| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:44:49 PM | If a guy tells you it does not bother him he is gay or just does not have the balls to tell you the truth. All normal men like them a lot. Think of some one other then yourself and get over this problem you have.
Sodomy is still illegal in most states of the United States. Are you saying that all cops are queer? You don't want to know what I would call you. I am too polite to say so. This is a public forum. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:46:44 PM |
If a woman can deal with a man who won't go down on her, a man can deal with a woman who won't give him a blowjob.
And if his options are so poor that he has to, he will. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:52:19 PM | Wow....
There are some great PC answers on here...(ie total BS)
Anytime you "guys" want to return to planet Earth you let us know... | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 12:55:22 PM |
Wow....
There are some great PC answers on here...(ie total BS)
Anytime you "guys" want to return to planet Earth you let us know..
Of course, one-liner ad hominem attacks are so much better. Where is your substance? | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:07:21 PM | | I'm pretty straight up with guys who are interested in dating me, I wont give blowjobs. They can accept it and be with me, but if they REALLY care that much about some sexual act, are they even worth your time? I vote no. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:07:45 PM |
If a woman can deal with a man who won't go down on her, a man can deal with a woman who won't give him a blowjob.
But I quite enjoy the prospect of going down on a woman. So what about me?
As for the OP: sorry about your history, sounds like a touchy subject. But just off-handedly it sounds like you got dealt a bad hand on so many levels. It would make you sexually incompatible with a lot of guys.
Would I dislike the idea of never getting a BJ? Probably yes, and a relationship like that wouldn't get far enough to where it wouldn't matter to me. That said, it takes a lot of guts to date a woman with a history of abuse, as the sexual component of the relationship is about 1000x harder on both man and woman in the situation.
And to the above poster. Could you be with a man who didn't want sex of any kind ever? Who wanted to be with you but no sex ever, period? After all, it's just a simple sex act. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:12:22 PM | ...if you have a guy that you think you are going to lose because you won't perform fellatio than he is probably not worth keeping.
Hm. Let's think this through. So a man or a woman is not worth keeping in that case, whereas he/she is worth keeping when he/she makes a decision based on wealth, debt, car, and other materialistic or utilitarian factors? Oral sex is a major part of love making, thus whereas it may be a subjective decision to not make a rel based on a no oral sex situation, it is much more a valid reason than most other reasons often cited in these forums. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:19:08 PM |
Could you be with a man who didn't want sex of any kind ever?
Kitten, you're equating not giving blowjobs to no sex of any kind? | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:24:29 PM | This no blowjob talk is very distressing. I can't live in a world where I don't get them often. Oh wait that is my world ....................now I'm sad! Anyway if I can be slightly serious blowjobs are very important in any relationship I'm in. I could lie but there really isn't any point.
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Joined: 6/14/2008
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:32:12 PM | Now really asking that question may get men in here excited.
First of all what man doesn't like a BJ ? 
In regard to Could you be with a man who didn't want sex of any kind ever?
My answer No ! I like a man who can full fill me in many ways as well as I will be full filling him also. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 1:45:51 PM | Uhmmm...I'd have to go with Chris Rock's attitude on this one. He said, "This is '90's, ladies. I want her to suck on it like it contains the antidote..."
Men would rather not be made to feel like thier bodies or genitals are distasteful. I for one find oral sex a wonderful way to please my partner or allow my partner to please me. It's not just about the sensation, it's the being on the receiving end, too. Having issues associated with oral sex would be a major distraction for me, just like having issues associated with any aspect of intimacy, whether physical or emotional. Although sex is not the only reason to be in a romatic relationship, it is a major reason, and limits to physical intimacy allude to limits to emotional intimacy as well. I would have a problem dating someone who was not into oral. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2008 1:48:07 PM | ^^^^ 
Carolanne makes my day again! .
Yes. I could deal with it. As long as you can deal with sulky, passive aggressive, snotty behaviour. hahaha. JK.
If one has been married a long time, one knows the answer to the question. We might not like it, but we can deal with it. Other things can make up for it. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2008 1:54:53 PM |
The High Court over rulled that several years ago, where have you been, under a rock?
It is not illegal unless in public..
Is that all you have to say after calling half the men on this thread fags?
Interesting that you would be able to cite a "gay rights" decision so quickly. Is there something you aren't telling us?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_v._Texas | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 2:03:55 PM |
Due to abuse as a child i don't give men oral sex and i was wondering how much it would bother the men out there if they weren't given blowjobs in an otherwise good relationship.
My last partner didn't like them for various reasons which worked out well for me but i'm starting to worry what reaction my next partner might have.
I'm interested in any males opinion here, thanks.
What does child abuse have to do with giving oral sex? I mean by that reasoning, if you had been abused with food, would you give up eating? Anyway, that's off topic. Oral sex is great, she would have to be a a damn good woman to let it slide. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 2:14:27 PM | I wont give blowjobs. They can accept it and be with me, but if they REALLY care that much about some sexual act, are they even worth your time? I vote no.
Would you date a man if he wouldn't give you oral sex or perform some other sexual activity that you really liked? | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 4:35:53 PM | Seems to have goten you going may be there is something you are hidding or hidding from, but not knowing a major court revesal is just not knowing what is going on.
I could care less if you want to repeat that you said half of the guys at POF are fags and liars. I just want to see somebody post your pics after they get through with you. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 5:53:57 PM | Ravenousroger:
Poor = not good. A bad man. That was a "poor" choice of words on my part. You missed my point on just about everything I said. I'll keep things more simple if I ever reply to one of your comments again.
Again, hmmmmm??? I don't think you need to keep things simple for me. You may have to keep things simple to get your own thinking straight. If you can't express yourself in written form in a manner where someone can comprehend...what is the point?
There is a politically incorrect word that I used in another forumn that is just on the tip of my tongue. I know this is wrong, but you are a retard. Dude....your opinions edge idiocracy. What? Do you say shit to just say it or does anything spewing out of you mean anything?  (BTW-I think that "rolling the eyes" icon looks too happy-I am actually rolling my eyes and squinting about what an idiot I think you are. Way to represent Carolina. :) | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 6:01:41 PM | | Each and everyones sexuality and preferences differ a great deal, and oral sex is just part of it, albeit a very popular one. If someone loves you first for the person you are then the sex and lovemaking will take on a dimension of their own. Personally I love oral sex, but if I met the woman of my dreams and she was not into it, then it would not be an issue. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/30/2008 6:02:00 PM | | There is something almost unexplainable about your woman making love to your penis with her mouth. It's an act of love. It's an act just for your pleasre. Although my second wife gave really bad ones, they were still blowjobs. Also, a man knows whether it is an obligatory BJ or one out of passion and want. Obligatory are very unsatisfying. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2008 7:18:38 PM | There is a politically incorrect word that I used in another forumn that is just on the tip of my tongue. I know this is wrong, but you are a retard. Dude....your opinions edge idiocracy. What? Do you say shit to just say it or does anything spewing out of you mean anything? (BTW-I think that "rolling the eyes" icon looks too happy-I am actually rolling my eyes and squinting about what an idiot I think you are. Way to represent Carolina. :)
Opinions vary. What's always impressed me with you, is how beautiful you are on the inside. I'd match wits with you, but I'm obviously not in your league. | |
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