| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:31:58 AM |
Most of the men I know over 50 like to talk more about sex than they can actually accomplish.
Why? Too old? too fat? ED? or blood system problems? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:33:05 AM | I think we all enjoy it, regardless of our ages. I like that saying, "just because there is smoke on the mountain doesn't mean that there is not a fire inside."
They only time that anyone needs to say how much they love it, IMO, is when they have a partner to do something about it with. It is preaching to the choir, otherwise. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:47:41 AM |
Most of the men I know over 50 like to talk more about sex than they can actually accomplish. Why? Too old? too fat? ED? or blood system problems?
I swear, being a nurse is not always good. We know too much about what the different diagnosis' and medications are for and the side effects and it's just too difficult for the guys to fool us ... well most of us.
Good example ... the guys who have their HERPES medication sitting on the kitchen counter and want to convince you they have never had an STD in their life ... 
Even if he has no libido problems, he won't be getting anywhere close to me with his libido!!!! | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 11:06:18 AM | Cotter, I know you are a nurse and can see you are strong. Recent pictures are helpful to check if one is okay...  | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 1:13:04 PM |
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~loves sex
Sooooo, you skate. I skate. Could we skate? Or are you dating some basketball team?
As for you too-clever nurses, checking out the medicine cabinets of "most men" and disclosing their sexual dysfuntions, good luck with that. Those who point and shame direct three fingers back toward themselves. What, pray tell, have you disguised? Lol.
What kind of approach is that, anyway? Yeah, display yourself on an internet dating, with pics even (!), then surreptiously inventory his medicine cabinet, beforehand, I assume. Be sure to check his pockets, when he's not looking, too.   And be sure to run at the first hint that the guy might exhaust your own suspect resources, before you actually administer a field test to know for sure.
JxxxxChrxxx!! If you're encountering performance/endurance problems with "most" of your men, try looking at the common denominator first. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 1:20:55 PM | Well, cotter, you are sounding like a broken record again, or, to update the idiom, a badly scratched dvd. You know, the endless repetition you hear when you playback something with more than a few bits missing?
A good female friend of mind pointed out, quite correctly in my experience, that libido is entirely dependent on who is standing in front of you. javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:40:04 PM |
A good female friend of mind pointed out, quite correctly in my experience, that libido is entirely dependent on who is standing in front of you
This is why both of you are friends! | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:48:01 PM | And this is a problem, because???
As a widower and celabate for the last 4 1/2 years, yes I miss it, but I don't have a wife to take care of that part of my life. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:23:30 PM | Ahhhh yes ... here we go again. "rearguard2" and "whytwater" ... the two sidekicks ... coming after me again because I am just stating the obvious. Just too funny. It does make one wonder why they are so opposed to someone discussing ED problems. I wonder what they are so afraid of the women finding out? What is it that they don't want the ladies to know?
Most of the men I know over 50 like to talk more about sex than they can actually accomplish.  They like to lead women to believe they are wild sex machines who have the endurance to go for hours and hours. Why? Too old? too fat? ED? or blood system problems? Shhhhh ... don't tell them that I told, but it's mostly all of the above.
"rearguard2" ...
Well, cotter, you are sounding like a broken record again, or, to update the idiom, a badly scratched dvd. You know, the endless repetition you hear when you playback something with more than a few bits missing? Nope ... not at all. The lady asked a question and I answered honestly.
I've discovered that basically only the men who feel "personally addressed" by my comments are the ones who in fact have the problems they don't want me to reveal.
Or are you saying that what I speak of does not exist and there are absolutely no men over 50 with such problems? If that's the case, then someone is playing a bad joke on a lot men who are out there buying ED drugs ... eh?
Then there just is no need for the drug manufacturers to be producing all those medications that "helps blood flow into the penis to achieve and maintain an erection" (the description that follows every single ED drug) ... CIALIS, Caverject ICav, LEVITRA, Muse Urth, Viagra ...
... because according to the post from "rearguard2" all a man needs is some cutie standing in front of him ...
"rearguard2" ...
A good female friend of mind pointed out, quite correctly in my experience, that libido is entirely dependent on who is standing in front of you. There's no denying that ...
... except if you have diabetes and your penile "tissues" can only hold enough blood for an erection for about 1 second ... no amount of libido is gonna cure that!!!
... except if you're on anti-depressants or heart medication that have the side of effect of ED ... no amount of libido is gonna cure that!!!
... except if you're eventually so fat that you're producing so much estrogen that your penis will no longer react ... no amount of libido is gonna cure that!!!
By the way ... what's wrong with discussing ED problems in an adult forum? I honestly do not understand why all the hiding the facts have to go on. Sooner or later the women are going to find out and then what? Blame it all on her? Tell her she's not sexy enough to get you turned on?
