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 ja-son

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 51
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:14:27 PM
This has got out of hand.
Like I just through a dead cat in a field of vultures or something
I hope they delete this thread.
 Fluke Slywalker

Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 52
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:56:27 PM
Now, now Ja-son,

You wanted to get opinions and you came to the right place. Even the sarcastic ones can give you inspiration.

Speaking as an unofficial and unelected and unwanted representative of these piranhas (hey, it’s a fish) on POF, I/we appreciate the glimpse into your relationship. If we’ve been of help, then great. If we’ve been way off base, then at least you can tell the difference.

Or are you wishy washy about everything you do like regreting this thread? Hmmm, is this a pattern?

Let us know if she thinks you are worth her time. Inquiring minds would like to know.
 TygerLaw

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 53
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:05:58 PM
LOL...it's very rare I read a post as entertaining to me as something I write. That was great Sass. I'm going to chuckle about that one liner the rest of the night. Thanks!
 Rewtoo

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 54
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:08:39 PM
I think this whole string is sad.
No I do not think he will ever learn by what I have seen.
 spitfire6844

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 55
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:15:43 PM

But by calling her beautiful I basically communicate
I love her thus acting needy and insecure aka wussy man


Calling your girl "beautiful" indicates nothing other than that you think she's beautiful. It's apparent that you're far too worried about how your statements and actions come across to others, though. Stop worrying about how your friend appears to others, and stop worrying about whether you appear man enough to others. Focus on what you want for yourself. If she has the right chemistry for you, it shouldn't even occur to you what anyone else might think about her.
 curveyone

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 56
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:23:09 PM
I’m a good looking guy, I get girls volunteering phone numbers
And yelling “I love you” that sort of thing.


wow, you too? i have the same exact problem. men are always throwing themselves at me because i'm just too sexy. always throwing their phone numbers at me too, sometimes it's more than i can handle. but what's a girl to do?
 curveyone

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 9/22/2008 6:27:28 PM
ok, here's the thing: whenever i see someone who says they are "very good looking", "hot", etc. and they have no picture, i kind of get the feeling they are lying. i mean really, if you were sooooo good looking, i'm quite sure you'd have a ginormous ego to match and therefore would feel the need for a photo.
 DaveB951

Joined: 4/12/2008
Msg: 58
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:34:25 PM
I hope they delete this thread.

That makes two of us, lol
 w1ld_s1d3

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 59
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:37:45 PM
Hey buddy, you have a very long road of failed relationships ahead of you if you maintain that narcissism. It's amazing you don't even realize how massive your ego really is. You'll have to get over that AND your shallow approach to viewing women. That poor girl probably deserves much more than an illiterate narcissist (unless of course she is just as bad as you).
IMO girls that fall for the attractive guys with no common sense or humility are just desperate to be with someone as attractive as they think they are...
 mogrl42

Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 60
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:40:11 PM
You should send her another e-mail so she can see that you aren`t all that after all.
Are you drinking today?? It sure looks like it.....

You are a short egotistical immature jerk

and he can`t spell ............
 w1ld_s1d3

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 9/22/2008 6:43:07 PM
Oh and BTW, why are you on plentyoffish.com when you have girls crawling all over you, begging for your amazing good looks? If you don't like the forum answers, just start calling all those numbers you have for advice!
 Rdy2Get2KnowU

Joined: 6/29/2008
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/22/2008 6:44:57 PM
A TRUE man can call any woman "beautiful" by seeing the beauty of her in his eyes without feeling insecure about it and caring what others think. Dude, you seem to be living for other people instead of your true self. What a disaster your life is going to be.
 Ismene1

Joined: 7/25/2008
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:25:17 AM
This has got out of hand.
Like I just through a dead cat in a field of vultures or something


Jason, your imagery could not be more spot on. There are a few posts here that are thoughtful and helpful, mustang (message 30) is one of them. For the others, notice that those who are the must venomous in their attacks are often those calling you immature: a bit ironic, that: pot calling the kettle black. Others are just seriously mean spirited. Welcome to the world of mature adults.
 CassaGo

Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 64
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:13:20 PM
The only way this thread could get better is if SHE, the average one, were to pop in with her side. I loved it when THAT happened a couple of days ago!

hey, OP, I don't think what you did was any biggie at all, either way.
 lil red corvette

Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 65
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:25:04 PM
My input... Invest in a spell checker.
I agree with another poster... you have issues with females ....
A basic minimum level of maturity hasn't been reached here I think...

Heaven forbid you think giving a woman a compliment will make her think you're a wuss.... sorry Charlie .... You are a wuss..... and an illiterate on at that .
 funny bones

Joined: 5/31/2008
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:36:25 PM
I can bet you anything you look as "hot" as hell indeed... Why? Because it fried your brain!
If you love her and think she is average and have issues writing her she's beautiful, do the girl a favor and leave her alone and go find someone as wonderful-looking and hot-trotting as you are because if you do people will be wow over the two of you and you will have no self-esteem issues you called someone not so beautiful beautiful although if you call a beautiful girl beautiful she will dismiss you as a bore because she knows she is. My head is spinning already.. but as beautiful as you are, I am sure you will get all that beautifully figured out.
Have a beautiful day.
 takeachillpill

Joined: 9/6/2008
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 3:57:20 PM
Oh boy he just fessed up.....
He thinks he really messed things up
He's hot, and girls fall over eachother
I bet they fight with one another
they all line up to get his number
and he's with an "average"!! what a bummer
While all the other smile at him
he must have an embarassed grin
So drunk he feels a little bad
She's mismatched, AWE that's just so sad

So what's a boy supposed to do?
Don't say she's ugly he'll wail on you!
Oh NO... now he went and messed up
and he is just a sorry pup
The fatal mistake, My GOD it's true
he translates beautiful to I LOVE YOU....
OMG you wussy man, you pansy nancy Mary
as this story unfolds it gets so very scary!!!!
A night mare liken to a cat eaten up by birds!
OMG the man has said the horrible B word!!
Go easy on this gorgeous HUNK
Cuz he admits to being drunk.
He's labeled as a wussy man a lovey dovey fink!
Now the only lesson he can learn...
IS DON'T EMAIL AND DRINK!!!
 Pers14

Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 68
I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 3:59:05 PM
chillpill ^^^

you are amazing! *bows down* I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy!

That was awesome.
 actualizing

Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 69
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I think I just messed up.
Posted: 9/23/2008 4:42:33 PM

Here’s the thing.
Without sounding full of myself
I’m a good looking guy, I get girls volunteering phone numbers
And yelling “I love you” that sort of thing.


We'll just take your word for it there handsome!
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