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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 9/27/2008 9:17:31 PM |
I also know diabeties can be comtrol and even Diabeties 1 can be totally eliminated with proper diet and exercise.....but guys won't do that!
Another great example of why POF Forums is not the place to get Medical Advice.
A quick google will tell you :
Type 1 diabetes is usually diagnosed in children and young adults, and was previously known as juvenile diabetes. In type 1 diabetes, the body does not produce insulin. Insulin is a hormone that is
needed to convert sugar (glucose), starches and other food into energy needed for daily life.
At the moment there is NO CURE. Stem Cell research may lead to one. So if the OP would share HOW Type 1 diabetes can be "totally eliminated" , I am sure the folks who hand out Nobel Prizes for Medicine will be in contact with her.
Check your facts before ranting OP. You might appear less foolish. | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 9/29/2008 11:00:49 PM | Since starting to date approx. 3 years ago after a divorce from a 25+ year marriage with a monogamous husband, I have dated mostly older men (62, 64, 71). These were impotent. However, that didn't deter them from fu*king around on me, or better said, TRYING to f*ck around on me. I don't know that they were actually able to do the deed, but the point is that they were in bed with another woman/women engaged in intimate sexual activity, although perhaps they couldn't consummate intercourse.
There was a 47-year-old who was also impotent. Now the 52 year-old is impotent as well. Only the 57-year-old could actually have normal intercourse.
I can't believe that this keeps happening to me. I think I must be wearing some sort of sign that only they dan see saying: "Welcome, ye impotent men!" | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 10/1/2008 10:52:06 AM | Happy belated Birthday!!!
Well, heres my lil scoop I am only 33 and hitting the same wall...the last ones I was with or talked to were 43, 39 and 35...and they ALL had problems either getting it up often enough for my personal likes(I think once a day is much better than once a week or every two weeks....omg can anyone say DEPRIVED!) I am a very caring open big hearted person but, I am sick and tired of sex NOT being a big part of the relationship....because at my age and with my drive IT IS! and maybe I have a super drive because there are times I could go on for hours! then there are days when a quikie is perfect...but...just not EVERY day...I am a very sexual person when I get to that point with someone and I NEED sex alot more now than I ever did...is this a cruel joke to men? I mean...why is it when women are in their sexual prime that men are just beggining to and slowing down? wtf?! That is sooooo frustrating! and personally I dont want to go for a younger guy because they are too immature to be in a relationship! Besides I am done makin' babies. I feel for ya grl but...y'know I feel for the guys too...but, I do feel they should be honest about their problems and open...so many more women appreciate that than anything...besides communications IS KEY in any relationship! | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 10/1/2008 2:45:30 PM | I think that this issue is fairly common and not talked about much because guys are so sensitive to it. But from what I have heard, a very high percentage of men who do not
have good health become impotent. It`s like the first thing that goes physically.
I mean if they are diabetic, heavy, High blood pressure, heavy drinker or smoker, after 50, it is almost a given. The guys that stay thin and keep to a healthier lifestyle seem to not have as many problems. its kind of sad actually. For us gals, even if we do get heavy or have these same issues it doesn`t grow shut on us. but man, for older guys, they really have to stay ultra vigilant or it plain quits working. Maybe it is a natural safeguard that older men that aren`t physically up to it,don`t reproduce, you know natural selection of the fittest. That would make sense.
I know that sometimes guys can do their best on lifestyle and something still happens
that they can`t function, but for a lot of them it is lifestyle related. Must suck to be a guy sometimes. | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 10/1/2008 3:49:16 PM | | I'll admit it. I've been sexually dysfuctional... But only with women I wasn't really into, or who turned out to be less active in bed than I would imagine a blowup doll to be. If a man is not able to perform with you; but you catch them cheating, I'm sure it's as much a blow to the ego, as to the heart. | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 10/1/2008 7:30:49 PM | LDYnBLK ( OP )
Having been in a 2 and 1/2 year relationship with a man five years younger than me, who had ED and NO sexual drive whatsover.......I researched and studied all I could on this subject. I joined all kinds of sites and support groups, hoping to find an answer to this dilemma.
What I learned is basically what many posters on here have said already. My guy was on high blood pressure meds, smoked, drank and had no interest in fixing the "problem". I eventually had to end it because being in a relationship with no sex was not acceptable to me. His lack of sexual interest in me was not only affecting my self-confidence, but also my "need" to be in an intimate, truly loving relationship.
To this very day, after breaking up over two years ago, I still think of him and I can only hope he has sought medical help to "fix" his problem. I used to think it was mine, but I learned over the years, that it was always his.
Too sad....
~~weeone~~ | |
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| How Many Men Will Admit to Being Sexually Dysfunctional?
Posted: 10/1/2008 7:41:12 PM | | Don`t worry, alot of times they don`t want to adress their lifestyle issues and know that they are bringing it on themselves so they tend to tell the woman that she isn`t turning them on, to save their own ego. Since one guy did that to me, I watch what they are all about. No heavy drinkers, smoker, heavy guys. I want a love life, and at this age if they don`t take care of themselves , there won`t be one. Guaranteed. | |
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