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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/13/2008 11:25:58 PM | First of all I dislike the term "easy woman." I assume the OP means a woman that will have sex with a man only a few hours after meeting him. If that is the case, women must ask themselves how much REAL TIME they spend with a man before choosing to sleep with him.
I can only think of one woman in my past that insisted I wait longer than about ten hours. Translate that into 30 mins the first time we met, Four hours on our first date and another six hours on our second date. Does she know me any better than the woman I spent ten hours in a row with? No.
It's my feeling that for the RIGHT MAN any woman could be thought of as easy. The right man being a man that stimulates her emotionally as well as intellectually. He has aroused her passions and she wants him. I'm sure most women have met at least one man like that. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 1:26:44 AM |
First of all I dislike the term "easy woman." I assume the OP means a woman that will have sex with a man only a few hours after meeting him. If that is the case, women must ask themselves how much REAL TIME they spend with a man before choosing to sleep with him.
I can only think of one woman in my past that insisted I wait longer than about ten hours. Translate that into 30 mins the first time we met, Four hours on our first date and another six hours on our second date. Does she know me any better than the woman I spent ten hours in a row with? No.
It's my feeling that for the RIGHT MAN any woman could be thought of as easy. The right man being a man that stimulates her emotionally as well as intellectually. He has aroused her passions and she wants him. I'm sure most women have met at least one man like that.
Terrific response, Scoundrel! And very astute, as well. When will women stop worrying about being labeled and just live their lives as THEY see fit. If I meet a man and he rocks my world, then why on earth should I set an arbitrary time limit before being intimate with him? I'm not going to get pregnant. He doesn't have to worry about making an 'honest woman' of me. I am a grown woman who know her own mind and body. If I choose to go to bed with a man on the first night I meet him, then it is my choice and my business, and no one else's. Does that make me easy? No. It just makes me honest about my sexuality and desires. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 1:49:52 AM | | Some chicks have class and standards...but some do not. Whomever gets into their path is fair game. Opportunistic to a fault, you might say. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 2:44:12 AM | | Don't know how you spot an easy woman. I've been told, by friends of a guy I liked once, that he didn't bother wasting his time talking to me because I didn't look easy enough.................true story. I guess some men don't like a challenge.............lol | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 3:24:47 AM | All women love to be treated with respect by men they meet I think. There is no such thing as easy woman unless alcohol or something of a substance is involved. The men who take advantage of an easy woman are slime balls.
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 5:07:39 AM | RE msg 16 by El_Mariachi:
She is comfortable sitting within a group of young men, with no other women, who she thinks are her "friends". I don't know why, but this seems to be very common with women who later on sleep with most of those guys and lots more. I see.. so the woman who has lots of male friends and dares to hang out with them and enjoy it MUST be easy? Interesting assumption. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 5:09:44 AM |
Hcamp - what a great answer!
El Mariachi - completely agree, I have many male friends and I have never (will never) sleep with them; they're just my friends!
Heh11207 and El Mariachi - I am with you on this. I have lots of brothers and so I am very comfortable with my male friends and I do not sleep with them.
Maybe this poster has never had the gift of a friendship with a woman so can't understand how this can be. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 5:46:49 AM | The men who take advantage of an easy woman are slime balls.
What about women who take advantage of easy men? 
I'm not hunting easy women; so, I don't know. I should probably learn, since I keep finding them anyway.  | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:16:15 AM |
She is comfortable sitting within a group of young men, with no other women, who she thinks are her "friends".
I'm not reaching at all, it's right there.
See above, sounds exactly the same:
I just said a woman who is comfortable sitting within a group of young men, with no other women, who she thinks are her "friends".
I can't begin to imagine who you find a difference.
However, if you do do that, and you are upset by this, then "methinks thou doth protest too much".
