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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/10/2008 11:48:31 PM | Honestly, older women are just straight up more attractive. Older, curvy women :).
They're nicer, more honest, and they don't care about petty things.
They usually have a better sense of humor and actually know what's going on around them.
They're cuddle-y-er and more open to different things. Younger women are usually players (sorry- big generalization but thats just my experience). Young people in general are this way but that's just not how I do things.
I don't think that a long term relationship really could work, it's possible but it would be tough, but sex knows no boundaries :). Honestly if an older woman approached me and we got to talking, I would be more likely to pursue that than a younger lady who just is going to give me a load of drama and empty pockets.
 
Hit me up older women :). | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 12:33:25 AM | To my personal experience , your question has to do something with the TYPE of beauty. Not all guys looking for hot , older cougar means they just want experienced sex , however; there is much more to that.
Honestly to me, older women with hot nice looks are always been attracted and i have been out several time. Now my question is , would i still go out with gorgeous looking young ones? YES .! but if i have a choice between hot older and hot young gal who would i go with? older one! Reason:
1. Experience ( both sexual and general life experience.
2. Maturity ( not all guy are into childish looking pinky gals)
3. less greed ( won't be looking for you $$)
4. And finally Type of beauty. ( let me explain this in bottom)
Type of beauty is something what a person feel its more hot and charming to them, the only way i can explain this better is by couple of examples, for instance some guy like slim gals, on the other hand some guys like thick ones. Also same way some gals like guys that are slim or Sterno , light or dark, shy or sharp. In case of older woman their body(physically) becomes more developed due to estrogen, and develop more thicker tissues, therefore, there is a different body look. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 12:34:08 AM | To my personal experience , your question has to do something with the TYPE of beauty. Not all guys looking for hot , older cougar means they just want experienced sex , however; there is much more to that.
Honestly to me, older women with hot nice looks are always been attracted and i have been out several time. Now my question is , would i still go out with gorgeous looking young ones? YES .! but if i have a choice between hot older and hot young gal who would i go with? older one! Reason:
1. Experience ( both sexual and general life experience.
2. Maturity ( not all guy are into childish looking pinky gals)
3. less greed ( won't be looking for you $$)
4. And finally Type of beauty. ( let me explain this in bottom)
Type of beauty is something what a person feel its more hot and charming to them, the only way i can explain this better is by couple of examples, for instance some guy like slim gals, on the other hand some guys like thick ones. Also same way some gals like guys that are slim or Sterno , light or dark, shy or sharp. In case of older woman their body(physically) becomes more developed due to estrogen, and develop more thicker tissues, therefore, there is a different body look. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 12:57:27 AM | 1) They are more sexually confident.
2) They are more likely to initiate and genuinely enjoy sex.
3) They know what they want and ask for it.
4) It's generally a good learning experience.
5) They are (often) mature enough to eliminate the 'young girl' drama and games.
6) They are more likely to have the experience to enjoy sex for sex, no strings attatched. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 3:56:47 AM | I have been on both sides of this in my lifetime dating a much older man when I was in my 20's off and on for 10 years, he was a great guy, (we were friends for 40 years until his recent passing) and dating a guy that was much younger man.....Age dose not always mean maturity, consideration, or sexual lines drawn in the sand.....I agree that most want a loving relationship with someone.....I am fortunate that that was the case in both relationships ...... the other is still an ongoing friendship though the circunstances of us being together has changed, he moved with his company to another state.....Love is not defined by age, it is by association, nor blood or people would not love adopted children as much as their own......Maybe Love is blind, or in the eye of the beholder? I know I am less judgemental since I have been there and done that......  Putting it bluntly, I did not have to "Train" either of them. And the other side of the coin is that a lot of a woman being ready to jump a guy's bones so to speak is the way he makes her feel comfortable with her own sexuality...One of the most heartfelt moments is seeing an older couple that has been together for many years still holding hands walking together and sharing a moment oftheir caring for each other with people they do not even know, or realize that they have shared it, hmmmmm.. corny but that is just my opinion......Good sex does not start in the bedroom it begins with good communication, and loving relationships all day long.....before and after the actual act itself.... | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 6:35:10 AM | I think I finally have a grip on this question.
Until now, I was not differentiating between a sexual encounter and a relationship.
Sexual encounters would probably be quite gratifying for both participants with young man/older woman, for all the reasons cited. Oh.........to be psychologically able to engage in such things. Alas ... too set in my ways and ideals.
Relationships, on the other hand require a lot more respect for numbers and consideration of the future. The prospect of a man in his prime tied down to a dottering old woman is daunting indeed.
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 7:47:31 AM | | I haven't read all of the posts. My last long relationship was with a man 8 years younger. Once you're beyond the age of childbearing (ok, I know a few of you guys are into having babies with women young enough to be your daughters) it makes some sense for women to be with younger men since women tend to outlive men by several years. That way we're more likely to have a partner for the rest of our lives. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:16:29 AM | My ego needs boosting from a younger man? Gimme a break. He should be so lucky to be seen with me. Such a lot of stupidity on this subject of "older women and younger men".
