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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 6:21:14 AM | Why don't you just look for someone else to fill in the time he is unable to? You could have a different man for every day of the week.
You are married and he is married so the relationship is only for some fun, what are you actually looking for? A deep meaningful exclusive long term relationship? That is supposed to be with your spouse. | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 6:33:50 AM | | Impossible>>>>>>One must give up something in order to get something as there is no free lunches ,,,So take another look and see what you are giving up in order to remain in this agenda of his Life???As you have no future so why the low self esteem??? | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 6:45:56 AM | Dang - maybe us singles guys should pretend to be married.
It seems the married guys are getting more lubbin from single gals. Or married gals or who the hell knows these days.
OP - I hope it all works out for you two xxx you three or you four. | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 6:51:37 AM | | my take is that you're getting what you deserve for messing around with a married man when you know better. I'm curious to know what's so appealing about this guy that you'd totally overlook what seems to be a huge no no to most women...which is stealing another woman's man. | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 7:02:45 AM | 
I call TROLL post.
Married woman looking for 'other relationship' complains in the forum that the married man she's seeing runs hot/cold with her because he keeps seeing other women too.
She knew darn well that everyone here would jump on her about it.
But she also knew that it might get her noticed by some OTHER married man and is trolling in hopes of finding one. | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 7:07:36 AM | | unbelievable that you'd get involved with someone knowing off the bat that they are married... wtf is wrong with you?? there are plenty of single great guys out there hun, please don't go after the married ones. they only want one thing and they do not intend on leaving their wifey at home. | |
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Pers14
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Joined: 3/24/2008
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 8:10:15 AM | OP - gross. You're a participant in another person's pain. Who? Oh, just someone you and this pig-man have conveniently forgotten. HIS WIFE. Oh, and there's another person that seems to have been forgotten. YOUR HUSBAND.
Get your head on straight, stop talking to this jerk, stop being *that* woman. Can't you find a man who doesn't belong to someone else? You already have a man - you're married. Get divorced before you go playing around like you're single. Get some pride and get a life.
I feel sorry for the people who are being hurt by your and this pig-man's actions. The karma train has its own schedule, but it always arrives at its destination. You're going to get hit by the karma train. Oh, and you're gross.
*edit* I just read your posting history. You're a hypocrite of the worst sort. Disgusting. | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 8:20:21 AM | Hi Op,i think 'hedging' is the understatment of the day.i just wonder if either of you know the meaning of Love.
I think he is having his cake and my share too and a few others.
Fortunately you both got what you deserved,each other.
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 8:23:26 AM | | Cherie, that is pathetic. But I guess thats what bad girls are all about. Ican think of 2 way more seriously important questions you should be asking yourself than is he hedging his bets? Seriously, that's your moral issue? us unpathetic people won't prop that stuff up. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 8:27:16 AM | | a great guy?? are you kidding me! why? does he have money or a good lover? because he sounds like a jerk to me. If he is cheating on his wife, he will cheat on you, oh! thats right, he already is and you are allowing it. Sounds like you need to get some pride and self esteem and kick this player to the curb! | |
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zeeba
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Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 41 | |
| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 8:28:02 AM | Actually, if you all really want some entertainment, go to her "History" and read her other posts. There's one gem in particular about sticking with her husband even through bad financial times.
I love these forums!  | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 8:35:19 AM | | If he was truly in a relationship that wasn't working,he should leave first before lining up the next one.So,if you're still dealing with him on any level,we can just call you homewrecker.I have no sympathy for you. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2008 10:30:42 AM |
Am I wrong to believe he is hedging
How could you be wrong? HE'S ALREADY TOLD YOU THAT HE'S HEDGING 
Didn't you say:
---he was looking for Ms. Right but would settle for Mrs. Right Now and wanted to leave his unhappy marriage when he found the right girl.
If his marriage was so bad, he'd leave regardless whether he'd found Ms. Right or not. But he says he'll leave once she's found.  So what constitutes Ms. Right? Do you believe it's you? How would you know? Does HE even know what constitutes "Ms. Right???!!!"
Way too much ambiguity and speculation in the air with this one. | |
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zeeba
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Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 47 | |
| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 12:17:51 PM | They are both most likely "pieces" of work.
And if you will indulge me for one moment while I rant...I am truly sick and tired of married/separated people either here or IRL who feel the need to seek companionship elsewhere. I mean, really now. Go take care of your own business, and leave the single, divorced, or widowed people to ourselves. It can be difficult enough to meet someone and feel the right "connection" without other needless complications.
OK. Rant over for now...! | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 2:33:33 PM | OMG are you nuts???? Or just have very low expectations?????Pleeeeease.....
<div class="quote"> And for the record, he is a really great guy and a wonderful catch for any woman --- NOT--can't be any of this if he is married and cheating.......
Oooooh now I get it-YOU are MARRIED also---well, like seems to find like...... | |
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| Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets
Posted: 9/26/2008 2:41:36 PM | | This is a joke right? The guy is using you and you are allowing it. GREAT Guy? He's a creap. He is waiting to find Ms. right before leaving his wife. Now doesn't that sound a bit strange to you? You can't be this desperate for a guy. He is NOT a catch. | |
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