| Men who have been hurt too bad to trust again
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:43:32 PM | Afriad to trust? I will trust a woman with my love, but I will NEVER trust another woman with my bank accounts. My own experaces as well as that of ALL my friends (except one) has tought me this.
This isn't a fear commitment. I am willing to commit. But, I'm not willing to allow ANYONE free acess to my savings. | |
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| Men who have been hurt too bad to trust again
Posted: 9/23/2008 3:09:30 PM | Linda,
You seem like a beautiful, kind person., who feels and wants to help people with their stuff. I'm sure you a very loyal and trustworthy person. I know it's hard because you probably had a wonderful connection with this person, but hopefully you will reach a point to let this one go. If it's meant to be he will return and realize the beautiful person inside of you. Many people have been burned in life. It a choice to take the time to re-trust again. Right now, it appears to be stuck in that painful past. You don't have to be there with him. Take the time to appreciate the wonderful person you are and you will see the magnificant things life has to offer. I just remember when I was in that place of wanting to help and worried so much about others but in the end who was there for me? I was the one getting burned.
Good luck you are lovely inside and outside allow it to shine on a person who deserves you.
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| Men who have been hurt too bad to trust again
Posted: 9/24/2008 5:27:16 AM | Even though you think he has had a hard time, I am thankful that it didn’t go any further than it did. He has deep emotional issues, that came out at the first sign of any perceived problem. He needs help and needs to be square before attempting to meet any lady.
I was in a 18 year marriage, I took all of my vows very seriously, she didn’t. The things that she did when we were married was very spiteful, poisonous and painful to accept. And I didn’t realize how bad everything was until a few years before the divorce. Even then I didn’t believe what my friends told me. I hung in for my babies and now both live with me.
But I made up my mind very early that my pain was from her only. And there is a woman with a heart of a angel out there for me, and I am ready to sweep her up and make her feel like the most precious thing on the face of this earth. I don’t think twice about my old situation, it is water under bridge.
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| Men who have been hurt too bad to trust again
Posted: 9/24/2008 10:20:48 AM | | Kinda like me. I've been hurt too many times b/c I'm too nice but I'm scared to ask another girl out. Too many people tryin to hook me up with someone I feel nothing for. | |
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| Men who have been hurt too bad to trust again
Posted: 9/24/2008 10:41:59 AM | A man can trust again, of course. My ex of 7 years cheated on me with her employer, and it ripped my heart out to find out. It took 2 years to get over her, but I don't carry that pain with me anymore.
The hardest part is leaving yourself open to be hurt again. But if you don't risk, then you don't get the reward. If love was easy and carried no risk, it would happen to everyone.
You can't enter into a relationship with only part of yourself, part of your heart and part of what you can offer your partner.
OP, your "guy" was clearly not ready. Only that person will know when he is ready. It took me 2 years to know that I was ready again. But only I knew when I was.
Sorry that this happened to you. It's not your fault.
I am sure that you will find someone that is your match and is ready for you.
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