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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 1:59:11 PM | Racer.. you're easily convinced.. hmmmm.. 
GoodListener.. You got it sunshine.. we do ROCK! :D 
I just find with us Canadian women.. we're more open.. more adventurous.. we're classy outside of the bedroom.. and well.. you know what we are inside the bedroom! | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:09:36 PM |
~OP~ Are you orally fixated????
Could be, I guess; but, I don't think so.
You come up with stats (which most people agree ~ can be skewed however the statistician prefers)
Saw them on a TV show (as I mentioned in the OP... Remember that?). I thought it was an interestingly low number and decided to discuss it here.
then you brag about the woman from your past who couldn't get enough of your winky,
Thats's not bragging... It's a testamonial of appreciation.
then you continue to complain that liking it and doing it are two separate deals and one without the other is some sort of issue.
Complaining, and pointing out a fact, are not the same thing.
WHY??? What difference does it make to you who likes it, loves it, refuses to do it, thinks it's one of the Seven Deadly Sins?
Just curious aboput such a low number. I'm sure women would take notice if 83% of the male population did not like performing oral sex for them.
Just find one woman you like and if she does it just to make you happy ~ enjoy it anyway. All that really matters is that she's taking caring care of your needs and hopefully you are doing the same. (Oh yeah, and pineapple juice matters.)
Actually, after having been with someone who really likes doing it. It's easy to tell when someone doesn't. Enthusiasm is the sexiest thing a woman can bring to bed with her. Whether during oral or any other sexual activity... Unless she's sleeping with a sadist. | |
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bsg789
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Joined: 12/4/2007
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:10:03 PM | and you think a girl friend when discussing sex with her friends ..who also are trying to appear kool would actually admit that she was the only one of you that didnt like to perform oral sex ...me not think so ...just like guys what they say discussing sex and reality not necessarily the same ..if betting the ones surveyed if were asked by their lovers or friends would say they loved it but to an anonymous survey they would most tell the truth...like i said the number is lower than 17% i bet
It is possible that a few of my friends are lying about this topic. But I highly doubt that most of them are lying. There isn't any strong evidence to suggest that my friends are lying. Many of my friends have said or done things that many other people would disagree with or disapprove of. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:22:48 PM | Half the problem here and I think I speak for most woman. Guys put so much emphasis on it. They always talk about the girl in their life that gave them the best bj!!!-----Not their best lovers, but very specifically the best bj.-----The other half of the problem here ---Doing it "Right" as you put it.-----A little intimadating don't you think?? -----If any girl get even a clue about a attidude like that----She is never gonna feel good about giving do it.-----
Oh and by the way, if you are in a close, loving relationship the both of you should be able to tell each other how you like things done when it comes to "making love"!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:11:20 PM |
Actually, after having been with someone who really likes doing it. It's easy to tell when someone doesn't. Enthusiasm is the sexiest thing a woman can bring to bed with her. Whether during oral or any other sexual activity... Unless she's sleeping with a sadist.
 Huh? What does that mean OP? That Sadists don't appreciate enthusiasm? (Quite the contrary if that is, in fact, what you mean.) As for the rest of your post ~ I can only speak for myself but there are times we gals (and I do believe it's much more than 17% if my close personal friends are any indication) love "giving" to one partner, but maybe not so much to a previous partner and possibly not a partner in the future. It's really about the dynamics of the individuals involved. Personally ~ I could care less about receiving oral, it's not my thing ~ however ~ I've been with exceptionally giving partners who loved it, so ~ OK. What's exciting isn't the enthusiasm or the act itself ~ it's that the other party is doing what they love/like/have fantasized about, etc. (I'm still lost on the sadist comment....hmmmm???) JMO  | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:12:12 PM |
Count me in too! I love to give oral sex more than recieve it. Not that I don't like to receive it I guess if u can find a man that has some clue as to what he is doin down there!
We do exist. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 3:54:50 PM |
(I'm still lost on the sadist comment....hmmmm???)
Taking pleasure from someone performing oral on you, when it's obvious they aren't into doing it, is a little sadistic. Some people get off on making other people do things they know they don't want to do. Especially if it's something they feel is degrading. If one is oblivious to the fact, then it's a bit different. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 4:59:01 PM | He has a point. Do you want a guy eating you ,even tho he hates it, just because he knows you like it? There is a difference between obligation and enthusiasm.
I still call bullsh*t on this survey, tho. I and my friends also discuss sex in depth. We know who likes anal and who doesn't, whose husband /BF likes what, and we know that all of us except one enjoys giving head. (1 out of 15 in our group) | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:18:11 PM | My question to you is, how many blowjobs can you even have at one time? Find yourself a good woman and guide her with what you like. If having the head sucked right offya is what you like then may I suggest you steer clear of the other 83%?
:)
For me, it depends on the man. Manscape fellas that's all I'm saying...LOL  | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:08:04 PM |
Huh? What does that mean OP? That Sadists don't appreciate enthusiasm?
I think he means a sadist would get off on the idea that the woman hates doing it and is thus in distress while doing it.
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/22/2008 10:51:16 PM | I know for myself, If the man doesn't seem to enjoy "giving", I just rather not have it. Now the ones that tear it up.. keep on munching baby..
I think people know when their SO enjoys something or not. As far as being good at it. Although its not brain surgery. Each person does have a preference as to how they like it done, and I'm willing to follow directions..  | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:12:48 AM |
I think he means a sadist would get off on the idea that the woman hates doing it and is thus in distress while doing it.
N.
Thank you!! Yes, that's what he meant. I suppose that means I'm a masochist because I hate doing laundry ~ but I do it anyway.  | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/23/2008 3:08:43 AM | I always find it quite odd that anyone (men or women) can say they don't like giving oral. Surely doing something that is pleasurable to your partner should give you pleasure?
Thats the way I look at it anyway. Its the fact that it gives them pleasure that makes it enjoyable, not the action itself. | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/23/2008 4:41:07 AM | ive been with women that liked it and some that didnt its obvious when they dont and it does make a difference at times .I love giving to a woman because of the pleasure it can give .its great to see her laying there exhausted and trembling and know you havent really got started yet...lol | |
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:14:57 AM | Are you sure you don't have those stats reversed 
The thing about studies, surveys, and polls.... they are all over the place.... what was the sample size, demographic.... Somehow I would not trust "manswers" ... particularly if you are not able to locate the the survey anywhere
Personally with the exception of one or two.... every woman I've ever dated not only seemed to love doing it, but seemed to take pride in how good they were  
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| Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:13:27 PM |
The world needs more women like you... 
The US could use about 588.235% more women like her....
.... if the numbers from the University of Chicago study are correct. (Where "Manswers" claimed to have found the numbers.) Still can't verify that one. The Austrian number they used was correct though. I found that in the Durex survey I mentioned before. | |
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