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 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 26
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1)Why do you want him to make the move? So you can feel desireable?

Make the move yourself.

2) the two of you are hanging out...but now you want to escalate it to a sexual relationship, that you are officially his gal? That's a big jump, if the two of you are only hanging out. Of course, if he's a FWB, then your real question is how to go from FWB to gf...and there's plenty o' posts on that.

Again, why wait for him? you're a liberated gal, take the bull by the horns and get this situation to where you want it to be. Don't be a hopeless romantic, be a hopeful one !
 Shoedaddy
Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/7/2010 5:36:45 AM
.. You don't, and shouldn't even be thinking like this so early.
Refresher~ At the time, the op had just MET this guy a week and a half ago; and she's asking for a commitment already? ... I really hope most women don't share a similar dating protocol. It's hard to blame men for fearing commitment.
 FunkyMonkee
Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 6/7/2010 7:27:29 AM
I'm afraid it is..... into the sack...... With the appropriate protection = contraceptives not a gun.
 ktori
Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 6/10/2010 9:16:55 PM
Make the first move! If it means asking him out on a real date, do it. If you're beyond that, just get closer when you're together, and plant a big kiss on him!

This is really hard for me too because I'm shy, but I'm also very headstrong and go after what I want. My best two relationships have been with guys that I asked out instead of waiting around, or just going out with whoever asked me. When it came to getting physical I made the first big move with my current BF too. He was being such a gentleman, so I had to just jump on him!
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 6/11/2010 12:20:37 PM

.. You don't, and shouldn't even be thinking like this so early.
Refresher~ At the time, the op had just MET this guy a week and a half ago; and she's asking for a commitment already? ... I really hope most women don't share a similar dating protocol. It's hard to blame men for fearing commitment.


A commitment doesn't always mean marriage and forever after.
Sometimes it just means you'll be exclusive with each other and see where
the relationship goes. I think the time frame for a commitment based on that
criteria is really different for everyone. I would say after 3 or 4 dates with
someone ( in some cases even less) I know whether or not I want to work on
a relationship instead of just dating. But like I say everyone is different.

Nothing wrong with asking for a commitment regarding exclusivity when
you're comfortable doing so. If the other person runs, I guess you've got
your answer.

 vertical95
Joined: 5/21/2010
Msg: 31
How to get him to ask me out..
Posted: 6/12/2010 1:34:39 PM
Ask him out yourself. There is no need rule stating that a man must always ask a woman out.
 deborah815
Joined: 5/4/2009
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Posted: 6/13/2010 2:22:49 PM
A week and a half and you ADORE him? You want him to commit? SLOW DOWN. Wow, take it easy already. What's the hurry? You're all fired up, cool down just a little and things will go nicely for you.
 ExquisiteEccentric
Joined: 3/30/2010
Msg: 33
How to get him to ask me out..
Posted: 6/14/2010 5:22:59 AM
LOWER YOUR FEES !!
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