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 Hibernian1960

Joined: 9/13/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:38:32 AM
Too true, indigo rose. But a woman CAN be very interested in sex and not indiscriminately- of course, "better safe than sorry" can be a good policy for the male of the species as well. I think, for what it's worth, that having actual sex is part of the selection criteria for men more often than it is for women, who tend to eliminate unsuitable suitors before that level of intimacy is reached. This is my first post on the forum here, everyone seems very nice so far. "Damaged"? Maybe not irreparably, for most of us...
 Sweetbabeblues

Joined: 4/23/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:44:18 AM
Oh geeze...so we all got a dented halo? Who cares?
We can't live and breath, without at least getting our feet wet once in awhile.
Some waters are just better than others, and it still doesn't mean we are damaged for trying.....
Kinda like a sale tag... Damaged good here, reduction on price...."AS IS"....
 redheadlady4

Joined: 11/19/2005
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Posted: 9/22/2008 10:54:55 AM
Dear Likesexyfun: In reading your profile, you are plain and simple looking for SEX, you shouldnt be surprised at the men who will contact you...they too are looking for SEX, plain and simple. If you are bothered by the sexual attention, you need to change your profile. This is one of those "DUH" moments !!!
 toni.

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 9/22/2008 11:24:29 AM
I'm getting up there in age but never thought of myself as the "settling down" type. My main concern was to travel and see the world. I'd occasionally get involved with someone that I knew had commitment issues because deep down I really didn't want to commit either. I also think all my friends and family giving me a lot of grief about getting married and having babies made me rebel against the whole idea. I guess once I finished school and bought my house I thought now would be a good time to start dating again, see what's out there. So I've met someone that has turned me completely around, who'd a thunk it.
 bigmamavalentine

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 11:32:10 AM
Well I would have to say, " I am", I don't think you can live 70 years and not get damaged one way or another..Mine started when I was 3 yrs old and escalated from there...I would like to say I am not bitter and tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt..It doesn't take me long to figure out what side of the bed you got out on, if you're looking for a roll in the hay, just " keep on rollin.".I have a large wonderful family and would love to share them with someone..It would be nice to have someone to go to dinner ( dutch if you prefer ) with and maybe cuddle under the moonlight, or take long rides into the sunset..I love the mountains and the beach..Have never been to "Disney World" and think that would be super fun..I am not able to walk very fast but if you slow down for me we can take time to smell the roses..My last marriage was very painful but well worth the experience.
Well, best wishes to all of you, just pick up your bandages and shoot for the moon
PS: I'm just an old and I love motorcycles.
 sunnybunny60

Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 9/22/2008 11:40:59 AM

There are plenty of single attractive successful men in your age bracket who are looking for a dating partner.

They just don't want you.

If they did, they would be dating you right now.

There are plenty of men you don't want who are asking you out right now and wish to make you their dating partner. You think you can do better than them.

You don't want them.

If you did, you would be dating them right now.
These smart words summ up all the problems in dating: you wanna someone who doesn't want you, and you are wanted by someone you think is not good enough for you
 lookinatit

Joined: 5/29/2008
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Posted: 9/22/2008 2:49:55 PM
I think we who have been widowed go through this. I went through a period where I used my late wife as a yardstick to measure any new women and I was wrong to have done it. With a little time and practice I quit doing that and became more flexible in who I might accept. Although I met my share of winners and losers, things are a lot easier to deal with.
 Olyman38

Joined: 5/12/2005
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Posted: 9/22/2008 2:53:54 PM
""""Do other people have this same feeling?"""

What's wrong with you? Oh ok, well, there are a 1000 threads on that here, so that would tell you if other people have the same feeling.
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