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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:02:46 AM | | The women I've known have varied from "I do it for him" (extremely boring for me) through "It kind of excites me to see you getting so excited" (that's OK) to "I can get off just from doing it to you." Which is intensely erotic. Unfortunately, I've only seen that with one woman, a girlfriend who told me how nasty it made her feel--it was sort of a fetish for her. She'd often have me keep on my shorts or pants, going at me in a frenzy as her brow wrinkled and the flush spread down her neck. Many times, seeing the final results of what she'd been doing would make her come also. This convinced me that "being good at" giving head--and much of the focus on technique in general--is kind of silly. Assuming your partner isn't completely ham-handed, what's really hot is to see them genuinely enjoying what they're doing to you. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:33:52 AM | In talking to my friends over the years, I would have to say its pretty accurate. Most of my friends look at me like I'm crazy when discussing it. Some will do it that don't really enjoy it just to satisfy their man. Guys you know the difference in a woman trying to get it over with and one that REALLY IS HAVING A BALL doing it. I always thought it was odd, most of my hottest friends, the really sexy ones, say "YUK, how can you like that". They think it is really nasty. Most say they will do it. Out of about 20 friends only 1 besides me loved it. I think it comes down to the first time you do it really. Thats the only thing I can think of that would cause someone to like/dislike it, and the praise for it helps too. When you hear that your the best, it makes you want to keep that award. I was open minded to it before ever trying it. I remember like it was yesterday I was 12 yrs old and I found a PLAYGIRL magazine and read the artical "HOW TO GIVE THE PERFECT BJ". I tore that page out and studied it. Needless to say the next couple years was spent practicing and working my up with bigger objects just like the artical told me to. When I finally got to try the real thing, I was in love. I memorized it and it paid off. Thanks PlayGirl I'm a rare breed | |
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Posted: 9/22/2008 3:46:29 AM | | If I had a choice between having sexual intercourse with a hot sexy woman or getting oral sex from a ugly woman. I would take the hot sexy woman everytime. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:14:32 AM | | Well, I can't truly imagine this being true, not only do i love to give it but i most definitely love recieving as well. It is a great head sweller when you have that control over a man. We so don't usually have any control, the man is usually the one who controls everything so to speak. I on the other hand have decided that due to the overwhelming population of sex only relationships, I will just go without any from here on out. Some guy is truly missing out, and i know that from the explosions I have caused so many times in the past. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:23:57 AM | | That number sounds about right to me. On these forums (specifically the sex forum), you're more likely to get people posting who are interested in sex, to whom sex is important. This is also a singles site. Poll 100 women and get an acuurate representation of the population (including women of all ages, races and marital status) and I bet you'll find that most don't enjoy it, but many do it to please their partner. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:12:45 AM | | well that number may be a little high .....most guys dont know what its like to be with a woman that really loves it till they experience it ... me thinks that most women dont really care for it and when surveyed they would say so ...but when asked by her lover most would say they loved it...or when asked by friends most would say they liked it ...it appears to me that most women feel they should like it as a requirement to please their man ...but something psychological keeps them from really enjoying it ...maybe when they were small it was conveyed that it is something bad girls do ...so many even highly sexed women just cant completely get into it ...but most do it and try to make their man think they love it ...and it works unless he has been with a true freak for giving oral ...Its something women should really work on because they are letting their hangups cheat them from loving what they are doing anyway ...and because most men that perform oral REALLY love doing it ...and when a guy and a woman that both really love it get together its magic to say the least...my observation applies to American women ...and I would hope that other societies are less hung up...another sub issue that seams to define this issue is ...while most women feel guilt form doing what they have been told only bad girls do ....about that same percent of women as was stated in the OP seem to actually be excited and proud of thinking of them selves as bad girls ...in the bed room ...so even a good majority of the ones that love giving oral sex may as well think its wrong /naughty ...my theory is that while religion /puritanism has not stopped very many from doing anything ..it sure as hell has prevented many from enjoying what they do...and this is a separate issue from spirituality ..religion has very little to do with serving or believing in God | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:47:14 AM |
.....most guys dont know what its like to be with a woman that really loves it till they experience it
I have had this experience, and it is remarkable. She took my breath away, and every last drop of semen, and worked more tidal force on my blood than any moon on the oceans. Tsunamis, I tell ya! | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 9:38:54 AM | I love oral sex and would feel like something was missing If my lover did not like to do it!!!! I have been told that I do it better than a women! You guy's need to be up front about things and Wedding cake changes everything!!! I am 53 and only date Latin women. It is my experience there is nothing they do not like in bed!! I love Costa Rica! | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 9:46:19 AM | Ok guys ....
