| | kissingPage 9 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | Finding someone who kisses the way you like is so difficult sometimes.
The best kissers for me can read the signs. Am l breathing faster? Does a moan escape my lips? Are my eyes glazed over? Are my hands grabbing your hair? Am l coming closer to you? Did l just gently bite or suck your bottom lip? Are my hands caressing your face? Did l whisper your name into your mouth?
lf none of the above has happened and you are already shoving your tongue down my throat, l am not going to be kissing you again.
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| kissing Posted: 1/10/2009 7:30:22 AM | | ya it is important t o me anyways | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 5:14:39 AM | lcandy wtote:
The best kissers for me can read the signs. Am l breathing faster? Does a moan escape my lips? Are my eyes glazed over? Are my hands grabbing your hair? Am l coming closer to you? Did l just gently bite or suck your bottom lip? Are my hands caressing your face? Did l whisper your name into your mouth?
Clean up on aisle (danz is back) 10! | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 6:37:03 AM | kevinlay... Kissing is SUPER SUPER important when invoved in a relationship. You can tell A LOT about someone by just a kiss...Kissing is far from dead! | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 6:37:56 AM | | Icandy...Awesome reply! | |
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nyled
| | Joined: 10/18/2007 Msg: 206 | |
| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 6:40:17 AM | | Well at 33 kissing is over rated. Are we talking about kissing for long periods of time or just kissing here and there. Yes kissing came be fine and dandy but when you been doing it for over 20 years it can only be so much fun. | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 6:40:25 AM | | Kissing is EXTREMELY important to this guy, and can be just as hot as any other form of intercourse. It's the spark that ignites the electricity that fuels sizzling penetration. Kissing IS a form of sex. My ex was a great kisser. We'd start out with gentle plucks at the lips. Then her toungue would flick against the back of her clenched teeth, sending little bolts of electricity through me. Finally, our toungues would become embroiled in a full-on python fest...whew...getting hot in here? | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 7:22:17 AM | There are all kinds of kissing the kiss you give a baby because they are so cute. The kiss you give your grandma or older folks cause you want to impart some kind of affection on them because you know they need it. The kiss you give a freind on the cheek because you know you are dam lucky to have them. But the kiss you give someone who has stirred up feeling inside you is different and is special because you are communicating your passion for them. People just need to stop and be in the moment.
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| kissing Posted: 1/11/2009 7:39:51 AM | Kissing is super important in a relationship, when the kissing dies, so does the passion !!!  | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/16/2009 8:27:44 AM | Deeply moving moment was once described to me as an ice cube on a warm neck or so, thought he
But lips soft and tender on a warm neck by thee moving slowly and so sweetly defines the moment for me.. | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/16/2009 11:24:21 AM | Kissing is important, nice passionate kissing...Yummy..But sex? I was raised to believe the most important thing you can give to a man is your body/sexually. My father always told me this was the most treasured thing that I have to offer a man..I still believe it..A kiss is just but a kiss..... | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/16/2009 1:37:41 PM | | Kissing is more intimate, you cant really lie with a kiss. Theres people that have sex but kiss without passion-its just the two of em rubbing their lips together.Then theres that couple you may see in the street kiss for one second, and it seems like time stops for them. Kissin has always been and will always be very important to me. Things dont really stand up correctly if theres no kissing involved-its the begining and ending of foreplay-the union of two people physically other than sex(and 69) to me one of the best ways to start off the day and end the nite. | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/17/2009 1:35:15 PM | | They say its all in the kiss. | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/17/2009 2:19:09 PM | kissing when done right. Is like making love with your tongue. | |
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| kissing Posted: 5/26/2009 4:20:07 PM |
kissing came be fine and dandy but when you been doing it for over 20 years it can only be so much fun.
33years old, nyled. LOL you have so much to learn.
Prolonged periods of kissing, passionate kissing, is far more intimate than a fvck. I think at this age you are genitally focused. When you grow up you will learn that kissing a woman while making love to her, as part of foreplay, part of afterplay and during intercourse can be mindblowing.
Prostitutes often do not kiss because it is too intimate. Friends with benefits, or fvck buddies, often do not kiss. Sounds to me like you have used kissing to get to sex, rather than use kissing as an expression of passion for someone you have feelings for. It is an intimate part of love making. You have obviously not kissed the right woman when you make a statement about kissing "only being so much fun." | |
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bhi99
| | Joined: 7/8/2008 Msg: 216 | |
| kissing Posted: 5/26/2009 4:39:24 PM | Yeah I've noticed this too.
