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Posted: 7/10/2005 9:39:34 PM | nothing but hugs and kissis for u~~~~~~~~~~~~ | |
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Posted: 7/10/2005 9:44:11 PM | I am a bartender on the weekend and during the week I am a stripper..to be honest ladies you all need to feel no threat from a stripper when the guys come in we have no interest in them other than to pay our bills and the majority of us already have a man!!! Well some have girlfriends...also 90% of the men who come know that they aren't going to having anything but entertainment from the strippers and they are fine with that...
Ladies If you don't want your man to go to a strip club then step it up at home and give him his fantasy! | |
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Posted: 7/10/2005 10:22:27 PM | What's your fantasy! Miss texas?
A curious mind want's to know. | |
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Nayrb
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Joined: 3/12/2005
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Posted: 7/11/2005 2:00:29 AM | Strippers are cool some of you people need to loosen up a bit.
When i've been to the strippers my gf at the time and/or my buddies gfs come along!
Its a good time for all dammmit!  | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 8:52:40 AM | | Yes i would.. If i were a gal! | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 11:24:43 AM | You would have to get to know me in order to find that up | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 11:42:54 AM | I just say get some pointers on the pole tricks and  | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 11:51:25 AM | | thats all well and great..but when your willing to give your man anything he wants at home and he still wants to go to strip clubs all the time...what's up with that? And I think him going with his buddies is a bit more dangerous don't you? I mean after all haven't you heard of peer pressure? Most of my husbands buddies were the type to condone cheating...and thoutht it was cool. And if he's coming home to have sex with you after...it's not you he's seeing in his mind at all!!!! It's a lot like going on a date with your man and you get all dressed up and he's eyeing the waitresses ass the whole time...very disrespectful. And the things they say to you like "oohhh why don't you learn how to dance like that?" or "ohhh I know you just had two ceserian sections with the boys, but why can't you look like that" It hurts. sorry I didn't mean to go off on a tangent..just been hurt a lot by things like that. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 12:02:52 PM | | i personally would never do that to a girlfriend. i've had opportunities to do that and turned them down cause i didn't think it was right. i was in a different state when i was asked to go. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 12:25:00 PM | Ive been to strip clubs various time with my friends while i was in a relationship. my gf's at the time didnt care if i was there checking it out, but they mostly all concluded they didnt want me getting lap dances or a face/hands full of boobies.
they set some guidlines and i followed em. nuff said.
i suppose wether or not its damaging to relationship just depends on the people involved...im kinda old fashioned so i dont feel the need to rush out and see naked chicks every weekend or whatever when im in a relationship. ive always tried to discuss grey area's with gf's ahead of time, and maybe they just feel better about stuff like that cause we knew where both of us stood on various subjects about do's/don't of dating.
thye gave me some slack/trust and i didnt go overboard with it. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 12:28:55 PM | | No matter what the stripper sex, there's no sex in the VIP room. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 1:20:10 PM | | well...i stand corrected I guess NOt all men are pigs...lol I know not all of them are anyway just seems like the ones that I attract are. Unfortunately i made the mistake of marrying one of them. Your a good man bugsybears | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 1:22:22 PM | | ahh another good man, how refreshing. yes, you should certainly discuss those grey areas....way ahead of time so noone gets hurt. It can and will ruin a relationship. Nothing wrong with being old fashioned either. i think if a guy feels he needs to look at a naked woman every 30 seconds must be something wrong or something isn't working right. HOoorayyy for you good guys out there. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 1:27:54 PM | I personally think that "the all male review" is far more worse.