I will let you in on a little secret.
Just find a girlfriend that grew up in a small town in Oklahoma.
There is NOTHING else to do but - drink - fight (for the guys) and have sex.
I need to warn you ........... you will never find it again so ..... you will be spoiled for life.
My experience with the Oklahoma wonders was between my two marriages.
On top of being a wild monkey sex machine ........ her body looked the part. She had a fanny to die for.
We would go somewhere - the guys just could NOT stop staring at her butt lol. They would actually drool.
I use to think to myself "buddy if you only knew" lol. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 11:58:06 AM | *thinks to himself* This is a brilliant way to narrow your search of the profiles. Just throw something out there like "girls don't like to sick ducks" and wait for the ones who say they love it. BRILLIANT!!!
I have also seen threads about guys who don't like BJs.
I think they should make that a search function on the dating part of the site.
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 1:13:46 PM |
Haven't you read about Sodomy and Gomorrah?
That's not a biblical reference ~ but it would sure work for the title of a cheap porn DVD. (ROTFLMFAO ~ I can't believe no one caught this before I did!!  It's Sodom and Gamorrah....... Sodomy? Oh how funny.)
In my age group, women wont discuss sex let alone intimate sex.
Wow. I'm stunned. At 62, women don't discuss sex? I've got to call my Mother, my two favorite Aunts, and four POF friends that are all near that age. Good grief ~ those gals feed me info ~ and it's good stuff more often than not. 
Doing it and enjoying it are not the same thing. If women can fake an orgasm, they can surely feign interest in oral sex. I doubt many women are going to tell their new man (or their friends really) that they do not like giving oral sex. Women know we like it a lot. If it's well known that she does not like giving hummers, it could be hazardous to her appeal to the opposite sex.
~OP~ Are you orally fixated???? You come up with stats (which most people agree ~ can be skewed however the statistician prefers) then you brag about the woman from your past who couldn't get enough of your winky, then you continue to complain that liking it and doing it are two separate deals and one without the other is some sort of issue. WHY???  What difference does it make to you who likes it, loves it, refuses to do it, thinks it's one of the Seven Deadly Sins? Just find one woman you like and if she does it just to make you happy ~ enjoy it anyway. All that really matters is that she's taking caring care of your needs and hopefully you are doing the same. (Oh yeah, and pineapple juice matters.) | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 1:19:38 PM | I think the percentage is higher than 17%. Most of my female friends enjoy sucking a man's c0ck. We talk about many different things. Sex is one of them.
and you think a girl friend when discussing sex with her friends ..who also are trying to appear kool would actually admit that she was the only one of you that didnt like to perform oral sex ...me not think so ...just like guys what they say discussing sex and reality not necessarily the same ..if betting the ones surveyed if were asked by their lovers or friends would say they loved it but to an anonymous survey they would most tell the truth...like i said the number is lower than 17% i bet
my wife said she loved it till we were married a few years ..now she will do it but admits she never cared for it
ladies dont pretend that we men have a monopoly on not being completely trufull | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 1:23:08 PM |
Try doing your own study. Get 100 women together in a room and count out the ones who go down on you, then you will have your own accurate statistics. Good luck!
If you only get a 1 per cent response, I'd call that a good study...sorry, couldn't resist! | |
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