| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/1/2008 10:00:58 AM | | Oh yeah, and you might want to grow up and learn to think of someone besides yourself, while you are at it. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/1/2008 3:45:10 PM | I find it amazing freetime, the assumptions you make about females, and you're a male. At least you say you are. The guys at the fire department don't hate their brothers or sisters..its called trusting each other.We lay our lives in each others hands every moment of everyday. I do carry my share at work and then some, honorably and gladly.A lot of it we don't get paid for, and it requires agility, strength and endurance...or you can't be there. I would lay down my life for my brother or sister. You assume ALL females have the same MO...probably why you are still on a dating site looking for someone. However I think after they read how you think here you have reduced your chances of finding a quality female. You assume any days are long over for me...yet you have never met me or talked to me to even be able to state such nonsense. The guys at the station ( and the girls) had a good laugh over your blather, and they think you are so full of hatred for women in general, that you take it out on those of us that are just handy to wipe your feet on. However...I just pulled the rug out from under you. I am valued and well respected where I work...and it has nothing to do with cycles or being female! It has to do with hard work , having character and a solid integrity. That doesn't waver because I have cycles. I have never pulled the female trump card...but then I work with real men..that if I didn't feel well..they would be there to gladly help and I would be too for them.  You might want to grow some integrity and some manners while you are at it...because not all men or women would step up to do the job that I do..I know you wouldn't last one hour doing what we do...you're too busy thinking with the wrong head. On Topic: I think the OP needs to consider her feelings or she will find someone more suitable. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/1/2008 9:20:32 PM | | Use this time to show her you are not a shallow person. Don't make her feel bad for something god intended to happen. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/1/2008 10:37:10 PM | Katryanna
The ending of your post '''' was Hilarious 
While this subject is still ongoing one must also consider this ::
Maybe she is not into BJ
Maybe she does not like this as a form of Love or Sex ?
Maybe she is not turned on by this position '
It does not mean a woman does not Love her spouse or BF
but this style of Foreplay is not for every woman ........
have spoke to numerous women who do not find suckling a mans pnnis sensual '' seductive ''or gratifying with pleasure in any way ..
Some woman are nausous at the very thought of this being put out there on the table does not want to feel obligated to perform this act at all .
Sorry MEn ''but not all women like giving BJ
Maybe Some women like to on a Special occasion ''Or if she feels Romantic and desires to do so .
But just because its the time for the monthly > does not mean or imply
its time for oral
suffocation
The more a man nags or responds negatively in any way or shows dissapproval of woman when she says NO
the less she will be incline to please him at all . So to keep on her gracious side Some understanding and acceptance of she is a woman who has feelings 'likes and dislikes aches and pains >>>>This would be good time for quality time with family or a hobbie '' then there is always the cold shower seems like reasonable & rational options for any lasting relationship especially during the monthly . 
THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 12:33:58 AM | " I love this girl to pieces, just want to get off, and don't care to date my hand 5 days a month is all."
Don't worry, once you're married you will most likely have more than 5 days to date your hand - you may appreciate your hand more than your wife like many men I know seem to do. Strange what marriage can do for you! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 5:13:10 AM | i think your annoyance is childish and very self-centered.
there is not a relationship on this planet where everyone always gets everything they want.
so if your priority in life is daily BJs over what really makes a relationship work over the long-term, then you've just answered your own question.
good luck with that. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 5:27:02 AM | | Omg.... you are one selfish **stard. You are lucky you get laid twice a week. If I was in her situation.... you would be having a love affair with you hand. Horny toad!!! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 8:52:21 AM | | A few days a month when you can hang out with the guys, and the rest of the time she's wonderful? I think a lot of guys would feel very lucky to have your situation! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 9:00:50 AM |
Here's the thing I don't like about women and how they approach their period. They use it as a means to get what they want, thus using it as control. Not all women do this... But then, not all women have the same level of discomfort during that time. I know just as many men that say they can't do things because they have "back problems" or whatever. I know men with ED, that are not satisfying women, because they can't get themselves off. Sometimes even younger men are stressed out, and cannot perform.
Women are individuals... like men are. If you love someone, you deal with it.
The more a man nags or responds negatively in any way or shows dissapproval of woman when she says NO the less she will be incline to please him at all. Exactly. Sex starts for women in the mind and is predicated on mood. If you make her feel like crap by berating her for not having sex every time you want it, she will eventually lose all interest, because you have behavior modified her and negative associations have been formed in her mind.
Either that or she will go and find someone else that does excite her, because he understands this. Wise up. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 11:50:28 AM | You selfish little boy!
The only action that should be taken is by her...
kicking your sorry ass to the curb! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 3:00:31 PM | Yeah, the OP is shallow and thoughtless. It is gratifying to be able to feel superior to him. On the other hand, I've pressured women for sex. Oh yeah, in my life I have.
In my younger days. You bet. I really think most men have. During their lifetimes.
Why is being a troll a bug-a-boo? Aren't we all on this site to get the attention of the opposite sex? Should I be subtle? Covert? I'm not really doing it? I'm making a contribution to the general discourse? I voted? The guys a loser? And his girlfriends gonna walk? Straight into my arms? | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 3:25:31 PM | Oh boy!
