| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 5:08:58 PM | If libido is nothing but oral.................there is no reason I need to deal with that only. Each to their own, but I am a all or nothing person as far as mates go.
Good Lard, use your imagination.
edit. Nevermind. If you coulda, you woulda. Just a word: there's all, and then. . . . there's more. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 6:07:19 PM |
"I'm wondering how many men are getting to use their libido and what percentage are being told to "put that thing away"? " I am wondering how many men lived with that during their last marriage, and expect that that is all there is.
Seems they really can't imagine that there are ladies out there with REAL libidos. I mean women who have libidos and actually act on them ... with the right man, of course.
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Shhhhhh ... stop telling on yourselves. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 6:17:15 PM | Had to qualify it didn't you cotter.......
Libido is libido is libido.........the age only becomes a factor when you allow age to make it one.......
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 6:21:43 PM | | I suppose there's probably a corollary there. The men who forget all about it, when they encounter certain types of women. The types that go out of their way to attempt to belittle, destroying all thoughts in that area. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 6:29:19 PM |
The types that go out of their way to attempt to belittle, destroying all thoughts in that area.
I'm with you guys in some cases all the fun and romance is just squeesed out of desire .
That's ok I read a few in this thread who still have a yearning and they can be a good catch . | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 6:44:12 PM |
The types that go out of their way to attempt to belittle, destroying all thoughts in that area. Don't know what that means but sure does sound a lot like someone with a chip on their shoulder.
I'm sincere when I say that with a committed partner, there is never a lack of libido.
Seems to me that some men just need to remember that no matter what happened in a past life ... it would be horribly unfair to assume ALL women lack any kind of libido.
Don't forget ... most of us are made a little differently than men ... we won't jump in bed with just any partner. We not only have very active libidos but we are picky with whom we share that with. Many of us need to "feel the chemistry" ... need to know it's more than just a one night stand where the guy just gets his dip stick wet and moves on.
Of course that might be a concept that some men just don't get ... eh? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 7:10:41 PM | Quote]..Ah but those of us who lived in the Great White North know all about keeping warm...we have many months in which to hone our skills in the art of lovemaking [Quote]
Very appealing post^^^^^^
Of course that might be a concept that some men just don't get ... eh?
O well^^^^^^^^^^^
OT Yes we have libidos . They are triggerered by by different things . Mine is triggered by someone wanting the best life has to offer for me . | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 7:12:08 PM | Certain women know not what they do, but they do it, or say it, anyway. They're great women, with plenty of libido. They get it on like the Easter Bunny, with the right partner.
That partner must be deaf or he has the capacity to not listen to a single thing that type woman says, or he just flat doesn't listen. If he's paying attention to the way she treats men, or talks about men, then he's not with her.
If he's with her, he's faking it so he can take advantage of that fantastic libido, for as long as he can stand the rest of the package.
Of course that's all hypothetical. We don't know anyone like that. If we did, we wouldn't recognize them, or understand. The trees are too close to the forest. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 7:32:43 PM | | It's hard to answer this question when you can't even get a date. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 8:03:30 PM |
I wonder if men realize how absolutely BORING and PATHETIC it is for them to come in here and and go on and on about how the women in their past relationships ... wouldn't put out. BARF ...
Good grief ... move on already. Let it go. Stop treating us like we are the women in your past life.
then let it go you will feel better | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 8:58:41 PM | I don't think the libido will enter into it if the woman you're with doesn't get it. Denigrating men on the one hand and blathering on and on about how great they are, on the other hand, is a big turnoff. That's an instance when a man doesn't give a damn if he's got a libido or she's got a libido.  | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:04:29 PM |
then let it go you will feel better It doesn't bother me. I have no problem getting dates, but those men just appear so awfully pathetic.
I just wanted them to know how it looks. They come in here and blather on and on about not getting dates. The "nobody wants me" stuff. Maybe there was a reason the ex didn't want them?
For certain ... if they're going to assume that all women are just like their ex ... then what woman in her right mind wants to hear that blathering on about being neglected ... 24/7?
Women do not want to date men who are continuously complaining about the past women in their lives and how deprived of sex they were. Then to top it off, they imply that any woman they meet in here will be the same.
So why are they here ... if they are assuming that every woman is just the same as their ex's who apparently neglected them ... of course, for no good reason ... eh? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:19:30 PM | Yeah, and what's up with people blathering about someone not being able to get a date on a dating site, when they're on a dating site, themselves? If they're all that great, like they say, why are they alone, and looking, too?
