| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:29:31 PM | | sweet: You aren't fishing for compliments yet you needed to point out that you get lots of them. Interesting. I don't see what anger has to do with pointing out what I've observed or experienced. I didn't say older women were horrible or better than anybody else. It's the younger women that should be angry with some of the ridiculous sterotyping that goes on in these threads when they pop up every 5 minutes. I guess when I hit on a bit of truth the claws will obviously come out at some point. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:37:55 PM | | Give me a real man, not someone I can bend like Gumby!!! A man who will know how to respond back to me if I'm being a little sarcastic..............I've chatted to younger guys and there is always that point where I say something to test them and boom - they don't know what to say. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:38:15 PM | 4girls and me-
Rejection generally brings out the worst in all of us-myself included. Honestly, I really believe that most folks want to have sex with people who appeal to them-but it's hard for some people to digest that younger men could handle a serious relationship with an older woman so therefore they ONLY want sex ( some do, but not all). I mean older men date younger women and most generally engage in sex-would make sense if both partners appeal to each other. Societal norms play a heavier role in how some people react to such 'hot' topics.
Everyone can have an opinion that rationalizes or demonizes sex-but it's a choice two people make. I certainly don't expect anyone to agree with anything I do-it's my choice and I happily respect those who think an older woman such as myself shouldn't date, much less have sex, with a man younger than me. The other thing I find comical is the notion that older woman seek younger sexual partners to stroke our ego's. I'm sorry but most people I know don't mind having their ego's stroked-it's a good morale booster. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:45:12 PM | Ah, I am so misunderstood yet again. Venus VS Mars in full bloom tonight. Is it a full moon tonight?  I can take it cw35 and no, my claws don't come out....I can handle insults and opinions other than those of my own and I don't fight  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:57:27 PM | | I have been attracted to older women ever since I saw the movie and "Mrs. Robinson". I was always attracted to my friends mothers and had fantasies about them. To this day I think older women are so sexy. I really can't explain it. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:01:08 PM | If you are just talking about sex. When I was in my early 30's, I had a relationship with a women 8 years younger and then one 12 years older (so she said but I think it was more like 15). Sex with the older women was great. With the younger one.. it was all about her. The older was more mutual.
Trying to have a relationship with the older women, the age difference was a different story, we were at totally different points in our lives. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:11:11 PM | Their is no attraction .. for the middle-aged female it is immature ,perverse and insecure women with no ability to properly socialize with people of their own age...
I socialize just fine and dandy thanks! I just don't want to f$ck someone society dictates I should play with - like people my own age.
you are likely a great candidate for the "Mrs. Robinson" syndrome.
Hey! I resemble that remark! I date younger, because (and I'm sorry to say) guys talk about tits sagging on women - well, men's tits and balls sag too! And no amount of moisturizer will fix that. I really can't see too many of them going in for a lift.
you are emotionally dysfunctional
Yup, and damn proud of it.
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:20:32 PM |
Discrete, do you hate women? I for one never consider myself as precious. I am just a regular woman and that's all. I can not help it if some men who contact me are younger. Heck, I get emails from men of all ages, so can you stop ranting so much. Let me reiterate; I started this thread simply to try and understand what the attraction is for a younger man towards an older woman...it appears you are simply spewing off a bunch of mean comments and I am so trying to be lady like here. You even attacked what I have as my user name...did you happen to read what I wrote about where it came from? Seriously discrete, can you try to be a little nicer? I kind of agree with a previous poster in regards to it appears you are the one seeking attention. I think you need a hug
Nope I just hate BS....and "tricky BS" and those who "play with the system" no matter if they are men or women and no matter where (insulting others intelligence wherever they can...in misleading reality...reality and not the faked perception of it as much as possible). ..I mean lots of those who think they have "2 pairs of testi..ls" (men and women as well)....I am all good with the rest.
I don't seek any attention.....but I guess its more of an interpretation of how you may see the world because if you would say what I said then for you would translate to "attention seeking"....which is not at all true for me. I am different. Please don't give me attention. Please don't write to me I don't need it. I am here exclusively for the forum.
What does it mean to be nice ? Should I lie and tell lies or make up stuff to be perceived and "nice" ? What for? If not, would you want to put pressure on me to tell stupid stuff just to look like nice?....that''s how I should understand it? (its a question)
In everyday life people make lots of BS to "appear" as nice...otherwise there are people who want to put you down (at all possible levels) if you speak up because its not favourable for them. Its like lets keep the BS as much as it works, then its all good...right?
