| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 3:35:43 AM | Re post 100:
"Experiance!!! They been around long enough to know how to make a man feel good, .."
Yes, IMO the experience "card" and/or wisdom "card" applies to older woman attractiveness. When I was 17, I went to a party with the intension to ask out the girl who was throwing the party, 16, but when I "ran" into the French au pair woman, 23, of the family, I was hooked. We spent the whole evening talking and started going out. They were both interesting, but a 16 yo was no competition for the 23 yo one, in my eyes.
And I do not mean sexual experience per se, I mean life experience. But life experience "spills over" into sexual experience as well.
And wisdom (life wisdom) is what generally makes eg a 51 yo woman more attractive than a 31 yo one. With notable exceptions of course. And provided that it does not mean a lot of carry on baggage from all that experience. That is why after a certain age it is the wisdom card that takes over from the experience card.
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 2:30:01 PM | | I just don't understand what all the fuss is about. I've been friends with a 23 yr old for going on 7 months now. We enjoy each others company, and no it's not all about sex, though that is a definite plus. We love the same music, sports and all around have fun with each other. He makes me laugh and he makes me happy. Who is it hurting? NO ONE!! Do we get strange looks when we're out? Sure do. Do I give a rats ass? Hell no. Life is too short to not do what you want to. He prefers older women and I prefer younger men. Enough said. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 6:37:30 PM | scarred24-if you're considering a date with an older lady, why hesitate? As we get older, we realize just how short life really is, and tend to take more chances. If you ever get up the nerve, have a good time! BTW: The cougar den is that a way   | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 8:07:05 PM | I have been seeing more younger men in the past 5 years. Mainly because they are looking for experience, without too much stress which works well in my situation.
I see nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are over the age of 20, understand whats on the table and agree to it. Age is a number. I just happen to like those that start with 2 instead of 5 or 6.
(Side note: 80% of the men who contact me on this system are 20-25) | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:52:38 PM | As others have stated
Older women can be
- very attractive.
- Know what they want, in bed and life in general
- Are most of the time less dramatic.
- Understanding about the actuality of the relationship. **** buddies, FWB, not calling for a while. but still wanting to bang one out later down the road...
- Likes to take care of there man, that takes care of them in the sack.
- Give great ****ing blow jobs, probably cause they've given a few.. But hey... Experience can be a major plus.
I know I'm attracted to older women, younger women, same age. Hell if it has a ****.. oh wait.. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/9/2008 11:02:12 PM | | because men are visual beings its not just older women we want to have sex with but younger women, big women, little women, different races, i know guys who honestly want to have sex with midgets...plus older women is kind of a fad right now | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 3:01:42 AM | I'm just being honest. I've had a significant amount of experience with older women and for myself as well as most young guys I know, dating older women is a novelty. Fun while it lasts, but usually you go in knowing this is just going to be about sex.
Three things make older women stand out....
Older women are easier to deal once you get their attention because typically they don't literally have a dozen other guys lined up to take your place the entire time your dating, in most cases.
Older women seem to appreciate a good romp a little more than younger women.
Older women, on average, give way more enthusiastic blow jobs that their younger counterparts. You get a half ass 20 min effort from a 20 year old who stops right as you start cumming versus the 1+ hours from a 37 year old who doesn't take it out of her mouth until your completely spent and pleading for her to stop because your heart can't take it. I'm sorry, there is no comparison. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 4:08:28 AM | for many good reasons....but......
It is a price to pay for it, but not in all cases.
He will drain your checking account. (Watch Judge Judy). You will get the usual comment/ question ' How old is your son ?. If he looks a young girl you'll get mad as hell. He will not visit you at the nursery home. Sometimes he won't wanted to be seeing in public with you. You want listen to Elvis he wants Hip hops. He doesnt know the meaning of A.A.R.P. . You can have S... 24/7 instead of 24 days a month. If you have a child he knows you can take good care of his son. You will go to PTA meeting and the teacher will remind you is not 'grandparents day'. Your daughter may like him as well. Do you think I'm against it !!! Hell no.....go for it.......