If a person has this great libido, and is using it, why do they have to brag about it? Why aren't they out there using it, on that special, deserving person, instead of pontificating?
There's an old saying, something like, "those that can, do, those that cant, teach". | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:28:48 PM |
"those that can, do, those that cant, teach".
Funny, I've heard that saying in the past, and I just heard it tonight while watching the movie Annie Hall! Woody is talking about his childhood and the school he went to while growing up in Brooklyn and says there's a saying that those who can, do, and those who can't, teach, and then the ones who couldn't do either taught at his school  | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:33:29 PM |
Yeah, and what's up with people blathering about someone not being able to get a date on a dating site, when they're on a dating site, themselves? If they're all that great, like they say, why are they alone, and looking, too? Well there's the problem right there. Assumptions being made that don't always exist.
Not all of us on here are "looking" for a date. Some of us are here just to socialize through the forums.
Personally, I don't need POF to get a date. I dance with a local singles club, sing with a local German club, still socialize with men from high school (we're all musicians), ride my bike with a group organized through the German club and also with our alumni association.
I've been here for over 5 years and have made a lot of friends. Why would I give that up? Just because I don't need a date from POF doesn't mean I can't come into the forums and discuss different topics intelligently ... eh? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:57:55 PM |
Not all of us on here are "looking" for a date. Some of us are here just to socialize through the forums.
Personally, I don't need POF to get a date. I dance with a local singles club, sing with a local German club, still socialize with men from high school (we're all musicians), ride my bike with a group organized through the German club and also with our alumni association.
I've been here for over 5 years and have made a lot of friends. Why would I give that up? Just because I don't need a date from POF doesn't mean I can't come into the forums and discuss different topics intelligently ... eh?
Wow, you make it sound like you're doing just great. Not speaking for everyone, but I appreciate your stopping by and dispensing your wisdom. Don't think it's going for naught. You're someone we can all look up to and emulate.  | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 1:44:44 AM | | Surely it depends what you mean by "sex"? Doesn't have to be conventional full penetrative sex. But if you mean a desire for "sexual contact" (touching, kissing, etc.etc. - I won't be too explicit) then I'd certainly plead guilty to that. However, chance would be a fine thing.......!! Not quite ready to be a geriatric yet!! Still hopeful.... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 8:24:34 AM | "Good Lard, use your imagination. "
I will pass on the imaginary intimacy thanks.
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:23:39 AM |
... desire for "sexual contact" ... Yes ... that is libido. Acting on it is the actual "sexual contact" ... no matter what form it takes.
Having a good libido after 50 is certainly nothing new. A great many of my current patients are experiencing an active "libido" after 50 ... especially when one knows that they are also still having sex ... some are over 90 years old.
Some we know about because we have accidentally caught them in each others' rooms ... others we know about because they are so active they are "rubbing" off the dressings we are putting on them ... their butts, their knees, their elbows ... etc. When we ask why it is they are "rubbing" off the dressings ... they admit it happens while having sex.
We only ask so that we can find different ways of keeping the dressings on ... no matter what their activities are, but apparently the bed sheets are rubbing the dressings off ... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:38:54 AM |
Some we know about because we have accidentally caught them in each others' rooms ... others we know about because they are so active they are "rubbing" off the dressings we are putting on them ... their butts, their knees, their elbows ... etc. When we ask why it is they are "rubbing" off the dressings ... they admit it happens while having sex.
Gosh, that sounds a lot like these folks are being reprimanded by the staff for enjoying one of life's pleasures. Turn a blind eye, leave them be and let them enjoy whatever they are able to while they still can because they may not be here tomorrow. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:49:11 AM | Talk about dieing with a smile on you face .. Works for me 
Men in the womb ......we spent 9 months trying to get out
Then spent the rest of our lives trying to get back in ... Ok goin to my room | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:52:21 AM | | I wonder how it feels to be in your 90s and having to explain to some young whippersnappers in their 50s that you're rubbing your dressing off during sex? I guess step one is to make it into your 90s, healthy enough to engage in sex. Step two would be to tell them to mind their own business. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 8/23/2009 12:31:01 PM |
I will pass on the imaginary intimacy thanks.
Ah, lol! That would have been a touché had you understood what I said. . . .
Carry on.
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