| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 9/25/2008 5:56:33 AM | It depends. Is this "other" person female and cute?
If so, I'd strip, join in, and surprise em.
If it were male?
I'd make headline news for a double homicide, probably in the most gruesomest(word?), torturest, and painfulest manner!
However.......................
Been there once, yet somehow found self-control. I still scratch my head at figuring out how! | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 9/25/2008 6:49:28 AM | I would try not to alert them. Quietly walk back to the front door then pee in there shoes. Go to the kitchen and get a beer and sit down. Then phone the police and tell them someone is raping my wife. Wait for the cops to show up and have them arrest the dude or just fill out a report saying i just caught my wife or whatever sleeping with the other person. That would clear up things in court a bit quicker. Or i could always finish my beer go in the bed room, render both parties unconcious. That would be criminal though and if i was going to do something like that i wouldnt chat about it. Now that it comes to mind, i would peek to make sure it wasnt another women cause if it was i would give her some surprise butt sex | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 9/25/2008 7:27:09 AM | Are you kidding me? lol....If..IF..this ever happened to me, I wouldn't be posting my 'strategy' here. I'd keep what I'd do underwraps. Let's just say I WOULDN'T open the door, see them both, tell them to enjoy, close the door and go make a cup of tea and watch Jay Leno.  | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 9/25/2008 8:34:36 AM | | This may sound like a trivial point, but aside from the fact that she was sleeping with another man, what would bother me even more was that she was doing it IN OUR HOME. I'm not saying finding out she was with another guy in a motel room or was giving him head in the front seat of his truck (and yes, I was lucky enough to experience those) isn't bad enough, but if I had come home to find this happening in my house, where I slept at night, I think I'd lose it. Not in any sort of violent way of course, but he would be tossed out of my house with extreme prejudice (and with or without his clothes; I wouldn't care), and she would be right behind him, along with most of her belongings. | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/5/2008 9:53:54 PM | I'm almost certainly wrong but I thought that if you were cuckolded like that, in your home, in the State of Texas, it wasn't murder if you blew them away. I'm probably wrong. Yes, I don't know what kind of problems may have led to something as crass as ones wife fornicating in ones own bed, but who cares? You can't justify that to me. That is very dangerous behavior. I think I'll move to Texas.
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/7/2008 11:26:23 PM | | i would walk into the kitchen if i was unnoticed make sandwich eat it then take the squirtable mustard walk into the room quietly then stick it in his back door then squeeze while yelling either I LOVE SURPRISES or say in a soft voice shhh just relax and let it happen. either way he would have a mental scar that wouldn't leave without years of repression and therapy. | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/10/2008 1:32:07 PM | | Been there, done that. I dragged his ass out the front door, threw him in the yard with only his shoes, then called the cops...last time I saw him he was running down the street with a box for a pair of pants. Then went to her, she had put her panties and t-shirt back on, I put her in the front seat of my vehicle, drove her to her mom's house and dumped her on the front porch. Went home, threw all her shit in the garage, changed the locks, called an attorney. Never saw either again. | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:48:04 PM | Casexia, I love what you wrote. Scar his ass psychologically (in more ways than one)! Good one.
"i would walk into the kitchen if i was unnoticed make sandwich eat it then take the squirtable mustard walk into the room quietly then stick it in his back door then squeeze while yelling either I LOVE SURPRISES or say in a soft voice shhh just relax and let it happen. either way he would have a mental scar that wouldn't leave without years of repression and therapy." | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/10/2008 3:51:18 PM | I'm almost 100% sure I'd lose it. If I thought something was going on, I'd walk in on it, start yelling and screaming most likely and then walk out. At the very least I'd want her to know in case she was dumb enough to think she had something good going with him. As if he was a decent human being. But then again I'd probably just think she was a cheap slut and wouldn't care if he had a girlfriend or not. They'd probably just go right back at it knowing the guys I've had the unfortunate experience of knowing.
I don't think I'd try to punch either one of them out. I'd probably just take something expensive of his as I walked out the door and run it over with my car. Something classy like that.
