| Odd dating requests...
Posted: 9/29/2008 1:45:33 AM | IMO it is a little strange. I don't know her though. It could be she is in a stage in her life where she is tired of all the dating crap and wanted to do something 'off the wall' for her and to you (or anyone in general) simply to see how you would react, whether you would judge her immediately, try and have sex with her immediately (she did ask to get into your panties), or if you were the type of guy to 'go with the flow,' and act maturely. Not to mention it may simply be a ploy to play on your curiosity to make her stand out.
Of course she may have seen the studies and documentaries regarding attraction, bonding, and mating that is based on scent. The major outlets of the body for heat include the pits and the groin. Maybe she wanted to compare her pheromones with yours (ala her buddy the scientist) to see if you were a match.
In other words, I don't think you know her motives for the request. Her saying she needed to sleep in them could simply be a ploy, or honest. I am not sure you know her well enough to know for sure.
Of course she may be a nutjob and have your underwear made into a little teddy bear that sits in the middle of her shrine with all of your profile pictures and emails stapled to the wall.
Why not go with your curiosity and find out more about her. Maybe you should post a forum with the title thread "If I don't post to this forum again in one month's time, please call the police," just in case. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 7:03:37 AM | Well OP... with reading this thread, three thoughts run through my mind...
1. Dayum... I'm jealous she got to spend time with you and I didn't... 
2. Send me a pair of your boxers and I'll answer the actual question of this thread... after I sleep on it of course... 
3. If you'd have played your cards right and gone commando, the night might have ended a little differently with who was in what... 
Cheers... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 7:19:30 AM | OP, considering that, if a woman is attractive, my goal would be to "get into her drawers", I would think it only fair to let her get into mine.  | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 7:54:31 AM | She might be an old witch trying to pull some voodoo on you, hoping to make you fall hopelessly in love with her. God knows, she probably made boxer brief soup with exotic spices, frog eyes and froze it for permanency. Watch out for the Full Moon!
Or she might just be messing with you, just for kicks. People's reactions to oddities can be wildly entertaining and anecdotical, haven't you seen "There's Something About Mary"? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:08:51 AM | | I think this girl is some kind of OCD hoarder and has a dresser full of men's underwear. That is a girlfriend-type request, very odd for a first date. If I REALLY liked her I might've given her mine, but some of those run $5 per pair, I would really have to like her. Best to keep a cheap pair of Fruit-of-the-Looms onhand for future requests, complete with itching powder for the girl you really don't want to see again. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:11:18 AM | | Here I was thinking it's only men that ask for women's undies. Perhaps she loves sniffing! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:26:44 AM | .............wow...........................
Just when you think you've heard ( or read) it all........................... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:27:33 AM | | If someone asked me that the first time I met them, they probably wouldn't get a second date. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:35:38 AM | OP, I think most women have had similar requests but certainly not on the first date.
I think you should just step back and think about what you were expecting from the date and your future. If you were looking for something more serious in the long run and find her behavior strange....she is probably not for you.
If you were looking for some kicks....give her a shot.
Years ago, I spoiled my father with really expensive/100% cotton boxers. He questioned me about them....saying how wonderful they were......so I continued to buy them.
When he passed away....there were still new ones in the drawer and my college age nieces....
took them (along with matching tees). They wanted something of his......and they loved sleeping in boxers.
I don't think it strange......just not the best move on a date where first impressions count.
JMO.....Becca | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:39:05 AM | I think it is weird that you gave them to her LOL  . You should call her back if only to find out whether or not she wants the second date.  | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:39:16 AM | Brian,
She knows what she wants and won't let anything stop her from having it.
She wanted to know who would wear the pants in the relationship and metaphorically speaking, she does. It was more of a "who is the alpha here anyway?" question for her.
You jumped through her hoop and that is why she called you back. To see what else she could get out of you and what other little hoops you will jump through. This is her way to see if she can control you by gripping you by the scrotum.
Now, if this story is true, and you really want an answer, and you can stand a little dominatrix relationship, then by all means, call her back! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:52:35 AM | | A lot of women have said that "it's really inappropriate to ask for someone's underwear on the first date". I'm just curious. How many dates do you go on before people are more comfortable giving away their ginch? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 8:55:46 AM |
A lot of women have said that "it's really inappropriate to ask for someone's underwear on the first date". I'm just curious. How many dates do you go on before people are more comfortable giving away their ginch?
I was a married young bride and doing my first load of laundry as a couple before I asked him for his underwear......................... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 10:11:45 AM | Weird is in the eye of the beholder...
The fact you gave them to her indicates it was not weird enough....
haha
She could be a strange one or kinky one but that is up for you to determine based on red flags. And we have not met her so we cannot make judgments.
But for a first date request it is up there....
You shoulda said only if I sleep on yours!
Good luck!
Is funny... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 11:37:27 AM | Maybe she said it to either:
A) Throw you a curveball to see if you would freak out. She might have some sort of humor that likes to mess with people.
B) She gave you an opportunity to say something like "Well maybe later you'll be able to take them off yourself". You did say the chemistry was very strong. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 11:54:25 AM | well Brian, I'd say you're gonna have to call her back, just to see what it's all about, or GET YOUR PANTIES BACK, MAN!!!! B/C she may have some voo-doo planned for you, and your undergarments WILL retaliate...really you'll always wonder if you don't find out now.
You strike me as the type of person who may overthink things, maybe she was just messing with your head....
Good Luck! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 3:06:10 PM | As far as strange requests, I've had guys ask me if I wearing any undies. I'm not easily offended, so it didn't bother me. In fact, I went to the ladies room and said, well not anymore. LOL
I've had many strange requests. One guy asked me to put my hands down my pants and then wanted to sniff my finger. I also had one guy ask me how much to make sure I went home with him that night. To which I responded, let's see what you got and I will tell you.
I feel sick...... | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 3:19:31 PM | Some girls love having a shirt you've worn, it smells like "you" so maybe it's something along that lines.
it takes all types, beats flipping a coin I guess....
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Posted: 9/29/2008 3:21:46 PM | | She's going to scoop your DNA off of them and alter a crime scene. Get your alibi ready. Who will believe that she took your underpants? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 3:48:37 PM | | maybe she wanted to see what ur standard of hygine is. a lot of men dont change their undies every day. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 4:52:59 PM |
First she asked what kind of underwear I wore. I answered boxer briefs, and her eyes excitedly lighted up. Then she asked if she could have the ones I was wearing. When I asked why she said she needed to sleep in them before she decided if it was worth planning another outing together. She literally needed to sleep on it, or in them as the case may be.
This is weird. And a freak.
But the odder part is that you appear to have given the pair to her.
Gosh, I'm beside myself wondering....
so will there be a date 2 after the Princess and the Pee spent the night sleeping in your briefs?
God.
Lunacy.
Where's the crazy smiley icon?
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