| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/5/2009 6:00:06 AM | | nice to know I wasn't the only one feeling that way. I have found the same thing. alot of guys think this is just a way to get sex. There are good guys out there you just have to keep looking. I found one. Good luck to you | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/5/2009 8:13:33 AM | MAN BASHING!!! Yes there are some guys out there who are looking for a good time yet women tend to mistake what there all about.... Remember men like sex just as much as you do, most women use it as a damn weapon, yes I do know this... Some women use it because they feel its all a damn man wants and hey lets land that good guy and do em tonight.. <-----that is the reason they usually dont call you the nest day or ever again girls... Guys are mostly looking for the same thing we are, a companion. Someone to share there time with that is REAL... The problem is that 70% of them like to play games, wrap themselves up into to much drama and crap.
They don't wanna hear about your 20 last horrible dates hun. They wanna hear about you. If women took the time to actually be REAL and themselves without sitting there feeling like oh my god all he wants to do if F&CK me you might get somewhere. There men, not aliens. There not hard to understand. Just take the time and quit looking at all of em like there a walking man whore. Get real, there men, they love sex and since when was that a crime girl.. You are right they are looking for sex, but its not like you have to screw em to land a good decent guy......
WOMEN CONFUSE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EVEN THOUGH I AM ONE!!!!!!!!
ENOUGH WITH THE FRICKIN MAN BASHING, THERE NOT ALL BAD!!!!!! | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/7/2009 11:21:58 AM | I'm not for certain if the above poster is actually a female, for as we all know pictures are NOT always the truth. But it just doesn't sound right to me!
But if one is Jewish or Christian when does the scriptures teach that the 'bedtime story' is to be experienced? | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/7/2009 3:00:59 PM | Oh honey.. I am ALL FEMALE!!!!! Have fun searching on here. You probably will not get many to reply to you that are worthy of your godly ways with your tits hanging out and you practically master bating with the damn camera...... There are guys on here that I have met and I am all female, just sick of all the women that do there man bashing on here just because a guy is horny... It's in there nature, but it does not mean you have to sleep with em or that they want you to sleep with em when you meet em.. Give me a damn break and grow the F**K up girl!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/7/2009 8:32:11 PM | I hear this all the time from women I talk to here. My guess is a lot of guys just look at it as a #s game. Ask enough women and someone will say yes. I think it's a sad commentary on online dating and modern relationships in general.
Personally I have no interest in sleeping with a complete stranger. I prefer to wait for someone who stimulates me mentally as well as physically, and can carry on an interesting conversation. Someone that I can enjoy on many different levels, and who I like and respect as a person.
I enjoy the anticipation, the flirting and the seduction. Being playful with each other adds so much pleasure when the time is right. I don't like rushing something so intimate and potentially powerful. Give me quality over quantity anytime.
Otherwise why not just get a blow up doll?  | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/8/2009 6:49:23 AM | | your right .but you share blame also .why?because you went out with him.i bet he didnt look so handsome when he tried to get you in bed so quick.looks are overrated most of the time.heed my advice hun. | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/8/2009 2:52:49 PM | Hope your not talking to me about that... I don't look for a quick fix in the sack!