I'm telling you ... if you want to know about the libido of the man ... just check out the medicine cabinet. " whytwater" ... As for you too-clever nurses, checking out the medicine cabinets of "most men" and disclosing their sexual dysfuntions ... Those who point and shame direct three fingers back toward themselves.
"whytwater" ...
If you're encountering performance/endurance problems with "most" of your men, try looking at the common denominator first. I don't recall that I have any complaints about any of "my men" encountering performance/endurance problems. Show me where I have ever said that men I date are having performance/endurance problems.
"whytwater" ...
Be sure to check his pockets, when he's not looking, too. What am I supposed to be looking for? Condoms? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:35:48 PM | | I hope that I'm not in a minority of males, but if I were ever to get serious with someone again, I would definitely have a talk about my ED. Cotter is quite right that there are many causes for ED, not merely lack of libido or interest. I take anti-depressants, not for depression but for Fibromyalgia. And the meds certainly do affect ability in the libido department. I'm NOT happy about it, but without those meds I would be in much worse shape. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:42:09 PM | My ex boyfriend ODd on viagra.
They couldn't get his coffin closed................ | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:46:00 PM | | LMAO fighting in the libido thread.......I am surprised no man has piped up to challenge another, "My****is bigger than yours arguement... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:52:13 PM | My ex boyfriend ODd on viagra.
They couldn't get his coffin closed................
Ah yes, but in his case, What a way to go!!!
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:54:58 PM | | Guys know that cotter is right, but they are angry to her! Everyone who is obese or overweighted has blood system problems that most likely cause ED. I read some studies that some guys like to suck because they can get it up. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:04:36 PM | cotter - msg 209
I don't recall that I have any complaints about any of "my men" encountering performance/endurance problems. Show me where I have ever said that men I date are having performance/endurance problems.
That's true, cotter didn't complain lately about men with with performance problems.
On the other thread, she merely shared her online IM experience about men flopping their penises at her.
I forget now, whether they were in the flopped state or at half mast.
But as rearguard correctly pointed out, usually those sizes and shapes are very dependent on the other subject(s) in the experiment.
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:09:02 PM | FarmExe - msg 214
I read some studies that some guys like to suck because they can get it up.
Something doesn't add up. They like to suck or like to get it sucked?
What else have you read in those studies? | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:09:25 PM |
LMAO fighting in the libido thread.......I am surprised no man has piped up to challenge another, "My****is bigger than yours arguement...
I'll take the lead,,,
I'm hung like a lightswitch,,, I lose,,,
WooHoo | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:11:44 PM |
I read some studies that some guys like to suck because they can get it up.
Something doesn't add up. They like to suck or like to get it sucked?
What else have you read in those studies?
I'm thinking along with meaning getting lost in translation, so does the humor,,, | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:18:11 PM | "Shhhhh ... don't tell them that I told, but it's mostly all of the above. I'm telling you ... if you want to know about the libido of the man ... just check out the medicine cabinet."
To check the libido of a man I strip in front of the TV during a football game....... | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:18:18 PM | | Now, now, let's not get into a discussion about size, you know it will be like the fish that got away, way bigger than it actually is. Besides it is not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean, that REALLY matters. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:20:49 PM |
Now, now, let's not get into a discussion about size, you know it will be like the fish that got away, way bigger than it actually is. Besides it is not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean, that REALLY matters.
You're right, I'm sorry,,,
It's more like a matchstick,,,
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:21:50 PM | A good female friend of mind pointed out, quite correctly in my experience, that libido is entirely dependent on who is standing in front of you
...I think this says it all.
To check the libido of a man I strip in front of the TV during a football game.......
...My ex would have said...." Move, you're blocking my view"
...maeflowers | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:24:56 PM |
I'm thinking along with meaning getting lost in translation, so does the humor,,,
Oh, I dunno... you'd be surprised - or maybe not - how many men sort of dance around it in their profiles. One reason I quit reading the so-called matches... 'Thinking out of the box' usually means 'willing to try something other than the missionary position' or 'looking for a good, God-fearing woman who likes oral, because of my meds'... Of course, that one wasn't dancing around anything, he was straight forward about it. | |
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:27:00 PM |
...My ex would have said...." Move, you're blocking my view"
and you never bought a VCR or DVR,,,
for shame mae,,,
for shame
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| Libido after 50
Posted: 10/26/2009 5:36:54 PM |
They like to suck or like to get it sucked?
Except both, what else can they do? However, many old guys tell in their profiles they like to kiss and hold hand somthing. That's all! | |
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