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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/7/2009 8:06:43 AM | | ^^^ You mean you'd masturbate seven or eight times a day? If I have an interested woman around, I can think of better things to do with her! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/7/2009 10:07:10 AM |
woobytoodsday, I understand "if you don't ask you won't know". However, I can't count how many times women on here complain about men who bring the subject up early on.
Troo dat, lol! But my guess is that the ones who complain are *NOT* the ones to whom it is important. There is, of course, the manner of "asking" to be considered. . . . I just know that for *every* guy that I've met here, the subject was broached by one or the other of us a good long time before meeting. . . . But then, I'm one of those slow ones, who prefers an extended time emailing rather than a "two emails, one phone call, meet" girl. It prolly helps, because we get to know each other well enough that the subject is neither embarrassing nor precipitous. . . .
They all, obviously, didn't work as relationships, grin, but at least we had the sine qua non settled up front. . . .
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/11/2009 12:24:06 AM | I think it’s probably more common that many people let on, although looking at some of the responses here we’re far from dead yet Enjoy it for what it is and while it lasts. Finally; you lucky thing! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/12/2009 5:29:45 PM | | ^^^ I too think it is more common now a days thanks to a little blue pill. I think it is wonderful at that age that you can still show your felings for each other so why not! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/12/2009 7:29:22 PM |
I too think it is more common now a days thanks to a little blue pill. I think it is wonderful at that age that you can still show your felings for each other . . . .
K, this is probably my pet peeve- if you think some pricey pill is what draws people together, creates lust, or opens the feelings gates, at any age, you've been watching too much Tv, or at least hanging with folks who do; and specifically, people ceding way way way too much credence to the huge pharmaceutical purveyors in the barrage of pricey commercials they've thrown out there. Any good salesman knows that the key to success is to convince the pigeon(s) that (1) he/she has a dire problem, and (2) the salesman has the best fix for it. Did you know that almost all the research money invested by the drug companies goes to developing treatments (not cures, god forbid!) for chronic diseases. They don't invest in short-term diseases, no matter how fatal, and if they have found cures for lifelong disease, they probably patent/copyright and bury the damn things, just so they can prolong "treatments", i.e., taking meds.
I am sick of hearing about ED, just from my television, and all the damn email spam and junk mail the post office crams into my box. But now it's all over these forum pages as well. If your partner seems disinterested in having sex with you, that little blue pill is the last thing you should try, not the first thing you reach for- it's just too easy to explain another's indifference by rushing to the ED judgment. I'm no doctor, and I think witches have more magic than shrinks do, but my first thought when the sex gets sparse is that the minds (his and yours) need to be stimulated, not his c-ck. Find ways to bring novelty and excitement back into the mix. Blood needs to flow more freely, and lustily, lol, and the right diet and frequent exercise will more surely cure a sagging sex life, and for life, than any pill ever will, no matter how many facile blue things you prescribe for "his condition". Besides, there are ever increasing levels of all pharmaceuticals (for epilepsy, terminal cancer, HIV/AIDS, all the STD's, anal warts (lol) and every other disease) in 97% of the drinking water in the US. In all the bottled water, as well as all the damn natural formations and ground water as well. No filters are used in the water treatment plants, any of them, to delete unabsorbed drugs. It comes from the constant use by legions of humans over lifetimes (at best, only 80% of a drug is actually absorbed by the taker, and the residue passes on through, back to "nature", and right into the rest of us). Lol, K, I ranted. But my point is that your blue pill may work, for a few hours, for one guy in ten, or twenty. But it doesn't really cure even the actual cases of male performance failure, even when ED is accurately diagnosed. If you want to make a c-ck hard, work on his mind, and yours, first, and the whole body (both of 'em) second. Yeah, way more complex, and time-consuming, but that's where 90% of the problems lie. jmho From what I hear, alot of those blue pills are getting swallowed by all the twenty- and thirty-somethings who think they're immortal and wanna be just like Priapus.
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/12/2009 7:36:15 PM | Thing is, David, if you don't ask, you won't know.
There are a few other forum questions that have touched on this subject and the majority of women said that they resent it if the subject is brought up early on. And by early on I'm not talking about 1st date but somewhere in the early stages if things look like they're promising it would reduce the possible hurt down the road.