I too look for quality and much much more when I go out.. Call me picky! I just get sick of women like the vixen giving the good girls that have heads on there shoulders and no drama a bad name! So like the rest of us I am still  ! | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/8/2009 2:54:24 PM | | its normal. just put them on cruise control or stop them in their tracks all together. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2009 11:07:25 PM | | Well unfortunately most people don't read your profile, they look at your pic, wonder what you would look like naked, and then decide if your worth the chase. There are some good guys out there you just gotta weed through all the blowjob requests for $60.00. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2009 6:29:18 AM | | vixen.i know people like you.do as i say not as i do.how can you say your a good christian.your gallyventing around in clothes hun that a good women would not wear.then you said a man has to have all this money.jesus himself could not live up to what you want.i thought the models i date are materialistic wow you take the cake.leave it to a bible thumper hot gossipler in the market place to nkow all.do you know anything about your faith.not what they teach in church.because they teach tradition not education.did you know jesus was black.he had hair of wool and feet of bronze.i know your a bible thumper but you will not get it.he was black he was a jew.the first jews were black from ethopia.there called the 13 tribe.read arthur costers book the 13 tribe.he is a jewish scholar .the jews you see now days are from europe they are reverts are converts to judiasm.mother marry and moses were from eygpt they also were black.i think befor you talk about the bible you need to know something about it.here is the christians punishment for saying jesus was god.read it .king james verzion of the bible.romans chapter 1 verse 23-27.it might change your mind about what you say.but like most bible thumpers you will not get it even though its in your book.i have alot more money then you would require and i would never be into you .why its not just the un classy way you dress its what you say .you are miss in formed and i bet you get upset when men come on to you.they will keep doing it because the way you carry your self.i am not hating on you just do not get you at all.go talk to your pastor as him the stuff i said show him romans .you have never heared of it because they do not teach it he will be shocked but he knows its there.befor you get mad at me get mad at your book because thats were we got it from. | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/10/2009 6:29:10 PM | Well here is my take on things:
If you dress up like Halloween, you are going to attract ghouls. In other words, if you post ALL "playboy like" pics flattering your breasts and other parts, then you will most certainly attract guys who think you are looking for sex. I mean ONE "sexy" picture is fine, but not FIVE... it really sends the wrong message. I have one shirtless pic.. but only one mainly to emphasize I love going to the gym.
If you really want a guy to love you for your personality and qualities, then don't sleep with him on the first date. If he sticks around and waits for "it" then you know he is looking for a bit more than to get laid. Most guys after sex will ditch you after the third date max if they are just looking for sex. If they truly like you, they will stick around.
Just my 2 cents | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 7:18:21 AM |
Anyway, for you... your profile says pretty clearly:
Since I'm not the typical female ( I hate shopping especially for shoes,
I dont nag and wont refuse sex!)
Surprise, surprise.
All humor aside, I think your profile and your post here signify a need for you to sit down and assess what you really want. It sounds to me like you may have a few issues with self-confidence and security.
But that's just my take on it. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 8:52:34 AM | "But if one is Jewish or Christian when does the scriptures teach that the 'bedtime story' is to be experienced?"
vixen.... I think you might consider some of the more current works that interpret and modernize the imagery and symbols in the song of Solomon ..... talk about hot and sensual intimacy.... wow!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 6:57:37 PM | For the above poster:
Yes, Song of Solomon has a lot of sexuality in it. Nothing wrong with sexuality but what were those women that Solomon was writting about?
They were Wives and Concubines: did I say Wives of Solomon or Concubines?
For those that don't understand a Concubine was simular to a wife but did not have the same legal status as a bride.
No where in the Song of Solomon does Solomon justify nor hint to making love to whores!
POINT: The Bible emphasizes a married relationship to obtain sexuality. NO WHERE does it condone sex out of wedlock with the exception of Concubines. And *IF* you read the New Testament, Christ is talking about the corruption of the Mosaic Law many times.
The Concubine relationship was borrowed from other nations and NOT meant to be the example for others to live by nor endorse.
Solomon's great compromise eventually usurped Israel's finances simular to 'Georgy Boy' formerly in the White house: and Israel eventually went into revolution when Solomon's son took the throne.
Point being, SEXUALITY was reserved for the bond of matrimony and considered whoredom outside of wedlock! | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 7:14:09 PM | Gotta love "whoredom" then.......
Do you mean that I must give up all those concubines running around my house? God, I hope not because they are the ones that keep me happy when not married.........wait......and when married as well........
Having multiple lovers and slaves that you controlled and owned is still around today, we just have different terms and meanings for the same situations.
