| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 3:53:38 PM |
gosox43211: "But, and there's always a but isn't there..she'll have sex, but when it's that time of the month she doesn't even want to touch me, nevertheless give oral (which I love).
I'm quite annoyed by this.
Thoughts? Drop me a line or post here, curious for thoughts from both sides.."
Wow. You're coming across as Mr. Selfish here on this one. Why not think of something you can do to help her instead?
You're complaining that she's disinterested in sex just once per month? Jeez. Marry her. (And then you'll look back upon how frequently you're having sex and realize how stupid this post sounds.)  | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 3:59:01 PM | Hmmmmmh... TWAT! Lost her virginity at 27 & she's with you at 32? She needs to get out there & smell the roses. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 3:59:22 PM |
I would have saved someting like this for you too, but we know those days are long over for you. Freetime, I'm trying to imagine you with duct tape over your mouth, a spear driven into your chest, your pants on fire and scissors stabbed into your temple...but even that can't make you seem attractive to me because you are a hopeless dumbass and I think I understand why you are free to be you. On topic, and speaking to the OP...dude, many women experience considerable discomfort,even pain, bloating, headaches, fatigue, etc during menses. Many cultures did( and I imagine some still do) isolate women when they were menstruating. Interestingly enough, in a tribal or clan setting(or even a large family with multiple women members) often all the women's cycles would be on the same timetable...maybe it was NECESSARY to isolate them to protect the males of the clan Grow the hell up, dude. Cindy O | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 4:03:18 PM |
So I've been dating this girl (32) for some time now on and off and I want to marry her and know her forever. She's a great girl, caring, thinks of others before herself, I believe she'll make a great mother, her fam' is great, she's cute.
But, and there's always a but isn't there..she'll have sex, but when it's that time of the month she doesn't even want to touch me, nevertheless give oral (which I love).
I'm quite annoyed by this.
Oh dear. This irks me. You're irksome.
How self-centered of you to be annoyed by someone's flow interrupting your pleasure.
Perhaps it's an education thing for you fellows?
1. Sometimes a woman feels MORE affectionate and ug "horny" during her monthly. 2. Sometimes she feels like vomiting and twisting heads off chickens.
Deal with it. We have been forced to. You should also.
How annoying? We concur.
If anyone can determine a better way - perhaps you could discuss your ideas with the Creator and do away completely with this gender segregation?
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 4:30:55 PM |
I'm thinking the OP (and another certain poster here) could use a good "head" twisting. I think they should be thrown into an ancient culture's "Red Tent"( housing for menstruating women of the tribe) where the women inside are amply supplied with duct tape, matches and accelerant, spears, scissors and other large sharp objects. Justice both poetic and savage... Cindy O | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 4:31:11 PM | No way I'm going to hang around while a woman is twisting the heads off anything, let alone get near my willy.
I'm off to the shed. Let me know when its all over. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 4:35:47 PM |
I think they should be thrown into an ancient culture's "Red Tent
Golly wouldn't that be some fun? A tent full of menstrual women? Shoot that sounds like a good time!
How about tossing them all inside a submarine and calling it "Hunt for Red October"
Think the Navy guys could handle that?
Midol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Torpedo full.
Ah why does everything I say tonite have penis connotations?
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 4:56:42 PM | Hmmmm....... let's see...... 6 lb. bloating, cramps from hell, backache, 2-day migraine, sore breasts, egg sized clot passing interminable bleeding, low libido, and an aversion to the smell of blood (gotta love that iron scent)......and my " friend" lasts up to 10 days....
Five days is looking pretty good about now, isn't it? | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 5:06:26 PM | Haven't read all the post so if this is redundant forgive me
GROW THE F**K UP
I could go on and give lots of reasons but if the OP needs someone to unravel the reasons I'm afraid he'd never understand - perhaps this 'great girl' should go find a great guy.
'Never try and teach a pig to dance - it waste your time and annoys the pig' | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 5:19:26 PM | OK - you have a great girl you know you want to marry. For some reason you felt you needed to create a profile on Plenty of Fish about two weeks ago. How stellar of you.
I sincerely hope that she also created a profile and finds a different fish. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 5:54:31 PM | You like it more, so you must be "selfish", she likes it less, but she isn't "frigid"... yeah! LOL!
You are not selfish as too many have suggested - oh my quick are they to judge and guilt! There is nothing wrong with your lady, or with you - you are just different. Find someone who likes it as much as you!
