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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/31/2008 4:24:30 PM | First I'm sorry about the abuse,,
I would not get into a relationship if BJ were not part of it,, because I like oral and I like to give as well, sexual compatibility is important to me,, How ever if I were in a relationship with some one,, and that changed for good reasons,, I would not leave, the woman I love d because of it..
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/31/2008 4:28:33 PM |
First I'm sorry about the abuse,,
I would not get into a relationship if BJ were not part of it,, because I like oral and I like to give as well, sexual compatibility is important to me,, How ever if I were in a relationship with some one,, and that changed for good reasons,, I would not leave, the woman I love d because of it..
That is a very nice posts..........I think I have miss judged you and for that I will apologize for anything I have said that might have offended you.
On topic..........I don't think they should have to "deal" with it. If they want that in a relationship it is best that they have someone that will give it to him.......there are many out there that like them, but can live with out them. I'm sure there are men that "can" live with out them, but why should they when there are so many that love to. | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/31/2008 4:29:58 PM | "But where do you draw the line between how much you give of yourself for the other person? Hard question."
It's a very easy question if you don't like something don't do it. that's the right you reserve. However, he reserves the right to find somebody who does like it.
Freedom of choice is a b*tch isn't it?
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Posted: 1/1/2009 1:20:41 AM | | It's not just about what's good for you. Sex is a shared experience, give and take. I love getting head, but I understand that if she's willing to put forth the effort, I have to make it worth her while. I can live without foreplay... Just like I can live without indoor plumbing. But I think I'll keep paying my water bill. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:15:19 AM | Freedom of choice is a b*tch isn't it?
Yes if a bj is all he is concered about in life then he needs to go find the one who will give it. if the woman dont do them then she needs to find a man that doesnt care about them. its just that simple. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:05:29 AM | Well I can see why you would not be into giving the man you love a blowjob it
understandable, but for me a good blowjob is hard to beat, specially if the lady
your with also likes giving them. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:17:39 AM | But where do you draw the line between how much you give of yourself for the other person? Hard question.
I just read that comment above..the answer is easy,,
If I'm not in love with a woman and I'm getting to know her, I have all kinds of line that I would not cross,, or give of myself,,
BUT..................
Because I have been in a very loving, wonderful relationship, I have no lines, I have no boundaries, I would do, and have, what ever it took, in any and all situations to be by her side,,
This is important, my partner would never ask me to do something that I'm either not capable of, or would she set me up to fail. Because I know this of her she also knows this of me,,
Now this is the most important, because we know this of each other, it's when we step up to the plate, do the unexpected, do what she may not think possible in extreme conditions, where we cross every line every boundary, in the name of love, for that person,, that is what makes good relatshionships unique..that's not to say we will be successful,, your partner knows, you went far beyond any and all expectations,, and whats not to love about that... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:45:25 PM | | I THINK THAT WE SHOULD GET A FAVOR FOR A FAVOR......IF A MAN EAT U OUT, THEN U SHOULD RETURN A FAVOR TOO.....THATS FAIR ENOUGH... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 1:11:17 PM | Zain and Rdcnorm.
I suppose that's why everyone should stick to their resolve and find compatible partners. It saves hassle. But then again, it might be the romantic in me.
but I'd like to find a mate who has a trait of self-generosity. So i suppose it works out, because i'm like that too.
Thanks for responding. It gave me a moment's pause. | |
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Sushiq
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Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 1161 | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 3:15:38 PM | | I know you want a man's opinion but... honestly are u going to do something that makes u uncomfortable just to keep a guy. If you meet someone you like I'd just tell him upfront that u don't do it (and maybe the reas0n) and if he takes a walk move on. I think if someone really likes you they should be able to work with you and maybe one day you'll change your mind. just my two cents | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 4:36:13 PM | ........If your "love" for a good man can be nullified by HIS sperm... maybe you really don't know what love is
sperm has nothing at all to do with love.
......sperm can't even hurt you.
It can if man has disease of some kind and doesnt tell her. never say never. it can cost you much grief.
......Sperm is NOT vomit,garbage,rotten food , s.h.i.t or p.i.s.s.
