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Posted: 9/21/2008 5:17:01 PM | Passionate kissing, like newspapers, will eventually fade to oblivion....
Lovers today are so hell bent on cutting to the chase, a la searching the net at light speed, that they don't take the time to explore the art of kissing....
Maybe this is just as well, because most men aren't highly proficient in kissing either set of lips on a woman's body anyway.... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2008 10:27:21 PM | Really good kissing=really good sex.
A great kisser will turn me on more than anything. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:36:05 PM |
damn BigDaddy I am on my way to your kissing booth.
It's still open Angel, and I think East lost her way over so it's free too lol. 
Passionate kissing, like newspapers, will eventually fade to oblivion....
Lovers today are so hell bent on cutting to the chase, a la searching the net at light speed, that they don't take the time to explore the art of kissing....
Maybe this is just as well, because most men aren't highly proficient in kissing either set of lips on a woman's body anyway....
Dude, I pray with every ounce of who I am that you are dead wrong on that declaration...if passionate kissing is gonna go "all Dodo Bird" on us, then I want outta this life and I'll come back when they reinstate kissing. Life and relationships without it would be just about the poorest excuse for "living", EVER. For those that still enjoy it, savor it, relish it, cling to it like an addict. Embrace the minority if that's what it means to still appreciate one of the most sensual (and free may I add) experiences to be shared between two lovers.
I mean how hard can it be?
Move in close...take her face with both hands and caress her cheeks with your thumbs...brush aside her hair, tuck it behind her ears if needed...smile lovingly as you pull her face closer to yours...pause just for a moment before your lips touch (and dammit if you can't feel the sparks fly right then and there...woo!!)...and then pull her right to you and kiss her like the rest of the world just disappeared around you both...feels like you're breathing softly through each other. Tongues optional of course, but a tongue tango is deeply erotic and I know I enjoy a rolling, soft tongue over mine...mmm...damn yummy indeed. If there's passion between you, when the kiss is done, you'll feel lightheaded and all Jello knees...job well done, pat yourself on the back.
Kissing can't die...I won't allow it. 
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Posted: 9/22/2008 11:57:21 PM | Kisses fade (into the recesses of your heart) but never die.
My favorite song regarding a kiss..."Kiss From a Rose", by Seal.
Baby, I compare you to a kiss from a rose on the grey. Ooh, the more I get of you the stranger it feels...yeah. Now that your rose is in bloom, a light hits the gloom on the grey.
The passion it takes to write that, tells you the undeniable power of two sincere lips meeting.
Never fear, Jinx. Kissing is still all too necessary to the game of love. | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:12:33 AM | Kisses fade (into the recesses of your heart) but never die.
My favorite song regarding a kiss..."Kiss From a Rose", by Seal.
Baby, I compare you to a kiss from a rose on the grey. Ooh, the more I get of you the stranger it feels...yeah. Now that your rose is in bloom, a light hits the gloom on the grey.
The passion it takes to write that, tells you the undeniable power of two sincere lips meeting.
Though I'm not a huge fan of Seal, and for the most part he is a walking punchline (see: Talladega Nights), even I have to admit that the song "Kiss From A Rose" is stellar, and indeed a very powerful statement about the act.
I also notice that kissing seems to have faded off into deep recesses of social interactions, and it's meaning/purpose/importance has been trivialized somewhere along the way. It saddens me deeply to know that some people actually exist out there that loathe kissing. Oh sure, they'll f**k you silly, 3 ways from Sunday, from try to kiss them and they'll bust off a "Kirk Judo Chop" to your throat. I pity them just for the true meaning of the kiss, and the lack of it in their lives. It's like living half a sex life. A chick could have a rockin' hot bod and f**k like a minx, but if there was no kissing as part of the package, I'd feel ripped off...like gettin' a timeshare instead of a chalet that I expected.
Know what I mean?
I can remember many nights in my youth, and even within recent memory where just kissin' and makin' out was all I needed, and there was no sexual contact beyond that...yet I felt as satisfied as if I had actually had intercourse. Having a willing, eager, and good partner helps of course. But yea, kissin' has been a kick ass substitute for me on many occasions. I'm even trying to fathom foreplay without kissing as an ingredient, and that just doesn't compute. Just the idea, as preposterous as it is to me, makes my brain hurt and I can hear my IQ points screaming in agony...
Poor guys 
Never fear, Jinx. Kissing is still all too necessary to the game of love.
It's nice to know you got my back Danz  Maybe we should open a business that teaches people, or reminds people at the very least, of the utter importance and sheer elegance of the kiss...and how it is one of the most powerful forms of free expression from a lover to another lol.
I've converted a few ladies in my lifetime who either hated it or disliked it enough due to past experiences, and got them to not only appreciate it, but crave it now...I need to share my gift for persuasion heh
EDIT: just thinkin'...maybe I should start a new trend...a Kiss-Buddy instead of a F**k-Buddy?
