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 sweet smilin woman
Joined: 6/12/2008
Msg: 27
have u ever connected with someone emotionally and phisically but evrything else made it impossible?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
Geesh.. it sounds like you've read my journal!
 ColorsOutsideTheLines
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 28
have u ever connected with someone emotionally and phisically but evrything else made it impossible?
Posted: 9/10/2008 4:54:02 PM
Not impossible, but definitely difficult.

In a 2 year LD relationship, weekends at best and 2 more (LONG) years to go. We have differences of opinion about committments: it would be wonderful, to me, as I would then see us as a couple gearing our lives toward togetherness over the next 2 years. He sees it as nothing can change for 2 years, so, what is the issue? LOL

We have dealt with multiple issues: different work schedules, separate vacations, mentalpause, driving, gas prices increasing all the time, lack of privacy, and so on.
We used to think that our being so different would stop this from working. We have worked through many difficulties, many of which would NEVER have been an issue if we lived nearer to one another so we could have a NORMAL relatiosnhip.

I will say that I have developed a lot of patience, which was never my best virtue.

LD's are HARD.
 venndiagram
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 29
have u ever connected with someone emotionally and phisically but evrything else made it impossible?
Posted: 10/29/2010 3:52:04 PM
Yes. We fell in love, in spite of knowing that we were so different and had such different outlooks on life. We thought being in love would be enough- it isn't. In the end, you have to be able to live day to day with each other. I am sure if we had stayed together we would have killed each other!
 drumsafrican
Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 30
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have u ever connected with someone emotionally and phisically but evrything else made it impossible?
Posted: 6/12/2011 7:46:11 AM
Boy, do I know that situation. There was a man 10 years ago and we had a wonderful relationship but he was in the army and had to move elsewhere and I would have lost my career and friends.

Accept that this man just isn't for you. Move on.

Judith
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