| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/11/2009 10:47:12 AM | Yea your situation was extremely unfortunate but oral is party of foreplay and sex isnt good sex without foreplay.
I take the time to groom and clean down there and if im willing to go down on a woman, then I'd expect the same.
Now from this you can get the stale mate "okay then we just wont do that period"...in which case then what do you get
1)kissing
2)touching...
3)****ing...then going to sleep
Makes the sex life quite boring.
In my opinion oral sex should only be denied due to hygenic issues.
p.s-not to say that what you're saying isn't true but women that are simply selfish will come up with the craziest shit as excuses....then they get angry when you dont go down there on them. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/17/2009 4:44:37 PM | | I personaly don't like BJ. Doesn't feel natural to me. My stimulation is intercourse. I can't orgams as hard when getting a bj or hand job. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/17/2009 5:24:29 PM | If I didn't want to give my man blowjobs, I'd make sure to find a hot female friend to blow him while I watched.....at least now and then as a special treat!
Lots of ways to turn lemon situations into lemonade situations! | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/24/2009 9:45:17 AM | No man should have to deal with not getting blowjobs, as no woman should have to deal with not getting oral.
There are plenty out there willing and eager, let the selfish ones suffer alone. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/24/2009 10:04:15 AM | PLEASE NO BJ's! It HURTS! I'll go down on you all day long, but please oh please oh please don't torture my wee wee with the teeth you will shirley sink into or drag across Edmund the Fatso [naw, I don't name body parts, but I see some do & I'm trying to be funny] & ooh, God, that's like what a chalk board must feel like after some twit drags the nails across...in fact, I screech just like that, too! | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/24/2009 10:27:44 AM | | There are many unpleasant things in life that don't give you any options. (Like paying taxes for example.) Fortunately, this is one that does. Apparently, there are many men out there who dislike oral sex. (Much to my surprise as well. Looks like the answer to your question is yes, some men can.) However, it takes a long time to find a lifetime partner in the first place, so I wonder about a woman that would let the man she could be happy with for the rest of her life slip through her fingers because she insists on not doing this. Sad to say, if he wanted it and she didn't, he would probably try going to hookers for awhile before they would end up breaking up permanently. Sexual preferences are (usually) too important in relationships. I know things like past abuse are hard to get over, but I think it's possible. This is a tough one. Good luck finding someone you love enough to spend the rest of your life with that'll agree with you on this. In my opinion, it's a tall order. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:10:14 AM | One final comment. Looking back at the previous posts, many of the men who claim they don't like oral sex also say: "It hurts!" "My gf isn't good at it anyway!"
Things that make you go hmmm. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:52:38 AM | If he really cares, he should be able to deal with not having it. As with any sexual or even non sexual like and dislike, if you each really care and trust each other it
shouldn't be an issue.
That said,
I had a long term relationship with a girl that had the same problem .... lets just say .. she got past it. I wish I could say it was because of me, but I think it was more of a demon she wanted to understand and conquer.
It can be a strong drive for guys and girls. If your both healthy, trust and love each other I wouldn't want to leave that lacking for too long. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:15:47 PM |
sure if you can deal with not geting oral sex for the rest the relationship
You guys are so funny..I've known more men who didn't like performing oral on a woman than who did..and they practiced the double standard too...
Personally, such a threat ( if it was an issue for me in the first place) would not be much of an incentive...not one of my favorites either... | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:46:56 PM | Actually...don't believe all these clowns on here saying they love to get head....all men secretly despise the thought of once again having to satisfy you women and your pathological desire to insist on making us allow you to slobber all over our freshly washed genitalia! Men will lie awake in bed or come home from work with dread waiting for that " I want to blow you " glint in your eyes. Don't you realize..we don't know where you mouth has been all day? If you only realized the sheer amount of concentration and Oscar worthy acting that goes in to not only attaining and maintaining a turgid erection,but also mustering the acting chops to even give you the impression we are loving it!
Ladies..enough is enough! Please stop perpetrating this demeaning and distasteful act on the men in your lives! We just dont want to live a lie any longer ,but have been sparing your sensitive sexual egos for countless millennia. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/7/2009 8:06:49 PM | | I agree that the situation is unfortunate, but therapy should have helped most of this. Many women who "won't" don't have that history. So the question of can men deal with not getting BJs, my answer is......Why should they have to?? | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/7/2009 9:32:52 PM | Sorry to seem shallow, but no bj is a dealbreaker for me. I don't have to have one every day, but I still have to have them at least once in a while.
As many have said previously, there are men out there who CAN go without, or actively dislike them. If you look hard enough, you'll find one I'm sure. Good luck! | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:56:45 PM | Yeah, I can deal with not getting blowjobs, but it's so much better if you actually enjoy getting your face right down there worshipping the thing! Makes it very hard and makes me feel like a king.
Maybe try not to picture the face of your abuser when you look at the schlong of your next partner-! | |
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