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:31:16 PM | So how about her giving me a handjob at least during that time of the month?
Thoughts people,
Keith 32  | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:52:53 PM | After reading all this... no easy chore, I have the solution for you.
Leave the poor girl alone.
Find a door. Take out the door knob from both sides.
You'll notice, well, a rather large hole.. but don't mind that. Or fill in the hole with something that will make it smaller. Use your imagination. My imagination is already running in overdrive.
Unzip. Slide penis in. Slide penis out. Slide penis in. Slide penis out.
Do this for 5 days. By that time, you'd be rendered useless sexually and she'll be forever grateful.
I apologize if I offend anyone. If I'm banned, so be it.
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:57:01 PM | Wow, really..... F*ck!!!!
I quote "but when it's that time of the month she doesn't even want to touch me, nevertheless give oral (which I love). "
So the woman who is awesome and who is swollen and probably in a large amount of pain and maybe even nauseous at that time which last a whole whopping 5 days or so (how can a man be expected to deal?) must deal with the fact that his selfish woman won't give him a blow job that he loves so much!
OP, the last time you had the flu did you feel like giving unselfishly and going down on your woman to make her feel good? Are your seriously thinking that any woman should marry you when this is how you think?
Here's a thought: how about you bring her a heating pad for her cramps, rub her feet or her back and show her some genuine compassion while she's in pain. Or is that being too selfish on her part? Somehow I'd bet she does nice things for you when you're ill!
I hate the fact that "time of the month" has become this common catch phrase that means women are b*tches for several days. So many men I know when they are sick, expect an outrageous amount of sympathy... and yet women just have this 'issue' we have to deal with most of our lives and we have to work and cook and clean and do all the normal things and it's an 'inconenience' for the men while they wait for us to get over ourselves... (No I am not a man basher, only when they sound like they have been living under a rock for 60 years)
Do some men on this planet really not know how painful and uncomfortable this time of the month is for most every frekin women on the planet even if only for a couple of days?
And do some men still not grasp that if you show a woman genuine concern and compassion outside the bedroom, she'll do anything you want IN the bedroom? (Even during that time of the month........)
She's bloated (which HURTS) she's in pain and probably doens't feel the least bit attractive: show some frekin compassion and retraint for crying out loud....
To all the REAL men who told this guy to get a clue, we love you for it! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 9/30/2008 11:22:34 PM | OP, this is just a notion. Take it for its own worth ..
Besides perhaps feeling wretched and crampy during her period, I'm willing to bet her emotions get the best of her too. When moods take over, it's so easy to heighten the slightest thing, and I'm just wondering if she has possibly sensed that your attentions may be somewhat divided? .. whereas the rest of the month her imagination is less susceptible to worrying.
She just might have a few concerns that she can't discuss for fear of rocking the boat. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 10/1/2008 6:50:49 AM | and you love her and want her so much that your profile says 'single'???????
how lucky she is to have a comitted man like yourself! | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 10/1/2008 7:06:31 AM | Your girl doesn't like having sex while on her period. I got that.
Because you're male, and from the sounds of it, totally devoid of any compassion for what females go through, let me reiterate what others have said already.
Women on their periods may experience:
-Cramps -Bloating -Fatigue -Headaches -Other aches and pains -Nausea
With that being said, the next time you give your girl lip because she doesn't want to screw you or give you a BJ, I hope to god she gives you a swift kick in the nuts, then demands sex from you.
Would you want to have sex after being kicked in the nuts? Didn't think so. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 10/1/2008 7:14:05 AM |
and you love her and want her so much that your profile says 'single'??????? He needs to change it to "Seeking nice woman into sex with me every day of the month who doesn't have periods for one reason or another. Must be OK with me putting up a personal ad if I feel like I'm not getting it from you enough".
Lack of sex is one thing. I was with a woman for almost two years who wanted to have sex 4 times during that time. And I'll admit that sex only once or twice a month is not tolerable, either. But complaining about ONLY getting sex around 25 times in one month is just ridiculous. | |
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| Great girl but not much action! Posted: 10/1/2008 7:29:01 AM | | from what i've read from everyone i agree...some woman do not feel like it when it is there time of the month..and some do..if you love her it shouldnt matter that she doesnt want to and you shouldnt be so selfish...she has feelings too... | |
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