| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/27/2006 11:22:04 AM | | The women I've been with don't appreciate active sex for long periods of time, but Do appreciate having me cum many times. They enjoy giving and receiving orgasms if it doesn't become work. If it's been awhile I can cum four times in an hour, and then it takes a bit longer after that. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/27/2006 11:22:48 AM | | OP, there's much more to making love than just being able to stick in it and and just being able to go for a long time...that's something some men, and some women, don't seem to get. Read "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner and then read "He Comes Second" by him...both men and women can learn something from these books. BTW, most men I know, younger and older, can do the same as you (and without resorting to viagra), so I don't think it has as much to do with the sex drive as it does with general health and one's own biological makeup. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 4:07:06 PM | I am honest to goodness not gonna lie to ya'll.
Stamina don't mean alot to me. I mean, I think my all-nighter days are over, well... at least I hope they are. I ain't into endurance stuff. That's just too much pressure on a man.....REALLY ! Ain't it guys? I mean, if it's good it's good....but enjoy it ...there's no need to prolong anything.
I just want maybe an hour of the best ya got. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 4:29:55 PM | I can relate -I can go pretty much the same -The third round can be lengthy- even a forth is possible -When I was younger even more. It's been a problem. Some women seem surprised that I'm still hard after round one and ready to go again within a couple of minutes.
Going and going is us guys just wanting to get off again and again (kinda drug like I think).
Women after a while will tire and just figure out that's just about the guy getting off and they will soon bale.
If the woman is climaxing right along and enjoying it go for it. But if she gets to a point of just endurring it-your days are numbered. (been there- done that :( )
Good communication and knowing when you have the green light for a marathon session is key. EXPECTING it every time is not realistic with a lot of women. Also wanting it daily as I do can put you in the same boat. Finding a lady with a truely high sex drive will help. Many will act like they do early in relationship but are just trying to please their man-this usually ends in disaster. Also my experience with nympho types are are dream for a while -until they stray. let's just I hear ya brother!
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 8:25:39 PM | | Sorry jmill not that much....it's not how long you can go at it......but what you do that counts......it could be 10 minutes of mind blowing sex or three hours of boring.....personally I'll take the ten minutes...... | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 11:14:53 PM | I'm a male, from personal experience and a few quesses.
I try not to be greedy, put her first. Goal: Make her happy therefore making me happy too, sort of submissive. Depends on how big you both are (sexual compatibility) to how long until she gets sore. Can be less than an hour, so lookout for signs that she wants you to stop. If she isn't pleased by this stamina, you're being greedy.
Sex isn't all about what's downstairs anyway, it's a full body and mind experience. Gentle or vampiric (If she likes it that way) around her neck and breasts with your lips and breathe should revv her engine; Tell her about how good she smells and tastes. Use your hands to caress. Some of this may be better for her than all night intercourse, like 10 mins maybe?
What one loves, another may not like so much though. COMMUNICATION of some sort can help you figure out what YOUR lady likes.
This may be why they left you, zz, boredom. Something new is always more fun than same old, CHANGE THINGS occasionally, for the better. Live your fantasies or whatever, if she likes them.
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 11:21:27 PM | I used to have this whole 1st round 10 mins 2nd round 30 mins thing and all that BUT I have realized that the problem was I wasn't doing it right. Yea it was great that I could go again if need be but the best is when you learn control... It doesn't even take that long the hardest part is setting aside about a week to do nothing but practice sex with your partner...
You just go untill your about to go off and tell her to stop and then get control back over yourself by flexing that muscle that makes you stop peeing if you are confused as to which one that is have someone touch your butt while your peeing unexpectally you will clench up no problem. From there just keep going and stopping for about a hour then when your both ready to call it a night have her tell you that she wants you to cum Now and let yourself go. do this for about a week and your entire sex life will change for the better I promise. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 11:29:07 PM | Oh geez, Now I have heard it all! If it's not MY penis is so huge blah blah blah......It's now I can go all bloody night blah blah blah...... Who gives a damn how many times the job at hand gets done? It's QUALITY not QUANTITY. Good luck gettin that 'inbox' filled!  | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 11:31:01 PM | | My penis is far from huge and I can't go all night but i'm telling you now that I have learned how to control myself after I get done... I'm done... my d!ck doesn't pop right back up or stay hard and when I do go off it's Much more intense. I'm far from a sex God or something you see in a porno film. I'm just trying to help my brothern with something that I just recentlly learned that has changed my whole sex life. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/28/2006 11:54:19 PM | | Do you really need to know this? You can't find this out on your own? I think we would all agree that with the right person it is amazing. Time stands still and when the morning comes and you are still hungry you know that you will once again transcend to those feelings that left you so breathless the night before. Round two.. round three.. round four. We are not ring girls.. We are sensual beings and like to feel that we satisify our men completely and fulfill all there desires..especially if they are not bragging about it. Then we know that they are true lovers.. | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/29/2006 4:34:07 AM | stamina is not rounds people it's how long you last the first time, because my experience is even the man loses sensation after the first time, so round one shouldn't be called "round 1" should be call "the duration of sex i had with my partner last night" lol
Anyways both men a women lose some or all sensation down there after the first time, there are those rare occasions that it's so good after we finish that both parties need more then i suggest "round 2"
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/29/2006 6:07:13 AM | I am 47 and love it. My boyfriend is 38 and we can go 3 to 7 times a day. After over a year this is still a daily thing with us. He is happy he found someone that doesnt lock the bedroom door with him on the outside after a few rounds..One of his live withs made him sleep in a seperate bed in the same room though..Boy I dont know what these girls are thinking..Im happy | |
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| how much do you women like a man with great sexual stamina? Posted: 11/29/2006 7:44:49 AM | Sunny stands up, whistles....applauds ! There ya go ! Handsforyou ! We have a WINNER ! ding ding ding ding !
I say anything after the first go round....is only a "do-over". I don't want a 5 round "get ready to rumble"....give me a T.K.O. ! and one bout ! ! ! !
By the way, hfu....anybody tell ya , ya have a beautiful mouth ! (especially the words that come out of it )
Not pitchin' woo at ya.....just gotta say it.
Nos800, the technique for which you speak is very appreciated when the man can master it, you're gonna make some woman very happy that you learned it. | |
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