EDIT 2: post #106...try to keep up, k Jade? lmao
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:15:19 AM | | If I had a magic wand and could turn u into a woman for just one day...then you would understand us...we are the ones that have to carry a child for 9 months in our bodies and go thru pain delivering...is it any wonder we would be caution about what enters our bodies and could possibly leave something behind? | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:16:03 AM | | Oh were we talking about kissing? By the way bad kissing is a deal breaker with me... | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:28:26 AM | Kissing better NOT be a dead form of expression! I LOVE to kiss someone; and when it's done right, every kiss can feel like the first! I remember one of my first nights "hanging out" with a former boyfriend...his buddy was in the living room, we were in the kitchen. I was sitting on the counter with him standing in front of me, just KISSING. AAH. That was awesome. And it wasn't going to lead to anything, and that was OK! That's what I think is dying out some, kissing for the sake of kissing, rather than as a lead-in to sex.
I miss kissing! But I won't kiss just anyone, either, that's a private act for me! Is so much better when you feel about the person! | |
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Posted: 9/23/2008 9:57:10 AM | Yes, Jinx...we're opening that business along side my coffee business...(see the thread "sexual tension before the first kiss")!
I must conquer that kissing has become trapped in a malaise of the technological age. We, who still feel love, can actually express what that emotion is; how it sounds; what it means to us. My biggest fear is that this malaise would keep my son, and his children to come, from "real love".
Seal and Talladega Nights? You don't say..
I know of a certain someone here (female) whom I'd like to offer that lesson to. And, share my coffee with.
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Posted: 9/23/2008 11:44:21 AM | | Ohhh OP, tender with passion brewing inside stirs you up, sets the heart in a different mode and knees? One reaches for support that truly means getting closer, and not letting go. Hmmm ... firing up the engine on these short days and long nights ... hmmm ... | |
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Posted: 9/24/2008 3:21:52 PM | *The Kiss* is _SO_ valued .. by those that can perform it well...
If I could bottle Mine, I know it would sell...
Soft and sweet, or hard and strong...
A good tongue-wrestling technique can never go wrong...
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Posted: 9/24/2008 3:50:34 PM | | OOPS......and should NOT go untouched so long. Left out a key word there! Guess I got caught up in the moment | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 5:45:10 AM | OMG!!!!!!! People in Missouri are more frigid than the weather conditions.
Kissing is the gateway to everything else that may or may not happen. The way to show you have a deep mutual connection with someone. Nothing like A deep passionate kiss to tell the person you are with whether you want them or not, how much & badly. It also tells what you may want to do in other areas too! That is if you are passionate with someone.
I've had "just sex" with someone & I don't like to be kissed on the lips at times. Kissing again is the key to what may or may not happen & a connection.
****I'm not one of those bashers, but I cant imagine this being a real issue everywhere! I am amazed now a days when a man says he is into kissing & spooning. Years ago that was soooooooooo unmacho!!!!! (my perception of the Male attitude, in the past). But could it be a breath issue? Rotten or no teeth? No way Im kissing dog breath. Carry some mints or chew gum, not those fruity ones.
Now morning breath after an awesome night is tolerable, especially if you're that special to have been there all night! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 8:32:52 AM | | Kissing is so enjoyable... eyes within inches of each other, the sounds of your sighs and lips, the smell of her skin and hair so near, from her lips down to where your hands are holding her you can feel her respond and with all of that you can do it anytime, anywhere. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 8:55:24 AM | | Well looking at the feedback here I'd have to say that maybe your statement is off track that kissing is not important anymore! I know for me I love it! It is a huge turn on and really sets up for anything else that may happen. Kissing is so important to me because of the intimacy involved and the passion that goes into it, without it, well forget anything else because I love passion! JMO | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 9:04:00 AM | When you "buy sex" no kisses are needed.
When your looking for the "one" for you, connecting through kissing is very important. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 3:05:47 PM | 'GOOd...'
~Judge Not, lest Ye be judged....~
Don't jump Missourians . . or anyone else, for that matter.....
There are 'frigid' people .. and Wonderful people - Everywhere - !!
In MY view...more men like Kissing, these days .. and Fewer than can _Dance_..!!
That's why most of the dance floors that I've seen , in the last Several years,
have been occupied exclusively by women!!
.. while the 'Macho' guys just watch..not wanting to embarass themselves on a dance floor..!!
~ H A N D ~ | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 5:22:43 PM | | Kissing, my favorite subject. I love it. So much passion exchanged in a kiss | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 5:30:49 PM | | heh, the "Show Me State" doesn't show very much! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 7:52:57 PM | | Interesting that you bring this up --- I just met someone who will not kiss at all as he is saving that for someone he loves and yet will f*** just about anyone? Go figure! When did kissing become more intimate than sex? | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 9:33:18 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^
Come across a lot of women like that!
To them, it's more personal because it's in your face.
::shrugs:: I dunno | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 12:13:02 AM | Kissing is not dead. Kissing "is" the way to someones soul. Been around for eon's & everyone is still trying to perfect it in their own way. Ms. Betty Everett & Cher Bono got it right with the "Shoop, Shoop Song"
Hug him and squeeze him tight
Find out what you want to know
If it's love, if it really is it's there in his kiss,
It's in his kiss, That's where it is | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 5:42:42 PM | | Kissing is a HUGE thing for me, and it's definitely a deal breaker as well. I need someone who knows how to get into kiss and use their lips to tell me what they want! | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 7:02:56 PM | | Some women are not good on flirting (words) but they are good on caressing a man's face and kissing..... That is a learned technique. | |
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