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/11/2008 2:59:52 AM | Well this actually happened to me.... I was in a year & a half relationship with my then bf. We tried exploring our sexual relationship prior to me leaving for Victoria. He forgot to mention that the other woman that came & joined us was an ex gf. A week after this happened, my sister & I went to victoria & my then bf stayed behind. My sister got a call from her work so she's needed to cut our vacation short. So I came home early with her- i surprised my then bf for coming home early. As i walked in our apartment he was getting it on with the girl that came the week prior - he didn't know I saw the whole thing as I quietly leave the apartment closed the door & went to my parents for the night & even stayed there for a week or to.
After that is when I came home to our place, packed up my stuff & asked my sister & her husband to pick me up. My then bf never knew what was the reason why I left that day till 2 years after the break up he called me again. To get back at him for the hurt that he put me through I told him that i was engaged and was getting married. I felt sad that it had to be that way, the last thing I heard he went back home to Nova Scotia bec of what he did to me- he decided to become a Buddhist monk bec he realized that he loved me & regret the way he treated me.
So "what goes around comes around". | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/11/2008 5:42:42 AM | That has to be the saddest thing I have ever heard. That you felt you had to be so immature to not even discuss or tell him why, grow up!!
No wonder some men hate women.
And I am NOT saying his cheating was right, but if you had this woman in your bed with the two of you, you invited it into your house. Not that wise. | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/11/2008 8:21:31 AM | That all depends who the other person was.
Is it my house?
Am I married to this man or just a boyfriend?
If it was my husband I would drag the woman out the house by her hair and toss her from my home. After that I am going to be very quiet and see if my husband has enough good sense to be also. I will be debating if I want to forgive or not (the longer the marriage the more time it would take for me to investiagte just how long he has been a cheater, testing for STD's etc etc).
Boyfriend, knowing me I'd more than likely end up LMAO, walking away and packing my things to leave.
My house and boyfriend: I'd be LMAO and packing his things and chucking them out into the front yard. If the pair of them are stupid enough to be taking their time getting out I would call the police to help them out before I do something rather hostile. | |
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| If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 10/12/2008 6:55:02 AM | Well as I shared my experience earlier... Someone apparently thinks I am immature to have waited 2 years to tell the then bf what has happened. And responded this way.
Received a very Nasty email & it goes like this:
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Yes, it sounds to me like you are not willing to take the consequence of your fantasy moving into reality. Why on earth would you agree to being blindfolded and bound? To me that means you have no control over your own desires.
You show your immaturity in contacting me directly to try and explain HIS error. I still see it as you both being to blame. You for wanting the fantasy, him for lying. His cheating as I said was not YOUR fault, but my comment was directed at you being so childish to not even talk to him about it at all. You wait until you are engaged to tell him. And... are you married now? Chances are no, mot likely for some other reason involving you being the "victim".
The fact is you both slept with the same woman. And you are here on a dating site to find someone else. Which means it didn't work out with him, or the man you were supposed to marry. Says alot about how you conduct your life.
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To be QUITE HONEST with whoever you are--The thing was she did come over our house "without my knowledge" till after my blindfolds & handcuffs were removed from the sexual experience - "most couples do experiment to explore & have fun with their sex life", Everyone has a FANTASY. Anyone would agree with me that You dont just plan it - it just happens. It could be a THREESOME, A Group sex o-so either partner would want to explore each other's Wildside.
Mine it was my first experience & i regret that I participated to it but that doesnt make me IMMATURE according to anyone's Opinion. I read this forum & responded to it bec I experience it first hand but to be judge as Immature that I tolerated the experience which @ the end ruined my then relationship- LIVE & LEARN.
The relationship did end and as for me being here "We all need to meet people, it doesnt mean that EVERYONE that comes to ONLINE DATING SERVICES are considered TO BE WORTHLESS just bec they are SINGLE".
WHEN The relationship didn't work so YOU MOVE ON - its both people who decided to end things bec they stopped loving each other or they are not looking for the same things anymore but in my case, HE CHEATED ON ME & REGRET THAT HE DID.
Doesnt mean either one of you are IMMATURE - its more immature if YOU STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP, when the love already ends and pretend to each other that its still there. Or tolerate that HE CHEATED ON YOU Over & Over...
*I am Happy being Single (despite numerous relationships that come & gone in my life)- its part of the experience. Doesnt make me someone who doesnt know what I want & what i need in my life. I have my family & my friends to make my LIFE worth living & AS for being Single & meeting new people I am meeting Remarkable people from here & Loving it.... | |
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