a guy 15 years younger than me.

He wasn't particular gifted in the size of his penis, very good looking and a very caring guy. I think younger girls have been cruel towards him about his size.

I truly believe if he were better endowed he would not have an attraction to older women...?




For whatever reason, (Small****or not) I think young guys who chase or submit to an older woman's advances are generally guys who aren't getting much attention from women their own age. Or they have received too much negative attention from women their own age. Some very young men see dating (slightly) older women as an affirmation of their maturity and manhood.
 socialdave
Joined: 3/25/2012
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/20/2012 4:49:17 PM
pinkpetal5; i think you should enjoy the attention you are getting as long as you are happy with the situation.. i spent many years as a teenager with a 'woman' in her early forties , she had a thing for younger guys, which is fine, and i loved every minute sex was far more sensual, had more meaning and now at 51 i thank her every day for the benefit of the experienced gained and so does my partner, are you a freak? not at all, it may not last forever but what relationship does?
 socialdave
Joined: 3/25/2012
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/20/2012 4:58:03 PM
I disagree, i have always been attracted to older women and even now still prefer women of my own age and above, of course it would not be true to say i don't look at younger women, and i can't say why it is but i don't feel a big attraction to younger women.
 marcus_biggs
Joined: 4/2/2011
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Posted: 4/21/2012 5:03:33 AM
The only way you get better, is by facing a better opponent..

Soo... If **** with an older more experiennced woman in her 30's 40'ss... My sexuall prowess.. Would grow leaps and bounnds.. And onnce that agge gap fiasco ends.. Fair exchange, her experience for my youthful energy.
I can go smash a younger or same aged woman, with those experiencce, knowledge.

Also.. Many women 19 to 29 aarre goofy in general..m and older women learn that **** isn't something to be put up on a pedestal over****. They work together, use'em.
 LadyElisheva
Joined: 3/24/2012
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Posted: 4/21/2012 8:03:17 PM
Now that's a smart man!
 hockeyc999
Joined: 12/21/2011
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/21/2012 8:54:50 PM
I find I relate more to older women than younger immature girls; and I find myself relating to older women and leaning towards dating older girls and women. In addition, I personally find older woman very attractive. :)
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 718
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Posted: 4/22/2012 8:17:15 AM
I was never into the older woman thing. But, when I was younger I had friends who were. What was their attraction? Older women were easy. Yeah, I said it. It was as plain and simple as that. These would be women who were desperately trying to cling to their youth, foolishly believing it when some guy told them they looked younger than they were. Or, they were recently divorced and afraid that perhaps no one would want them now that they were older and had kids. But, the fact remains my friends could dog them out big time. They guys could go to the clubs and strike out and then on the way home stop at the older woman's house and do her. Worse, sometimes they would score at the club and still go and do the older woman. They were always making jokes and laughing about it, too. Some were using the older women just to support them. All in all, it was pretty pathetic.
 nimfo47
Joined: 9/24/2011
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 8:26:11 AM
its cuz older women no what they want and will please the other partner were as younger girls for most dont have a clue how to do so its goes as experience...its the couger symdrome ...and lots of it is to say and btag to there friends hey look i did it like putting another notch on my belt..
 dan88anew
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 9:08:16 AM
Personally for me I like the way a more mature woman looks. Its as simple as that their more attractive to me. Because im really not into the skinny teeny bopper look most younger women have. Thats why i prefer a older women whos filled out into a more ''womanly'' shape.

That and I always related to a older women more than I did with girls my age. At 18 alot of my friends were 30-35. Dunno why just seemed to have more in common with them.
 sfokorikos
Joined: 9/12/2010
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Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 4/22/2012 11:53:43 AM
Lets face it....young guys want to have someone that can take control and know wat to do. especially in sex young guys want older women bc they are experienced and they know wat exactly they want. My question is why older women dont try to have fun and have a young guy.....they hesitate? who knows
 redsox322
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Posted: 4/22/2012 11:58:26 AM
I prefer younger men quite simply mor energetic in bed, less chance of them needing viagra, and no grey hair. Also no kinds running around bothering me or crazy exwives for the most part. Younger men way better in bed
 redsox322
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Posted: 4/22/2012 11:58:53 AM
I prefer younger men quite simply mor energetic in bed, less chance of them needing viagra, and no grey hair. Also no kinds running around bothering me or crazy exwives for the most part. Younger men way better in bed
 hockeyc999
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Posted: 4/22/2012 1:20:50 PM
domo31 Feel free to take a run at me lol, I know i'd be interested :)
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 725
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Posted: 4/22/2012 1:29:52 PM
I blame the "American Pie" series of movies that popularized the term "MILF" and glorified older, sexy, sexually-in-heat, sexually aggressive, knows-what-she-wants & how to get it, women (e.g. Stifler's Mom)

many younger guys might be tired of usually being the aggressor and believe an older woman might more likely take the initiative
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