Just my opinion........   | |
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Posted: 4/11/2009 8:26:22 PM | i found this topic really interesting, and wanted to give my opinion about "going from hi to bed", so here we go....
i think people like sex and they aren't intimidate for it anymore, this is future for many of us, but for me this is just present!!!
i dont judge anyone, people do whatever they wanna to be happy, and when we talk about sex is important you find people with the same interests, otherwise its not gonna work well for sure! if you want to have a relationship, you must get to know the person and all the stuff, its really important, it could be the person you would spend the rest of your life with, we never know! but relationship doenst really work for many of us, not right now, probably in the future!
"Hi to bed" is sooooo normal, it happens all the time, specially on night outs. as i said you just need to find the right person, the "hi to bed" people are everywhere, you can see in the eyes, seriously!!! i'm one of them, i can tell!!! its sooo fun!!!
so if you are being happy on getting to know someone or f***ing them, it doens't matter, just be happy, make people happy!!! maybe you will regret, but then you will learn!!
please dont get me wrong, i'm a good boy!!! | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 12:37:18 AM | For post #160:
Jesus was Black you say. Well everyone knows that Mohammed was actually one who was taken in ships from what is now N. America, a great native Cheiftain. And anyone studying history knows Budda was born in Spain and originally Catholic. And the Vikings weren't from the Scandanavian regions at all. The Vikings were in all honesty from what is now South Africa.
Why is it these people who DO NOT have the courage to post pictures on their profile think they will have much if any credibility with 'street talk' of this style of HYPE?
Tell me, since Thomas Jefferson felt Christianity was a great scam and wrote his own feralized version of the Bible should it replace the cannonized worthy translations?
In other words just because one DOES NOT like what is written in the Bible on pre-marital sex should they illegetimize it further by lying to acheive their twisted agenda?
NO wonder I'm so picky about the man I will marry. Some here think Hefner and Flynt are ministers to guide them down their twisted road! | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 5:38:43 AM | Your profile put the big neon sign out "open for business-NOW".
It's no leap from Hi to Hot. So, pretty much its a moot point. | |
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Posted: 4/25/2009 8:52:51 PM | OK VIXEN!!! No OFFENSE but enough with the damn bible thumping crap... So your basically ridiculing my thought process on what a MAJORITY of women do because you are putting me, myself and I into that category as well..??? Don’t go there… You don’t know who I am or what I am about, remember if I was a guy you wouldn’t talk to me because I don’t have my resume and life story in my profile.. Wooops.. So sorry….
I would like you to take a look at post 167... Now that is a guy telling the total truth… Does that make him the sinner??? Well here we go again… I was born and raised in a Mormon household… I could rip your beliefs a new a**Ho*e but I dare not because I respect that others have religion in there life and that, that is something they want… For you to sit here and bible thump to me makes me nauseated… It states in the bible that you are not to judge others as that is a sin to… Now if you were such the good bible thumper that you are then why does your profile judge and bash every man out there. I have talked to a few guys on here that are very nice, decent gentlemen and you gave them the riot act when they simply said hello… You come off as a total mental case…. I think you need to check yourself in hun… The crap you trying to break down in what I wrote in post 152 is just an opinion honey, and opinions are like as*Hol*s we all got one!!!!!!!!
So your basically calling all women that have ever just slept with a guy to sleep with him, even if it happened just once a HARLOT??????? That is funny….
