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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 2:58:39 PM | I am not complaining, that my bf has the libido of a teenager, but I do find it a little odd.
I am sooooo JEALOUS!!!
Enjoy....hmmmmmm | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:04:38 PM | When I was 53, and in a fairly new relationship of about four months, I would usually just see my gf on weekends. One Sunday, after spending all morning in bed, and after doing it for the fifth time that morning, my 42 year old girlfriend slides off me, flops across the bed, and says, "uncle!". Hey, that made me feel pretty good.
Five years later, we seldom do it more than once a day, occasionally twice. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:45:24 PM | I had the strangest thought left over from a dream this morning when I woke up. It went like this:
"I stopped loving you when I realized your hard on had nothing at all to do with me." Any thoughts on this? I'm not even in a relationship right now.... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 8:51:27 PM | | At that age I could never seem to break my record of five times in one day with no chemical help. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 9:39:05 PM | | In some cases, people have more sex after 50 than before because they don't spend as much time at work, or at their hobbys, and have more free time for sex. The nursing homes are a sex buffet, with high rates of STDs. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 9:41:32 PM | | I should of used the term retirement communities instead of nursing homes. Sorry for the foh pah. No idea how to spell that. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/7/2008 10:50:54 PM | Foh Pah = Faux Pas
French for, literally, "false step", as in.....oops. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/8/2008 12:32:08 AM |
I am sooooo JEALOUS!!!Enjoy....hmmmmmm
You know, I have come to realize he is making up for lost time. He says his ex wife did not enjoy sex. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/20/2009 5:46:38 PM |  Oh yes it is..... and I am a lady.... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/21/2009 9:50:41 PM | Something's not adding up here....once a year is excessive, once a decade is about right.
It's like the old yellow dog that just sits on the front porch and watches the shiny new sports car go by twice a day:
"Even if I caught it, I wouldn't know what to do with it." | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/22/2009 12:25:45 AM | | When I was in my mid fifties I was in my first post-divorce ltr. We usually had sex three times a day on Saturdays. Other days it was once or twice a day when we were together. We were each in our first post-divorce relationship and making up for lost time as I see it today. It was wonderful! | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/22/2009 12:44:03 AM | well, since ismene has first dibs on the brother, does he have a cousin?  | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 9:58:34 AM | | I found that sex on a regular basis after I turned 50 seemed to be a normal thing. No longer looking for Power Ranger pounding for hours, just good fun that gets us both off in a decent amount of time. Rather do that a couple of times a day and not try to wear out what won't wear out. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/22/2009 12:42:02 PM | | you can always say no and you can also initiate and find the balance you want | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:00:27 PM | Message 37--gadfly....
So you said before in message number 2. You braggin', gadfly? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/22/2009 9:20:22 PM | | My libido is on life support in my forties, are you telling me things might get better as I get into my 50's? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 12:03:10 AM | Probably because I got even more serious about my health and fitness when I hit fifty I actually have seen an increase in libido since then and it hasn't waned. Women in my family go thru menopause in their late fifties and never have any problems. And I think having a positive attitude and loving life must do something to ones hormones because I could have sex twice a day with no problem.
And I know some hot women over the age of sixty from yoga and other activities whose husbands/partners cannot keep their hands off their women. So I think being fit and healthy and attitude play a huge role. As does smiling, stopping what you are doing and saying YES!!!!! when he asks are you horny?
~Beth~ | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:07:15 AM | | Well I couldn't really comment on this one, I'm not over 50 yet, and my bf isn't either. I say if you've got it, use it, or lose it. Variety is the spice of life, just because your last one was the once a week thing like clockwork, doesn't mean all are like that. It's not odd. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:29:21 AM |
And I know some hot women . . . from yoga and other activities
Hmmm, yoga. I just signed up for some ballroom/salsa classes. Lol. Yoga classes- might very well have some ripe berries there. Lol. Wonder if they have a dress code. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:07:26 PM | | Wow. I see I started that post last Sept. I wondered if after we were together longer if this would change, but so far, we are still in bed as much as possible. I told him last night we had to have sex as much as possible because there is a possibility that some day we would be really old and not want to as much! | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:16:39 PM |
well, since ismene has first dibs on the brother, does he have a cousin?
Does he have a sister ?
Good grief, I'm getting left out of the gene-pool ~ I'd say son, but that would be a tad too young for me I'd guess, so I guess I'll have to inquire about co-workers or friend's of a friend. 
~OT~ I've only been with one man over 50 and he was certainly willing, able and more than capable.  | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:24:27 PM | My libido soared between 45 and 55 - it was like the last dance of the dying swan - inexplicable! We broke up, I'm solo and desire has softened, thank God. Although he presented himself as a "love machine' in the beginning, I think he ultimately resented my desire for him. I was devastated for a few years with the rejection and the disinterest interpreting it to be "something wrong with me".
Count yourself lucky, Oregondaisy! | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:47:53 PM |
I'd say son, but that would be a tad too young for me
Only if you don't want to be a cougar!  | |
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