You are free to accept what you want....but read and listen a bit because there are signs out there from others too...event though lots of people shut up and keep it low and quiet...and there is a lot of misleading info in that. Please no offence. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:23:52 PM | | luvtachat, you are not alone with your fantasies....I have had a real eye-opener since I posted this thread. Some positive and some negative. I can handle the ones who don't agree with the younger mens thought process. LOL-I referenced "Mrs. Robinson" in my opening statement to this thread! You don't need to explain it-older women are your preference, just like some like thin ladies and some like the larger ones. Some like blonds and some like brunettes. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:31:58 PM | | concrete, I read your words and accept your opinion, even though I think you have me misconstrued a bit. At 45, I do not give out BS, nor do I take it. With that said, this "older" woman is heading to bed in hopes to have visions of sugar plums, and hot young men, dancing in my head I am making a joke because I think you got this off track a bit by making it far too serious, and challenged me to a heated debate. Too serious for me, especially since I was just asking a simple, so I thought, question. Peace out. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:32:26 PM | I thought that mens' balls were supposed to sag? The term "distend" comes to mind.
Also, leave my tits out of this!
I haven't found anyone that actually minded them!
And in fact, most like playing with my nipples..............which stay hard more often than not!
Finally, I'd like to know what the "sarcasm" test is that younger men seem to fail.
I'm quite the sarcasm connoisseur!! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 6:08:08 AM | I do not take them out to dinner, expensive restau or burger joint. The ones I meet have more apetite for "food for thought", good convo and ......! The real pleasures in life. Takes wisdom and they have it much more, compared to younger women who are into material things etc etc.
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 6:16:02 AM |
Posted By: 4girls and me on 9/7/2008 9  13 PM Message: Speaking as a MUCH older woman, this question has been in my mind for months. It astounds me that men younger than my children and even some of my grandchildren will message me "offering" sex, I think expecting that I will be grateful. My next surprise is the indignation my refusals generate. They seem to think they're offering something the likes of which I could not possibly ever have experienced before and I'm turning it down out of ignorance and ingratitude.
Imagine that. Someone from the opposite sex treating you like they are doing you a favor by giving you thier attention. Welcome to the world of the male perspective on dating and relationships. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 6:20:47 AM |
Imagine that. Someone from the opposite sex treating you like they are doing you a favor by giving you thier attention. Welcome to the world of the male perspective on dating and relationships.
Hm, I think this is true/makes a good point.
But also:
"It astounds me that men younger than my children and even some of my grandchildren will message me "offering" sex, I think expecting that I will be grateful.
My next surprise is the indignation my refusals generate. They seem to think they're offering something the likes of which I could not possibly ever have experienced before and I'm turning it down out of ignorance and ingratitude."
I am not sure that this is not mere "imagination" (".. I think expecting ..") or projecting.
As per the alledged or perceived as "indignation", again that is a subjective interpretation IMO.
"They seem to think they're offering something the likes of which I could not possibly ever have experienced before and I'm turning it down out of ignorance and ingratitude."
It may "seem" so, but is it so? | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 7:33:14 AM | Its the experience of the woman have. She knows what to do and what not to do. Many younger women have no clue 
To me its the experience but mostly important is intellect...plus more experienced women seem to be more open to dressing sexy I think  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 7:56:53 AM | Since you just asked about sex and not relationships I have 2 theories for 2 different types.
The first type is one that might just find it kinky. Anything out of the ordinary can be a turn on, like having sex on an airplane. In a one meter square toilet, it's not that it's comfy, or allows for great gymnastics, it's the kink of it.
The second, like myself, find sexiness as more than just a hot bod. The character of older women, I think, often makes their faces prettier, despite age lines or whatever. The patience, confidence and experience all make the person sexier than the sum of her parts. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/8/2008 9:06:23 AM | | Dear Mafiachixrule ....... "strange oddity" indeedie -due. You rule woman, and rock!!! Best profile on the beaten path of reality forums and life!! Cheap sex, cheep sex... molecules maul-ah-cue-led.... if your brain does not register hooks and barbs you are just a non practional unlicensed hooker who needs to understand the commodities market. If your body of you, not your flesh but your being matters to you then you will act of different nobility ... if naughtie then you will get the odd-dience you dis-serve..... in other words .. if your own self preservation and self respect does not matter, I am guaranteeing you little young pie eyed is into you with only his pecker as his guide..... caus' no one is manning .. hah the secret sauce drippings on the rug burn of yo- cerebral chorus... some middle aged human females need to expand on their enter-rests beyond their fluid exchanges .... or litterally die tryin.... ( Little boys with impatient toys will use whatever they can if the user parts are in his pathway to disturbing his own DNA) | |
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