It would be stupid for someone to state that all older women that have sex younger men do so for an ego boost. However I don't think any stated that this applies to ALL older women who have sex with younger men. It is simply just one of several possible reasons that can apply to SOME older women who have with younger men. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:32:56 AM | | He wants your experiences and knowledge in sex to teach him what to do and what not to do when he is with a woman. So, he doesn't screw up royally when he is with a chick his own age. In other words he is using you. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 11:59:32 AM | | I love this topic!!!!! It is so very interesting to read everybody's point of view. Humans are amazing creatures aren't they. I personally am such an open minded person that I have no opinion to state here. Young, old, black,white..........we are all just amazing. Thanks for the interesting reads. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 1:12:19 PM | "Boston.."
many factors will influence our choices I think. I have dated younger girls of that simple reason that there is more action in them :) ...I mean Im a very active person...hiking, biking, rollerblading, sailing (well I used to - sold my boat :(
I like to go do stuff...my life is never boring and never have been. That makes like so wonderful that you feel there are so many things you like to do but you simply do not have time for them all I feel.
I say that our real age is really more about how 'old' we are thought wise. A young person can be 'old' because he/she acts like 'old people'. In my case its the opposite...I might be a little older but act fairly young activity wise...smile.
I love to visit museums, especially our national museum here. History are very interesting to me.
Anyway...how is MA these days? Its getting colder, right? ;) ...Ive spend one winter in ME and that was terrible cold...me living in Denmark have NEVER experienced this cold temperatures even Denmark actually are more north of ME :) | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 1:50:31 PM | well to keep things simple.......and for younger men
1.They are easier to bed sooner than young women......coz its pretty much a sex thing, so they can get down to it
2. Older women dont play so many games
3. Older women feel flattered & that loosens the knicker elastic
4. Older women have money & cars & are not so expensive
Some women just stay dead horny throughout their lie (Joanna Lummley / Helen Mirran etc) and can bed men of any age
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 4:36:52 PM | We interrupt this regularly scheduled program for a special announcement from the author/OP:
Well, when I first started this thread, it was only a few votes away from being deleted, and I am so glad that didn't happen. I was truly curious and was hungry for some feedback. And I must say, it has been enlightening and interesting. I do appreciate everyones opinions and view points...even those I don't agree with.
Crazy shoes...nice post.
Back to you all, cause I think I might want to give this  for young bucks a try  JK  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 7:00:45 PM | why do younger men want to have sex with older women. cause they are tired of meeting these young inexperienced ones.  I mean everybody say they want to have a virgin, a young tenderroni but actuallty they want someone older and experienced. Who want to keep teaching and telling someone wat to do in bed. Who want someone where they have to keep doing all the work. Who want someone who doesnt know how to be spontaneous. Well i guess u have to keep looking rather its young or old. Hey sometimes u can get an older person who jus sit there during sex and sometimes u can get an experienced young one. Young or old  well not that old doesnt matter if u get lucky an find one partner who fits yo stamina then hey its all good  hint jus go with the motion of the hips. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 7:40:35 PM | | sweet lady Lori: reason I don't take any risks is i recently been cheated on (well almost 2 yrs now jsut feels like yesterday still) by my ex of 4 years. We pretty much had everything goin for us, own house, puppy, good jobs, even considered poping the question.....then my best friend comes to me saying they slept together....so i tend to get nervous when i get any attention from women any age group. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:14:38 PM | Scarred-it's OK to be hesitant, but don't let a bad experience from 2 years ago keep you from having some life in your heart. I had the same thing happen to me, yet one must forge on and make their place in this world. Not everyone is a cheater. If a woman shows you attention, revel in it instead of running away. .. I wish you all the best  | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:26:50 PM | Well what a subject to debate.
I personally am struggling over the age gap how much younger is to young sense I am in it for the long term not the sex. Although sex is included.
Lots of younger men approach me too, not for just sex they are looking for relationships too.
I think I have decided that since I'm 51 then 35 to 65 would be a good age group for me to pick from.
Younger men have told me that older women have lived the "BS" and no longer have it in their life. Older women know what direction their going ,most are drama and baggage free.The children bareing days are over your left with confident women. More experienced at caring for their man. We know how to please by the time we are tagged "Older women". | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 11:19:22 PM | | As an older guy, I can be honest and say that it's just because women usually get sexier as they get older. They're more experienced and not afraid... I think many women find that to also be the case with older men... It's not as much stupid beating around the bush and stuff and when you do it, it's just better... they know how to do it better because they've done it more. They're comfortable with it and make their partner the same. | |
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/11/2008 11:31:03 PM | i feel most older women are enjoy oriented
u can enjoy with them in depth
but younger girls take care of their structure, they feel if press their private parts more they feel will become big and loos structure
so they r very limited in giving enjoyment to they partners
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| Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman?
Posted: 9/12/2008 8:16:56 PM | The simple answer is that younger men think about sex 69 seconds out of every minute and that *anyone* who will accommodate him is GOOD! Older women are very accommodating, especially ones who are craving for the bang of their lost youth.
To rephrase your question - do some younger men want to have a relationship, a lasting one, with an older woman? Not really.
Older women can be an easy and excellent booty call - not much different than the highschool whore in your younger days. OP, don't flatter yourself beyond this. | |
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