You sound like a bit of a chauvinist. This woman should service you just because you'd like to marry her? Are you one of these guys who feels he's missing out if he doesn't have sex everyday?
Going down on a bloke should not be a duty just because you can't have normal sex during her period. It should be something spontaneous that is given with love, not expected. Smacks of subjugation to me...do you think you're doing this woman a favour or something. And lastly, shouldn't you be talking to her about why she feels unwilling to do this? | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 6:50:48 PM | | Yes! Some people say that going down is not a duty. And getting head is a privilege and not a right. And yet! How about doing it for King and Country and for the betterment of the Empire? Um...is this long enough? I mean the post! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 9:19:11 PM |
And yet! How about doing it for King and Country and for the betterment of the Empire? I'm afraid you aren't that persuasive.
Sorry, bodypro8 .. but your comments reek of self-entitlement and a complete lack of empathy.
Not only that, you actually seem to believe that giving a man a BJ (whether or not she's feeling remotely at all like doing anything sexual ~ and it's most likely she's NOT) is akin to serving King & Country, etc?
One word.
.... EW.
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/2/2008 9:42:17 PM | | Dear ClassifiedTMI: My humor is dry. Bone dry. Wait! Maybe yours is also. Yeah! I get it, you're making a joke about my joke that you didn't get and I didn't get that you also are joking. What a larf! | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/3/2008 3:38:13 PM |
So how about her giving me a handjob at least during that time of the month?
Pressuring a woman (with a low sex drive as it is) to do more than she is ready to give you at the moment is the surest way to make her lose whatever attraction she is still feeling towards you, make her feel like a sex machine. More than that, you can make her frigid for YEARS, until she finds the right man to undo the harm.
Are you the only lover she's ever had? Sounds like the poor girl had never had a man who was good for her, that explains her low sex drive. I am not trying to be insulting.. just honest. Happens all the time.
BTW, what's up with her not having sex till 27? It's very unusual, to say the least. Is she very unattractive? Very religious? What were the underlying reasons behind that? Sorry I am asking, but it's pertinent. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/3/2008 5:22:14 PM |
Dear ClassifiedTMI: My humor is dry. Bone dry. Wait! Maybe yours is also. Yeah! I get it, you're making a joke about my joke that you didn't get and I didn't get that you also are joking. What a larf!p *DOH!* .. busted.
Yeah, I'm a larf and a harf.
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/3/2008 10:46:22 PM | abc,
She waited 'til 27 since she wanted to be in love with the man who took her virginity...didn't have to be the man she married but wanted to be in love and not just have sex to have sex..
It's quite interesting...I've been with about 50 girls, I honestly don't understand how she can go an entire life with one love but we're all different...
Keith       | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/4/2008 12:22:30 AM |
A few days a month when you can hang out with the guys, and the rest of the time she's wonderful? I think a lot of guys would feel very lucky to have your situation!
Because GOD FORBID a guy spend time "hanging out" with his girlfriend, if there's not going to be sex involved! After all, that's all she's good for, right?
Thank God there are a few real men left in this world, and that He FINALLYsent me one of them. | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/4/2008 1:04:19 AM | | so you could care less that she is hurting or not feeling sexy at that time, you want to be pleased no matter what... when I read your headline I was thinking she has sex very little with you, 5 days out of order out of 30 is not, NOT MUCH ACTION. Your a very self centered person, and non caring. Please don't marry her, don't marry anyone. what next she buttered the wrong side of your toast?? | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/4/2008 12:35:28 PM | OPie...
OK, it's obvious that it's not ALL your fault, the fact that she chose to be a virgin till 27 is a red flag in its own right, to which you play no part. Does this have anything to do with religion at all? | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/5/2008 1:03:03 AM | | In primitive tribes they send all the women away-to an eclosure outside the main residential area-during that time of the month...as women who are together tend to cycle at the same time. That gets it over for everyone at once. Modern civilization does it differently. Many women who are going through a period tend to feel terrible, think they look terrible, and hate to be bothered with anything but feeling miserable, so for them sex is out. Some guys get turned on by the smell of the blood, the extra hormones, etc, and want to have even intercourse at that time. Life works best if there is compatibility in this area. A guy who wants sex at that time of the month, involved with a woman who doesn't want sex then, is going to upset/annoy someone. Since your gal is the one already feeling miserable, why not do what you can to make her feel a little bit better...by respecting her wishes in this regard,and not asking her for any klind of sex then. It's called "courtesy". | |
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| Great girl but not much action!
Posted: 10/5/2008 1:35:14 AM | A very wise man-by the name of Vatsyayana-once said:
" In the affairs of love a man should do such things as are agreeable to the women..."
The man knew what he was talking about, and wrote it in a sex & relationship manual which has been a top seller for over 1500 YEARS. You sound like you've been having sex for about two weeks ....ever since your first boner...at the age of 11. Learn from a master, and study The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayyana....ISBN 0-425-09593-2; Berkley Books. When you reach age 12, practice some of what Vatsyayana preaches. You-AND YOUR WOMAN-will be happier for it. | |
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