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Posted: 9/16/2008 10:53:09 AM | Good luck to you both, but its a fine line as a guy to continue to chase without the fear of being reported to the police as a stalker. I have been in a similar position but i believe no means no - so i guess i will never be in that position.
As i have been told so many times - Nice Guys come last !! | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 9:10:09 PM | No, I was referring to the OP. She says she met him in March 2008 and they got engaged in June 2008= 3 months (4 tops).  | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 9:56:37 PM | So basically youre saying the one you found and decided to be with is ugly or not cute???ha ha ha | |
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Posted: 9/17/2008 9:16:21 AM | 3 months is crazy! In my relationship with Clinte, I don't even think we met each others parents in 3 months time let alone decide that we wanted to get married!!
Marriage is too big of a step to be decided in 3 months! I don't know whose crazier ... him for proposing after 3 months or her for accepted! | |
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Posted: 9/17/2008 9:46:39 AM | Geez remind me never to share good news around here.
[qutote] LOL I'm not a killjoy and I am not silly enough to have a bad experience like that. I only posted my post after she deleted her profile so I wouldn't hurt her feelings. I just can't believe everyone else is so naive. I know I'm not alone, there are plenty of forums where people state how they believe you can't fall in love in just a few weeks/couple of months. No wonder the divorce rate is so high.
You may not have wanted to hurt her feelings, but maybe you have others. I am only saying that you are judging people on how they feel. Or who they are actually. Woman tend to fall in love faster than men. Reguardless of how long you should just say congrats and be done with it. Keep your harsh comments to yourself. I realize this may sound rude and for that I do apologize. However some people want to be happy and not bitty for the rest of thier lives. Which includes in giving people the CHANCE. I'm sorry if things hasn't exactly worked out for you to not believe in happiness in a short amount of time, but it does exist to some people. BTW The divorce rate isn't so high just because of people marrying one another in a short amount of time. If that is your personal opinion then that's fine, say that's my opinion. My opinion however is that divorce is just to easy. If two people agree all they say is I want a divorce in front of a lawyer and $750 later it's done. If two people truely love each other and actually try in a marriage it may actually work.
OP....AND THE OTHER ONE....congrats and I hope you all the happiness. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2008 9:58:11 AM | NOTHING VENTURED,.............NOTHING GAINED! LOL | |
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Posted: 9/18/2008 9:58:16 PM | | Not sure if knowing him for 7 years will make it any more of a sure thing. | |
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Posted: 9/18/2008 10:37:09 PM | Congrat's.I found my fiancee too in 2001, in here.
We were to be married Oct. 29th 2006.
He passed away sudenly 3 days after my birthday March 2006.
Don't wait so long to live together as we did,each day is so very precious.
Will you invite me to your wedding if you live in Manitoba.
Canusee?? | |
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| i found my husband
Posted: 9/19/2008 2:28:55 AM |
Woman tend to fall in love faster than men.
Not according to a sociologist friend of mine. She says that men fall in love, on average, after just four dates. They also tend to fall out much faster than women. Or to put it another way: Men are the ones who are fickle in love, yet somehow women got the rep for it. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2008 2:43:40 AM | | i,m pleased for you both, gud luck with ur wedding and the future, and ur right looks are not every thing, u cud get the most gud looking guy on the planet but he cud b a right t**t 2 u best of luck x | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 7:08:11 PM | Well, I met Steve off POF on October 21, 2005... we were engaged on July 20, 2006 and married May 19, 2007. We're just about three years together, and while I have some issues with POF, I am grateful that we were able to meet and marry. We had so many friends in common and went to the same parties etc., and yet never met in real life -- it took the internet to finally make the connection.
I'm so lucky that I was able to meet and marry my best friend and my advice would be simple -- take the plunge, lose the 'list' of partner attributes, and focus on the important things, like values and personality, rather than looks and likes. I see too many friends turn down a good, good person on the basis that they don't have the right job, or they don't like the theatre, or they have some other trivial incompatibility.
Good luck to everyone; I'll be deleting my profile soonish. | |
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