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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 8:52:59 AM | | So, men like to give women backrubs. I prefer to give the backrubs, but more because I like the feel of my finger tips on his body. From the day we are born we start learning through touch and there is nothing wrong about knowing what your SO feels like compared to everyone else. Blame it on my irrational fear of going blind. lol I even have been told I am constantly touching in my sleep. | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 9:19:03 AM | Geeeez Louise.... if a guy puts it in his profile that he gives good backrubs, you women would be in here starting a thread saying "is he just trying to get in my pants?".
But then again that applies to damn near anything a guy puts in his profile.  | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:05:18 AM |
Geeeeze Louise.... if a chick puts it in her profile that she gives good head, you men would be in here starting a thread saying "why won't she reply to my 53,872 messages?".
But then again, that applies to damn near anything a chick puts in her profile.
Oh no you didden...
Take a stroll through the forums... you're a veteran here...
If a guy opens a door for you, he's trying to get in your panties.
If a guy doesn't open the door for you, he doesn't care about you.
If a guy buys you flowers, he's trying to get in your panties.
If a guy doesn't buy you flowers, he doesn't care about you.
If a guy mentions sex in his first email to you, he's trying to get in your panties. (And it's not because she has pics in her profile where she is deliberately leaning in front of the camera to show 3 miles of cleavage.)
If a guy says he'll treat you like a princess, he's just trying to get in your panties.
If a guy gets in your panties on the first date and doesn't call you before he gets home, he's a player, and he doesn't care about you. (Hint... hold out a couple of dates before falling out of your panties)
If a guy wants to give you a backrub, he's trying to get in your panties.
I could go on, but I'm tired of typing.
Oh and
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:14:18 AM | You a re correct.. If you offer up any...and I MEAN ANY of the aforementioned services ESPECIALLY the back rub, you are attempting to get some...
I mean think about it, if you do anything aside, for common human decency... Then it is extra..So why would you do extra for a person you DONT KNOW? Unless....you wanted something.
What that may be is completely up to the person.. But in the beginning all you have to GO on are looks. So services offered are based on physical attraction..... | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:33:18 AM | Damn, Libra. For that, I think I become Canada's new favorite son!!
RacerMatt--you took the words right out of my mouth!! I think I've found the thing to put in my profile. Offer backrubs and oral. I'll bet I'll get many more responses then. | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:58:05 AM | Touch and feel is GREAT, with the right person...why would anyone even have to even ask? For my special guy, I'd love to learn how to do backrubs and massages, too.
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:03:30 PM | | Because a lot of men find women's backs a very beautiful part of the female anatomy. My ex-husband would always come and wash my back while I took a bubble bath because he thought I had a beautiful back and then when I was done, he would rub lotion on my back, I never asked him to, it was something that he enjoyed doing. Sometimes, it led to intimacy, but not always, it was just something he enjoyed as did I. Sort of like when a man brushes your hair, just a very intimate pleasure that two people share. | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:06:34 PM | hmmmmm -why do you think we like to give women back rubs? its a token of affection, maybe she will do ours next, maybe some passionate kissing, maybe a jump in the sack. why start at the back? try starting at the top of her head and work down, hair, earlobes, neck, shoulders then the back. who knows our fate until we try it on her one thing for sure: if someone wants to rub your back -they are thinking about the same way is the person whos back is being rubbed... | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:14:57 PM | Yeah, and when all is said and done, the importance of the connection between two people is immeasurable.
Honestly, nothing is truly more important.
Btw, supernovastunnah, you owe me an email. Lol... | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:31:11 PM | Getting a backrub from another person be it male or female, is an erotic enounter. It can bring you to a place in a relationship that ypu never knew existed. It can make feelings surface that weren't there prior to the backrub....
Its a sensous act, and the slightest move can be the trigger that sets off the emotions and sensory receptors in the brain.
Don't question it, go for it, it might be an innocent gesture or a kinky surprise! | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 9/28/2008 1:32:13 PM | Massages are the "weed" of the intimacy world.
It can lead to harsher things!
If the two of you mesh well and the communication is good, then the massage is the key to the treasure chest.
If the two of you aren't clicking that well, she's not going to let you give her a massage.
Massages are a great prelude to sex too.
Think about it. You're now all loosened up and relaxed. Plus, the massage has pre-fired all of those little pleasure neuro-transmitters.
But, I'm good for a massage in a relationship too.
BTW, I'm sure that the guys whom dry-up with massages after getting married, are also the same guys that report that sex dried up after getting married! | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 10/30/2008 6:17:47 AM |
LISTEN LADYS GUYS LIKE TO THINK WE LIKE TO GIVE MESSAGES BUT UNLESS YOU ARE REAL HOT LOOKING OR HAVE A NICE RACK C CUPS OR BIGGER . IF YOU LIKE US TO GIVE U A MESSAGE WE THINK U ARE A HORNY LADY LIKE US. IF U LIKE MESSAGES U WOULDNT ASK ASTRANGER . SO THEN IF U SAY YES TO ONE OF THIS GUYS BE PREPARE CAUSE IT WILL BE MORE THAN YOUR ASZ U WILL LET HIM HAVE.PLUS A MASSAGES LOL. JUST SAY NO NO CAUSE WHY WOULD U SAY YES .HOW MANY FEMALES SAY I WILL GIVE YOU FREE RUB BACKS NONE.CAUSE SHE EITHER WANTS MONEY OR IS FAKE.WITH US IS A TURN ON 2 SUCKER U IN ,IN GETTING ONE HA HA LOL.
Try learning how to command the English language before you try speaking it, and failing miserably... | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 10/30/2008 6:21:11 AM | | cause it goes from , hey let me rub your back ...... to ..... let me massage that crack ( ass ) ..... then a cpl hours later ...its ,,, no i said lick my sack ... wow my ryming ability is really getting better since using hooked on hydroponics ... lol | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 11/5/2008 10:06:02 AM | Becouse it gives them a reason to put their hands on your body, for most its a turn on and they know it !!! so then the hands keep wandering ....... and wandering.......wow , i need a back rub..  | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 11/5/2008 10:56:57 AM | Because I am very good at it, including doing a connective tissue massage.
And of course it can lead to sex, but doesn't need to. I have often given massages to my significant other, just because. And when I am going out with a new woman, I will often give a massage, and NOT expect sex.
But you know what happens don't you? If we don't end up in bed that date, I can almost guarantee it will happen the next time.
The important part I find is not to expect sex or let "your hand slip". It builds trust, and desire.
Oh, and finish off with a foot massage. It leaves 'em wild... grin. | |
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| Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 11/5/2008 2:39:59 PM | I would Pimp a man for full undivided attention at this moment!
Oops sorry back to normal, who knows, I just glad they do!
Wanted One Back Rub!!!! | |
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