I hope I made you smile....lol | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 4:27:51 AM | Dear Mafiachixrule ....... "strange oddity" indeedie -due. You rule woman, and rock!!! Best profile on the beaten path of reality forums and life!
What a lovely compliment. Thank you, sistah. 
It appears we both live in the same sense of reality and possess humor. Never a bad thing. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 12:15:38 PM | "Boston..."
then I agree with you. Society tells us what is acceptable...I do not think always society is right 
Control might be an issue also. I would think that its a very small number of women who actually would do it for the control.
Do you not think its mostly about them reliving their youth and feeling flattered by this young guy feeling attracted to her??? She can in some way control him I guess but thats maybe because she is so much more experienced sexually and she really feeling non-attractive as years pass by? Maybe having experienced their men leaving them for a younger model...then by dating or marrying young men they feel that when a young guy can be attracted to them...then they have their self-esteem boosted
What do you think???? | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 12:21:34 PM | | I think you're just reading too much into it.....most older women who are attracted to younger men have no big secret, hidden agendas, are not trying to recapture anything or have our self esteem boosted ( because most of us have more self esteem than younger women to start with )....it's simple really....some of us just find younger men more attractive. Period. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 12:33:42 PM | | Sorry, it has to be the whole package and quite frankly I find nothing remotely close to the real deal in a boy. The theme from most of the young men on here is the *easy to bag* *appreciative of their attention* *FWB*. I don't need my self esteem boosted and I don't tend to run with *fads* as one earlier post eluded to. As far as the comment that the dating pool in my age range preference has *dried* up because those men want younger women...yeah, I'm going to disagree. Lastly, one person stated that a few compliments and we are as good as *bagged* again, something I tend to dismiss. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 12:48:54 PM | Of course each women is different, but generally, a few sincere compliments and some persistence and your in.
The problem with bagging older women is getting over the fact that there is a significant age gap. In some cases they have done that already, but for the curious older women, once you get them over that hump, it's like taking candy from a baby.
And of course all the women are too proud to admit they need their egos boosted. Look everyone likes being made to feel sexy. The fact of the a matter is typically happens with less frequency when you start aging and lose the level of control over men you had when you were in your prime, and it feels good to know you "still got it". | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:18:56 PM |
Do you not think its mostly about them reliving their youth and feeling flattered by this young guy feeling attracted to her??? She can in some way control him I guess but thats maybe because she is so much more experienced sexually and she really feeling non-attractive as years pass by? Maybe having experienced their men leaving them for a younger model...then by dating or marrying young men they feel that when a young guy can be attracted to them...then they have their self-esteem boostedWhat do you think????
That's possible. Some older women could have sex with a younger man for an ego boost. Being with a younger men makes them better about themselves and their looks. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:44:37 PM | | Louis Vuitton < is that your real name? Maybe SOME older women are easier but not all!! I sure am not. You just categorized all older women together...bad, bad, bad. "Some" would have been a better word to use! I have turned down dates from several different younger men. If I was easy, I would have said "yes!" Shame on you! I think you need to go in the corner for a time out! | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 3:34:29 PM | Maybe they are confusing 'easy' with...not so uptight about sex and don't tease guys for months before sleeping with them...or just use them all night and flirt with them so they'll buy them drinks, only to dump them before the bar closes.
Yeah, I worked in a bar ...not only did I see a regular flow of especially easy young women, but even more of those who make it a game to try to lure guys in with the promise of sex for drinks and then run off with their girlfriends at the end of the night.
If dumping the immature 'games' means we are easy...then so be it I guess | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 7:17:52 PM | There are quite a few reasons but I'll list the ones I believe are most relevant.
First and for most I think a lot of guys are interested in it due to the fact that older women will have that much more experience. Experience typically means that the sex will be that much better and older women tend to know what they want and how to get it.
Another reason is simply for bragging rights. It's really immature but both sexes are known to do it despite this. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 7:36:13 PM | Interestingly put undergrad.
As far as bragging rights, I am sure some brag. As for me, if I ever get with a younger man, I will not be bragging. I may be smiling, but not bragging. ..perhaps that is the difference between just being an older woman and being an older & somewhat classy woman  | |
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