For me a kiss indicates interest.
However two people can kiss and then a few days later decide not to see eachother.
Although sex can be the same way, with a kiss it's many times easier.
There seems to be no attachment to someone you have kissed these days, I think this has a lot to do with how quickly people get into these thing.
You hear of men and women who expect to kiss a new interest on the 2nd date, or even the first if all goes well, and then sex by the 5th date or so.
I think it stems from putting your physical needs above your psychological needs. | |
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| kissing Posted: 6/9/2009 1:54:37 PM |
Kissing is the biggest turn on to me. Especially a guy that kisses me while gripping my hair as he pulls me to him. I loooovvveeee kissing. But you are right. Doesn't seem like that many guys are into it anymore.
I am! That turns me on the most!!! | |
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TMMJ
| | Joined: 4/22/2009 Msg: 218 | |
| kissing Posted: 7/4/2009 2:38:10 PM |
Kissing is the biggest turn on to me. Especially a guy that kisses me while gripping my hair as he pulls me to him. I loooovvveeee kissing. But you are right. Doesn't seem like that many guys are into it anymore.
Not true, plenty of guys are into kissing. And your description is one of my favorite ways of holding a woman while kissing her. I usually cradle the back of her head, with my fingers holding her hair between them.
I'm one of those guys that chooses not to have any sex until marriage. Yes I'm old fashioned, but it's a good value. Women should know that they are respected and cherished. How can they know such if we as men don't treat them with dignity and honor? Just my two cents worth... | |
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| kissing Posted: 7/4/2009 2:46:32 PM | Kissing is the single greatest pleasure in the world. Nothing rocks your mind and body as a kiss. From the moment you are born to the day you die, a kiss will lead you through. Kssing is more important to a relationship than even sex because without that kiss that signals "Hey, baby, I want you!" the sex will feel like a bad porn video (if even that). I love the type of kiss that knocks you for a loop, makes your heart beat through the roof, see beauty everywhere, the blue sunglasses become rosy tinted, and your eyes sparkle with that great feeling of "Oh yes, s/he likes me!" Yeah, some kisses are worth their weight in platinum and gold.  | |
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| kissing Posted: 1/3/2010 12:28:58 AM | I agree, kind of.
I will kiss any number of guys. LOVE to kiss and makeout. I'm fine with it. It's FUN !
I am VERY choosy about who I get naked with.
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| kissing Posted: 1/3/2010 2:52:09 AM | | As for the Kisses, Theres the ones that make you go hmmmm, and the ones that ya go mmmm, the peck granny puts on your cheek, eskimo kisses on the end of your beak, passionate kisses that whisper in your ear, New Years eve kisses at the end of the year, mistletoe kisses from santas good grace, salty kisses wipe tears from your face, devilish kisses in a forbidden place easing away the satin and lace,hot kisses that brush the hair from your neck,kisses with coffee out on the deck, kiss me in the car nearly causing a wreck, sweet are the kisses from your child at nite, tart are ones from a lovers soon flight ,delight are the kisses at first mornin lite, sorry are the kisses for a make-up of a fight, kisses that send chills down your spine, kisses that tingle every nerve in your mind,kisses in twilights nocturnal sublime, kisses that endure till the end of all time, kisses that linger of tequila and lime , butterfly kisses that go to cloud nine, These are the kisses of reason and rhyme..... | |
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ohjees
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| kissing Posted: 1/3/2010 7:00:13 AM | | I have to say... there's nothing more sensual and pleasing as an amazing kiss. You have an amazing evening with someone, you're excited, turned on, all sorts of thoughts running through your head, you lean in and... and... an absolutely horrible kiss. I'm a firm believer in the "kiss theory". If it's a horrible kiss I'll probably lose interest. | |
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kcmegm
| | Joined: 11/27/2009 Msg: 223 | |
| kissing Posted: 1/3/2010 9:57:33 AM | | really im a women and its the other way around for me..i wont just kiss anyone kissing is more inimate than sex to me..kissing is so far beyond a feeling to me its expressing hoe w you feel for that person and sex..well you dont have to have feelings for someone to have sex.unfortunaty sex has been turned into pleasure fufillment and just that. kissing and sex are different in many ways. | |
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