| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:20:21 AM |
freetime2bme wrote (message 46) ...
Dump her. Do it soon, do it now.
Now see............I took that as total sarcasm.........making a dig at the OP...........not as being in agreement with the OP
freetime - care to clarify?? | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:22:24 AM |
She's a great girl, caring, thinks of others before herself, .....Perhaps you might want to take a leaf out of her book. There again THIS could be a self promotion thread
nevertheless give oral (which I love). .....considering that you want to marry this girl, yet are here as single wanting someone to 'hang out' with. Do you only want to hang out with a girl 5-7 days a month? I agree with others, you say you have found a girl with almost everything you want, yet you fault her on something she cannot change......your selfish.
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:39:43 AM | Are you kidding me? K...she was a 'virgin' until you came along; So she hasn't had much experience sexually, only with you. She has a low sex drive. Hmmmm.....do you ever in your peabrain....both of them , think that maybe you're not the "Don Juan" Lover extrordinaire that you think you are? I hear complaints like this from men all the time.....it's funny because after the break ups, the wives, girlfriends are the ones in the new relationships and thoroughly enjoying sex. News flash sunshine....maybe she's not pleasing you because you're just not doing it for her. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:42:00 AM | Sheesh op - give this poor girl a break. When it's my time of the month, I experience a lot of pain and discomfort. Go get a hobby or something and stop being so needy about sex. How old are you? 15? Grow up.
Or dump her and leave her in peace - you'll be doing her a favour. Wait, if you keep on nagging her - she'll be doing the dumping, you selfish man-pig. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:45:23 AM | OMG Molly 2001......that is absolutely hilarious... hope you don't mind but I'm passing that comment around to the sisters on my msn list.....too freakin funny.
I think this girl needs to get out and find a real man, not a whiney ass boy who just found his D I C K | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:55:17 AM | Molly 2001 ..I'm passing it on to all my GFs that still get their period and those that are into duct taping their mates
Back to the OP
Have you had enough of being flamed yet??
Here my advice .
For the 5-7 days you have to live without being serviced
Learn how to service yourself
Don't be so selfish | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:25:23 AM | yes, there *is* always a "but"... and if this is the only downside in your relationship, then i'd say you're pretty lucky
no sex for five days won't kill you and will increase her appreciation of you, for caring about her needs during that crampy downer of a time | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:49:20 AM | You say that you normally have sex twice a week. So, you should be used to not getting layed for five days every week. It would seem that you expect sexual satisfaction every time you see your girlfriend. If that's the case, you better get really used to "the palm sisters". It sounds like they're the only ones that will stick with you until you're old and grey. Stay away from power saws, just to be safe!  | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 8:36:00 AM |
Dump her. Do it soon, do it now.
Wow ... making a personal note about this dude ... to warn my fellow Tampa Fishies ... WATCH OUT!!!
This guy is no doubt made of the same material as the OP ... Selfish ... S-e-l-f-i-s-h ... SELFISH ...
Not only is the OP SELFISH, but a loser on top of it ... has a wonderful lady at home and is on here looking for other women to supposedly "hang out" with.
I wonder WHAT will be "hanging out" when he gets together with those other women?
Maybe he's suggesting it to do the girlfriend a favor? (Probably not.) | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 8:47:55 AM | ((((I think ....... I would honor her and her wishes.)))
Ron, I continue to believe you are a genius. Let's hope Gosox can learn 1/2 as much about life and relationships as you have....BEFORE ITS TOO LATE for him.
Me? If I was in that situation, that time of the month and wanted a blowjob urgently? I'd do a fun little puppet show for her. Maybe build a lightweight "theatre or stage" out of a cardboard box and cheap curtain from the thrift store (don't use her good curtains from the window). Then, using a Sharpie, paint a little Frenchie face on Mr. Happy, and co-star his two leading ladies, Rosey Palm and Gemma Atkinson.
Of course, your GF gets front row seats. And like in those reality theatres, or mystery dinner place, The audience and applause should be part of the act. The final act should be quite a climax! Just pray she likes the show, and doesn't throw a tomato at the stage.
And if she doesn't like the show, you can always say "Your profile said you like theatre" | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 8:54:04 AM | | You should get the heck off this site and stop looking for other women behind her back you pig! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 8:55:08 AM | OP:
...Exactly...WHAT are you REALLY looking for?
I don't mean to sound vulgar and rain on your parade, but Umm...like Santa Claus, The Easter Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy...There's NO SUCH THING...as "The Whore with a Heart of Gold"...
...You want a decent girl...you'll have to make some compromises in the sex department...'cause there's some places she WON'T venture, more than likely...and why should she?
...You want your "little soldier in intense combat" on a reocurring basis, then find yourself a hose-monster, and get used to putting up with some inconveniences and quite a bit of dysfunctional, single-sided behavior...namely hers!
That's the way it goes... Can't have it both ways...Live with it, Jocko!