““ATTENTION ALL LADIES””” If you have slept with a guy and you are not married to him you are a TRAMP AND A WHORE AND A HARLOT… Just ask lovinvixen this is what she is saying… Oh my goodness…
LOVINVIXEN - To simplify what I was trying to clarify in my first original post….. I am all female… I am sick of drama queens like you that give me a bad name and make it so any MALE I ever meet ask me if I am nuts… Your profile goes on and on about wanting the spiritual righteous guy yet you contradict everything you say in your profile. You put women down for having sex, yet you state you’re a lingerie model and your trying to be sexy while molesting your pictures???? WTF is that all about??? Oh and you want a hubby to watch and were the bad ones because of sex??? You make no sense because no matter what you say to anyone you will never be taken seriously by anyone online because of your profile. Because of your pictures. And because of your caption… Basically you portray yourself as someone that is easy looking for a nice one night stand… So therefore you will be treated like one with the men that contact you because not everyone reads profiles till after they contact the person.. Most base things solely on looks with the first email then read profiles after saying hi… Also after the ones that do read profiles are done reading yours, they run like hell. Your profile portrays someone with NOTHING BUT DRAMA in there lives yet you say there is none..LOL..…. IN A NUT SHELL YOU ARE A NUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You must have been thinking of what to say for a long time because it took you long enough to respond.....
PS. I NEVER ONCE STATED MY OWN RELIGIOUS OR SPIRITUAL BELIEFES.. NOR WILL I!!!!!
Janice Marie
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"Janice Marie is and unlicensed, bipolar schizophrenic, psychotherapist; trapped, like most of us, in Reno, NV. She knows where she wants to go and how to get there, but fears she won't make it because of her fu%ked up head. All opinions by Janice Marie are with said emotional issues that come along with the few bottles of medication taken for mental issues!! The Dr. requires her to get out at least once a day before she is restrained to her quarters! Please do not hold Janice responsible for any decisions you actually make!!!!! Tune to openlybi775's profile for more of her freaky babbles!!!!!" | |
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| Going from Hi to bed??????
Posted: 4/26/2009 9:13:08 PM | If you send the message on your first meeting that sex is a need, want or desire then the guy is going to ...leap towards it. Why should he waste time courting when he believes that is all you want?
I know, I have been there and done that and hold myself responsible for it. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 12:27:20 AM | There is a lesbian woman who hated men. She was never thrilled about the way men seem to always have sex on their minds. She and her girlfriend talked about it and, after some time, decided that she was going to get a sex change. So she underwent hormone therapy and got the nip n tuck. She always had a good lebido but it didn't prepare her for the testosterone factor. She said that going through the increase in testosterone was a real eye opener.. she said that she went from essentially flatline to wanting to hump everything all the time! And her hatred for men turned into compassion and she honestly looked up to men after that. To have that much urge pulling at you and to be able to resist it as men do she had to respect men.
If a man has a chance to sleep with you and he's attracted to you he will! But it's important that you understand that "that may not be all he's interested in!" It's YOU who says, 'he just wants to sleep with me'. How do you know he JUST wants to sleep with you? Yes, he might... but he might not! You don't know because perhaps you've got your guard up, and if you start to think differently you're going to act differently, and in this respect perhaps you have pushed them away because they can sense the shift in your disposition.
Men want the same thing women want, to be in a relationship and to fall in love. And they also want sex. What's wrong with that? Nothing of course, it's natural. Women also want sex, it's just more likely that they'll want to be in a relationship and have sex or at least have the potential for a relationship first. A guy may feel pressured to dangle the relationship string to a woman to get sex as much as a woman may dangle the sex string to a man to get a relationship.
If you hope to get into a relationship you need to be able to let go of past relationships, even those dates that went bad or that guy who turned out to be a jerk. Karma is not as cliche as "what goes around comes around", it's when you haven't understood something of your past and you bring it with you to the present, affecting your behaviour or your decisions. When you start to doubt the new men in your life based off the old men in your life what kind of vibe do you think you give off? When you're into someone you want to feel that magic, don't you? So do they. Can you be yourself when you're fearful? And if you aren't your amazing self who are they supposed to feel the magic with?
So, approaching a date, expect the guy to want to sleep with you. Just don't assume that's all he wants to do. Also a guy loves when a girl takes some initiative.. if you go out on a couple dates, or a few dates, keep the momentum going so he doesn't think he's working for nothing. I hope you know I don't mean just sex. You are the prize. | |
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