Uh no... You said (compare again) that women hanging with male friends and comfortable with it are easy. Given that I have lots of male friends and hang with them whenever I can.. YOU essentially called me easy. Along with any other women who has and hangs out with her male friends. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:45:48 AM | | A woman who aggressively goes after almost any random man in a club or any other social setting. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:56:17 AM |
Uh no... You said (compare again) that women hanging with male friends and comfortable with it are easy. Given that I have lots of male friends and hang with them whenever I can.. YOU essentially called me easy. Along with any other women who has and hangs out with her male friends.
Funny, if you were to make that statement to my friends first they would laugh their azzes off then they might want to have a private talk with you. My male friends RESPECT me. We have a great time hanging out, though I don't go to clubs, occasionally I will go with them to play pool. We laugh, I tease them about whatever hot chick is in the place ect. But we NEVER cross the line. You called me easy and others as El Mariachi pointed out so well.
So if we were to suggest that you were just extremely jealous because you weren't able to have that kind of friendship in addition to not getting any dates, AND were just looking for sex anyway... ? I mean by your statements it could easily be taken that way couldn't it? Just a thought. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 8:40:19 AM | | For every woman who is classified as easy, there is the man who sleeps with her, which in turn makes him easy too. No better, no different. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 8:45:19 AM | The results are in and have been tabulated.
If your looking for the best female attitude here, the award goes to ForumFilly.
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 11:18:47 AM |
It's my feeling that for the RIGHT MAN any woman could be thought of as easy. The right man being a man that stimulates her emotionally as well as intellectually. He has aroused her passions and she wants him. I'm sure most women have met at least one man like that.
So right.
When will women stop worrying about being labeled and just live their lives as THEY see fit. If I meet a man and he rocks my world, then why on earth should I set an arbitrary time limit before being intimate with him?
The only valid reason to set any kind of time limit or whatever is to cater to your own perceptions of yourself and what makes you feel OK. Other people's thoughts on that should never be counted as they haven't got to live with your decisions. You do. | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 1:30:20 PM |
at first glance, what is it about her that tells you she's an easy lay?
They announce it in more ways than one...a screen name like yours for instance. They allow themselves to get so drunk that they can be taken advantage of. They advertise by the way they dress and by the way they talk. And never mind verbal talk, they give off vibes in body language. So what? Some women are just as horny as the next male. Muy sympatico!
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 1:36:24 PM | usually not just one thing -but quite a few tell tail factors.
-however you don't need to spot them -they'll find you... meeeooowwww | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 5:47:44 PM | | Nice try bornincalgary, but you've got the bulls eye wrong. It's on her bellybutton with an arrow pointing downward with writing above it saying "Instructions below" | |
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 6:23:58 PM | Hey, are you asking for
Trade Secrets?
Pick your mark? Sounds like the "Guess Your Weight" booth at
the Carnival.
It's been so long since I possessed such superpowers but thinking
back to my time overseas.......I'd generally pick up an overall vibe
with a lot of it being non-verbal. This helped in particular since I did
not fluently speak the native language. Certain clues are obvious:
She wouldn't take her eyes off of me even if she was with another dude.
She would touch me often while speaking with me.
She complimented me on how badly I butchered her language.
She laughed at my dumb jokes.
She would dance every available slow dance tune with me.
Lastly, she would ask me if I had an overnight pass. (Thats the Clincher....lol)
Yeah, I expect to get a little flack over this because I was a player when I was
stationed in the ROK. We had a simple credo: Work Hard and Play Hard!
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| how do you spot an easy woman?
Posted: 9/14/2008 6:26:31 PM | 1) Stupidity. Easy women are routinely dumb. If you see that you can run circles around her without breaking a sweat, mentally, then you know that you've got a chance for some easy action.
2) Hoochies. Women who dress trashy are giving off clues that they're into the horizontal mambo without saying a word. If you find a chick who dresses like that, you might have more competition than usual, but the barrier to entry is a lot, lot, lower.
3) Fish out of water. If a chick is a new face, or states that she hasn't been in town for long, then it's easy to spring one of your usual routines on her.
Now of course, I've never done this, so this is only my best guess as to what predatory men do. However, I have a gut feeling that I'm not far off the mark. | |
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