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 11:49:49 AM | | They race to delete so many of these lines - but not this one - go figure! You love everything about her - but she won't give you a BJ during her time - well what are you doing to her to get her in the mood during her time so that she should please you. It should be a two-way street - give/get - get/give - receive pleasure - give pleasure - do you notice the give and take? Don't understand why she is still with you! If you really loved her to pieces, you wouldn't be so selfish about all of this! You need to grow up a bit - hopefully she kicks your butt to the curb - if this is enough to upset you - wait til she has kids and has 2:00 a.m. feedings, etc., will you be able to wait for the BJ while she finishes feeding the baby, etc., I honestly don't think so! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 12:00:12 PM | I took it that way soon - as if egging the OP to dump her so that she could actually move on with her life. All of the posts here are right on the money - this is a Troll if ever there was one - Wants to Hang with the Girls. You are so unready for any real relationship, etc., for starters - changing your profile might be a good one! You really should be ashamed of yourself.  | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 12:46:07 PM | *shakes head*
You have to be one of THE most selfish people I've yet to come across on this forum and that is saying a lot.
If you can't go without sex from her, while she's on her period for approximately 5 days out of the month you need medical advice.
Some women just do not want to have sex during that time of the month for the reasons others have stated, which I will not reiterate, because I think (hopefully) you get it.
I mean you only have to hold that thing off for only FIVE days per month out of THIRTY? Sheesh! Grow up!!
OP's girlfriend possibly would like to have more than one period per month if he is as selfish to her as he's shown himself here to be. Do her a favor, let her go. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 1:26:37 PM | | Yea, man-cut her some slack and make up for it with some GREAT action all over once she's done! Maybe she'll "come" around to some oral after a bit... HA! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 1:53:59 PM | | Wow, another clueless male.. definitely not a man, who has no clue what he has been given ( a woman). What really pisses me off though is that it isn't that you don't know. You don't fvcking care. You are a sad individual, pathetic really. I feel sorry for this woman that gives you so much, but yet it isn't enough for you. Please don't breed with her, you're gonna fvck up her gene pool. That and the consequences of you breeding would be a disaster. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:15:21 PM | OP:
Have you talked to her about this in an emotionally neutral way? At least find out why she isn't interested; if she's really not feeling good during those days and can vocalize that, then maybe that'll help you have some compassion for what she's going through.
Beyond that, if she's not interested in sex during that time, you need to figure out whether you can be okay with that long-term. If not, then you shouldn't marry her; if you're going to resent her for this, then it's going to stress your relationship. If you can look past it, long-term, then do so. But yours is the only reaction you can control here. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 5:55:46 PM | I don't think you're insensitive at all, I think there's just a different level of sexual compatibility happening here. Some people have different libidos and different ideas on oral and having sex when a female's on her period. Bottom line is this: In the bigger scheme of things regarding everything she has to offer you, how important is not getting oral during "that time of the month"? Also, you stated "she'll have sex".. but does she really enjoy it? I have two male friends who are married, and in the beginning sex was happening frequently....then--- you guessed it... it was every excuse in the book not to have it. One left his wife for another he was more sexually compatible with, and the other just got screamed at because his wife checked his pc history and discovered he went to porn sites for gratification. The marriage is rocky to say the least.
Not sure what you can do, other than wait to find a female who's on your same level sexually, or stick with what you have and accept it. Good luck, my dear. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:02:39 PM | no sex for five days won't kill you and will increase her appreciation of you, for caring about her needs during that crampy downer of a time And the flipside of this is that if he keeps complaining about it, she's going to think the OP is a selfish d!ckhead.
People like you give Trolls a bad name.................(sorry, but it's true) I don't personally think the OP is a troll. There are men out there that think they are so self-deserving that they feel women SHOULD be "at the ready" for them 24/7. The OP may be one of these people. | |
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Ilone
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:07:29 PM | | I can't believe you actually posted this ridiculousness!!! You're not only selfish, you're absolutley stupid!!!! Try to think about it a little harder...with you're actual "real" brain!!! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 6:10:06 PM | Thoughts? Well, I don't have to dig too deep on this one.
In my opinion, my friend, you do not have a 'normal' sex drive for a man your age. And, you sound like you are talking about a blow up doll instead of a woman when you talk about your 'girl'.
Pretty simple really....you are obsessed with sex and know very little, if not nothing about Love.
tsk tsk Kimbo****************************** | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 9:09:25 PM | OP~ What a pig! Visit rosie palmer and her four sisters 5 days a month or forever....your choice dummy! You don't deserve such a lovely being. Some women are proper during that time and don't feel comfortable....thats like a guy begging for sex right after childbirth! You're a jerk and don't deserve her. I wouldn't give you the time of day! | |
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zeeba
| Joined: 8/31/2008 Msg: 75 | |
| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/29/2008 9:12:38 PM |
Wait, if you keep on nagging her - she'll be doing the dumping, you selfish man-pig.
Oh, I love that phrase of "man-pig"! Also, if you click on the OP's "History", he hasn't responded too much since starting this lovely thread. So, probably just wasting energy in answering.
But, he is a man-pig in that attitude...!  | |
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