No but it is nasty, slimy, and not food.
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Posted: 1/1/2009 5:41:57 PM | I have known many men in my life, but not 1 who didn't enjoy a bj, I would think that would be a rare beast, maybe 1 with some kind of a sexual hangup in his mind.
Seems that for kit here its ok to deposit that nasty slimey non food stuff in one end, but not the other.... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:09:25 PM | | And speaking of nasty, slimey, non food stuff. It's not exactly a day at baskin robins for us either. Typically I enjoy it, but I've had a few... shall we say..."unsavory" partners. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:23:07 PM | Kit
You jump from forum to forum where sexually issues are the topic, I would say most of us get it, your sex life sucks, your spouse hates toys, you want toys, it's the only way you get off, you both hate oral, neither one likes anal,, you haven't had an orgasm through penetration with your husband,
If everything is so good at home,, why do you still choose to come to these forum, find fault in men and women who like sex,, most like everything about sex, with some personal exceptions,, but no one, has so many issues regarding sex that I have read thus far even compares to your sexuality, by the way is (0).in my opinion,,. yet you still come and knock people, even your own husband in a forum about him not wanting/liking to use toys,,
Why are you compelled to do this???
Most of use agree it's about personal choice, being sexual compatible,
Yet your not willing to go with that flow, you set yourself up for attack by others, because you attack everyone who does not agree with your views.. What those views are I have no clue, other than you seem to have issues separating sex and love, and then fail to see how the come together, because of your inability to accept that many people unlike your self enjoy sex, and we are going to choose our next partner, not solely on sex,, but it will be considered with great depth of thought, or through a personal sexual experience with that person.. we what to share with our partners by choice, not because we need to, we don't want to experience the same sexual issues that you are now experiencing,, or not,, But some of us want an exciting sexual relationship where we know our boundaries, limitations,, we before we get to serious, meaning a total commitment to that person,, why is that concept so hard for you to understand..
Unfortunately this forum is about a woman who was abused, and is hesitant about future BJ, I can see the legitimacy in her question,,
opposed to the forum why women do not swallow..by the way you seem to like bashing their as well... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2009 10:03:00 PM | ......If everything is so good at home,, why do you still choose to come to these forum
Because the forum is addicting. Hope that answers your question.
.....Most of use agree it's about personal choice
No they dont , they want to attack me and others that dont agree with them.
......by the way you seem to like bashing their as well...
Just like your doing right now with your post??
........ not willing to go with that flow, you set yourself up for attack by others, because you attack everyone who does not agree with your views..
I believe that is whats being done to me.
I attack when I have been attacked. thks for your theory though | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 9:41:40 AM | | Well, a blowjob won't make or break a relationshp, but once a relationship is formed and love is there it certinly helps keep it bonded, but then there are some gals who perfer giving b/j's when talking about these things it is best to be honest, with ourselves if no one else | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 10:47:38 AM |
I suppose that's why everyone should stick to their resolve and find compatible partners. It saves hassle. But then again, it might be the romantic in me.
Exactly what is romantic about trying to be with an incompatible partner? | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 11:29:32 AM | | Abelian, I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't trying to argue about nothing. Re-read the post. It's encouraging people to find someone they're compatible with. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 11:42:19 AM | | If you expect us to eat your kitty, you better go down on us. If you expect us to not be grossed out and squirm and spit when you cum on our faces, then don't do the same when we do. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 12:14:37 PM | well if u dont give oral u shouldnt recive it pure and simple
not true. love is not about i will if you will. its not even close. its about doing what you can sexually and only what you can. the I will if you will thing is big time childish. It means you still have alot of growing up to do. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 1/3/2009 2:42:59 PM | | you have to get over your fears of giving head.in some ways by conquering that fear it may help with your abuse issues,plus you prolly enjoy getting ate out so why cant you give back in return.. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 2:55:56 PM | | I feel sorry for you guys, I'm technically still a virgin, but this is one thing, I've not been so good on waiting for lol! i think giving and seeing the look on their face beats even receiving imo =] x | |
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