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/12/2009 8:27:04 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^Anybody know what happened to this forum question that was up earlier today? | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/12/2009 9:22:28 PM | I never said the blue pill would pull a couple together. My opinion is if a couple of people in their 50's and beyond still wish to maintain a physical relationship I think that is beautiful. If e.d. is a problem and is upsetting to the man/couple then there is nothing wrong with using a medication designated for that purpose...geesh | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 5:50:15 AM | My ex-boyfriend didn't have an ed problem, and had told me that no one had affected him in that way than i did. Being younger, though, i did want it more, but he was able to keep up.
I agree enjoy it while it lasts. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 6:20:00 AM |
Blood needs to flow more freely, and lustily, lol, and the right diet and frequent exercise will more surely cure a sagging sex life, and for life, than any pill ever will, no matter how many facile blue things you prescribe for "his condition".
I totally agree with you.. Men if you wish to avoid getting ED take care of your diet and do exercise. Contrary to what why thinks I believe this to be the main problem and not your mind. Even a strong mind can not make blood flow through fat..
I boil and filter all my water so have to hope that prevents some of these drugs from getting not only in my system but also my little kittens systems..
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 11:07:09 AM | I'm a female and it seems pretty normal to me to want sex every day. I'm 56. The more the better. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 11:09:55 AM | nope. once a day is the average for people between 50 and 70.  | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 7:21:14 PM | Well I wouldn't mind one of those...ie., a man with the libido of a teenager.  | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/16/2009 9:31:58 PM | | I'm not ever as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 12:40:23 AM |
I'm not ever as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was.
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 3:22:16 AM | The good news here is men who are interested only in sex are preferable to men who are interested only in, say, Doritos?
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 6:47:14 AM | | I find My Libido after 50, Became Quite Dangerous ,, I Now Feel My Libido, While Parked is Much Safer. *heh* | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 7:37:04 AM |
I find My Libido after 50, Became Quite Dangerous ,, I Now Feel My Libido, While Parked is Much Safer. *heh*
Well if you want to get it back into park do not eat too much of the following foods..
Raw Oysters, Asparagus, Avocados, Figs, Bananas, Celery, Pine Nuts, Salmon and other fish, Almonds, Eggs, Basil, Brown rice, Turkey, Cheese, Liver, Red Meat, Yogurt and Cottage Cheese
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 7:52:39 AM |
Well if you want to get it back into park do not eat too much of the following foods..
Raw Oysters, Asparagus, Avocados, Figs, Bananas, Celery, Pine Nuts, Salmon and other fish, Almonds, Eggs, Basil, Brown rice, Turkey, Cheese, Liver, Red Meat, Yogurt and Cottage Cheese
Wait - can we get back to Doritos? I like the new Spicy Chili flavor.
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 8:37:27 AM | do not eat too much of the following foods..
Raw Oysters, Asparagus, Avocados, Figs, Bananas, Celery, Pine Nuts, Salmon and other fish, Almonds Eggs, Basil, Brown rice, Turkey, Cheese, Liver, Red Meat, Yogurt and Cottage Cheese.
Ms. Cat are you saying these foods increase a person's sex drive? If so, that's what's wrong with me?............Those foods are almost the only thing I eat......... NOTE TO SELF: Until, I find a man..........I'd better eat more carbs........more pasta, more wine, more pasta, more wine. Do this 10 times and repeat process........ | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 10:47:13 AM |
Ms. Cat are you saying these foods increase a person's sex drive? If so, that's what's wrong with me?
Hi Phoebe,
Yes these foods will increase your sex drive.. However you can always do what I do and that is to run it off.. and reach exhaustion by 8 pm.. lol
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 10:53:30 AM | | Sigh, all these women with high sex drives, none of whom show any interest in just getting laid.....go figure! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 12:14:43 PM | Uh Huh,,I See,, and then there's that kind of Safe,, like,,, What Libido?  | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 12:23:07 PM | rearg, you'd be wrong with your assumption. Any smart woman knows that having a stud in the stable beats (volume wise) having to go out daily and rustle up a new stallion. . . . The quality is likely to be a LOT better, too. (Never wise to take a wannabe stud's word for it, lol!)
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 8/17/2009 12:26:01 PM | Well, I always dreamed of being kept by a woman as her sex toy, but so far, no luck.
Its either because I am no good in bed, or because I don't shower often enough. God knows, otherwise I fit all of the requirements....... | |
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