Ever have your face humped upside down?
 put me down! | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 3:41:29 PM | Thelostsheep........
i will go on record of saying that i dig looking at naked women live and in person maybe as much as the next guy, but......i always figured it might not be conducive to a healthy relationship if im at a strip club all the time......im bound to sooner or later get some bad, bad, bad thoughts bouncing around in my head. so i just think the out of sight out of mind approach works best with those palces.....maybe other guys think differently, but it works for me.
and to make another point.....face it, guys wanna see women naked...OK. thats just the way it is, but if they so happen to see em, its what they do or dont do after that, that counts. i dunno where women are coming from when they go on and on about how were f*cked up or whatever cause we have half a mind to want to see someone else naked(or the whole fanatsy trip).......its human by nature......as humans in general (male/female) we are usually never ever satisfied with our relationships, our incomes, our possesions, or whatever...always wanting more. seriously if a guy tells you otherwise, and tells you that he never-ever casually thinks about a romp with another woman, then im probably 99.9 % possitive he's lying. it wouldnt matter if your j-lo or christian aguliera, or stacy keebler or anyone....it's bouncing around in our heads...its just a matter of the guys who dont act upon it and the guys who do.
sorry to ruin everyones day, but thats true. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 3:54:58 PM | Boyfriend: No.
Husband: Yes. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 4:23:26 PM | seasons in the abyss :
what you say is true, I think. what you do or dont do is the point, looking at naked women, well men like it and any man that says he doesnt, well you know. I find that even though I am in a relationship as I am right now, the more I do look, the more I want to BE with my woman. But do not and will never, I think, understand that, about a man. now thats the looking part, I happen to also think what you said about the having sex, also correct, and I will leave it at that. :-)
howard | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 4:26:49 PM | sorry everyone. i typed that and made a very small error. it was suppose to be>>
But women do not and will never, I think, understand that, about a man.
sorry again, it will never happen again.promise!
howard | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 4:30:21 PM | nah I dont care if my man does ( thats when I have one LOL ).
I mean seeing a naked girl on stage or on video means nothing. I mean out of all the thousands of men that go, what says your man will cheat with one. If he respects himself and u he wont go and cheat. The more u prevent the man from doing something, the more temptation is there.
I mean I dont mind seeing a stripper myself and I wont go flunk her... | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 4:46:50 PM | I've been with some strippers in relationships so I can't say they are users and are very giving. They work hard for the money but lets get serious it sure beats a regular 9-5 job lol.
Once you get to know one and you like each other enough to have a sexual relationship, things are pretty much the same as with a girl who is a non-stripper. Same fun, same problems. They aren't that different from girls who don't strip. Their job is just unique.
A woman is a woman regardless of her job. If she treated with respect, she will respond accordingly and with satisfaction for you. A women will be a "user" if she feels the world owes her something and she better get it or else you get cut off. Girls like that get kicked to the curb and fast in life. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 6:43:13 PM | Let me start by saying,
If your man wants to go out with strippers with his buddies, however
he makes a big deal about it, No its not nessacarelly time to worry.
But try suggesting when you have nonthing to do and not with his buddies,
"Honey, we don't seem to have anything to do, Why dont we go to the club"
when he asks what club, Well you have the idea,
I mean if you are feeling left out in this situation, Just try and be involved,
keep in mind your man may have uneasy even whats the word im looking for..
ne way, lots of push against it and want to ask you tons of questions out of
frustration and anger. Keep your answers cool and nonshaulant about it.
Just say you want to share in one of his intrests. Who knows if your Into
the Bi-Sexual thing you might even enjoy getting a private dance w/ your
Man. Ne-way good luck.
Storm | |
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Posted: 7/13/2005 2:22:30 AM | Would you care if a few times a year, if your boyfriend went with his buddies to watch some strippers??
Yawn! 
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Posted: 10/13/2005 8:00:07 AM | | WELL I AM A STRIPPER AND YOU WOULD BELIEVE HOW MANY MARRIED MEN COME IN AND WANT TO PAY FOR SEX...GROSS!! OR HOW MANY TRY TO **** YOU DURING A LAP DANCE....OR HOW OFTEN THEY COME BACK....SOME GUYS VISIT 2-3 TIMES A WEEK...DROPPING 200 -300 DOLLARS A VISTIT....AND THE WIVES HAVE NO IDEA I MEAN I GUESS THEY DONT B/C THEY KEEP COMING BACK FOR MORE.... | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 8:01:15 AM | | DIDNT YOU MEET YOUR MAN IN A STRIP CLUB? | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 8:49:55 AM | chill with the caps hon ok?
I don't care and having been to male reviews as well the women behave worse than any man I've ever seen. | |
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