I allowed myself to trust again for my own good; however,it looks like I picked the wrong one to trust. Chalk it up to lack of experience. And in trying to overcome my trust issues I find myself in this situation.
It's alright sweetpea, you are by far not the first nor last. Well it's actually quite simple, which is good news. You dont go and just blindly pick someone to trust. You let them build your trust. And you watch carefully and take it nice and slow. As someone correctly pointed out here, if a grown man has no place to go, they are bad news. You don't go and take them in. They have ****ed it up for themselves. You go and pick someone who has their life together. And in no circumstances you move in with someone after a month. And you dont wash somebodys pants when they are doing **** all for you. Put yourself first. I urge you to go and buy Loving Him Without Losing You by Beverly Engels and Why Men Love b1tches by Sheryl Argov. Please dont let the titles put you off. They are great books. Good Luck with anything. And btw congratulate yourself you have not lent the **stard any money - please tell me you did not!!! And please tell me you have kicked his user of an arse to the curb already.