.. I still can't understand why anyone would come to a forum of strangers and ask these types of quesions about someone they've gone out with or even worse, someone they're going out with at present... unreal, insensitive, self-absorbed, and (onm.. sorry for being judgemental but honestly.. how would he feel if he knew you were spouting off about the size of him and his performance???).

There appears to be some insensitivity to the male in the Op's life. It also seems that the Oposter has a history of being with men who are having some form of ED as noted in another post in her history. MB is a natural activity. This man appears to be loving and generous as far as her pleasure goes.. he just is not responding to her for some reason... I don't think his enjoyment of porn has much to do with his inability to rise to the occassion with her despite her proclimation of being an "expert" in certain techniques.

In any event.. I still find it rather odd that op continues to post this rather personal/intimate topic and keeps picking men that have this condition. Common denominator is who? I do wish you luck in finding someone who is able.