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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/8/2009 1:46:36 PM | I'm not flexible enough to it myself,
and I love having it done to me,
so I would say that I couldn't deal with it,in fact I KNOW I couldn't! | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 7:28:17 AM | | how could you enjoy it if the other person didn't like doing it. I would rather not get any if it means my partner has to do something she dosnt' enjoy doing. So as long as everything else is good i can live without. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 10:47:14 AM |
The same way women have been dealing with men not going down on us but demanding blow jobs for YEARS!!!!!
Beth
That's not a problem all women share. Some men will have sex with a woman they aren't strongly attracted to, but they are usually very selfish about it. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 11:27:48 AM |
Due to abuse as a child i don't give men oral sex and i was wondering how much it would bother the men out there if they weren't given blowjobs in an otherwise good relationship.
My last partner didn't like them for various reasons which worked out well for me but i'm starting to worry what reaction my next partner might have.
I'm interested in any males opinion here, thanks.
I'm sure you've long ago lost interest in this thread Original Poster, but I will address your question. Blowjobs are OK as a part of lovemaking, but not important or something I would do on a regular basis. I think I'm in a small minority though. They fit into a major 69 session, but even then I don't care that much about it. A blowjob has a somewhat degrading energy about it, especially when you cum in someone's mouth. You get down in front of someone, beneath them and suck; not good. Much worse if they pull out and cum on your face, or made a fuss if you don't swallow. There is a domination element involved.
I think a man, once they hear your reason, should just let that go, and love you in the way you want to be loved. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 1:04:52 PM |
Some men will have sex with a woman they aren't strongly attracted to, but they are usually very selfish about it.
I'm sure this happens sometimes...but, I would find it hard to believe that my ex husband married me and wasn't attracted to me? Or, several of my long term relationships too...( your insinuation is pretty snarky there china), and since you don't have sex with men...you might find it hard to believe that there are quite a few men who don't like giving oral..but, sure do like receiving? Like some women don't like it, some men don't either..though I specualte age group has something to do with it, because younger generations seem far more open and accepting of it...I always thought it was a double standard...but, I respected their preference..not like there aren't a 1000 other ways to get the same result?..lol...besides, if a man did it just because he had to..would take most of the fun and idea behind it out, wouldn't it? | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 1:30:31 PM | ^^^^^^^There is no way I could have sex with a woman I am not attracted to. Nor is there a way I would do the one way street as far as oral goes.
My town has one street and the name of it is ORAL. It is definitely a 2 way street. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 1:34:14 PM |
I'm sure this happens sometimes...
I'm sure it happens more than sometimes. And sadly, some people do marry a person they are not physically bowled over by. Why? I don't know. Financial reasons. Maybe they screwed up and got them pregnant. Maybe they had low self esteem and didn't think they could do any better. Not factors that influence me, but not uncommon.
Plenty of women enjoy receiving oral, but don't reciprocate... Or do it so poorly they may as well not have. I never meant to insinuate that a man can't be selfish in bed because it's his nature to be so. But that's not gender specific. Neither is having sex with someone that doesn't rock your world.
My comment, in regards to men not being as giving to women they aren't strongly attracted to, works just as well if you apply it to women. A woman who comes across as selfish or prudish in bed with one man, may be a freak for another. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 6:02:13 PM |
A blowjob has a somewhat degrading energy about it, especially when you cum in someone's mouth. You get down in front of someone, beneath them and suck; not good. Much worse if they pull out and cum on your face, or made a fuss if you don't swallow. There is a domination element involved.
And that's exactly why a lot of women like it. PC or not, consciously agreeable to a woman or not, most women like to be dominated.
Even rape fantasies are pretty common. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 6:50:37 PM |
My comment, in regards to men not being as giving to women they aren't strongly attracted to, works just as well if you apply it to women. A woman who comes across as selfish or prudish in bed with one man, may be a freak for another.
My point was that some men just don't like it..and it has nothing to do with how attractive the woman is.( this just strikes me as blame the woman for something that is just a man's preference?. This is like saying women who don't like doing..it's because the man is unattractive Personally, I can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to, and the only thing that might influence me to step outside my comfort zone ( which is way beyond oral) is love...not attraction...that may be male/female thing).and I know for a fact my ex husband and last boyfriend found me attractive...they just didn't like giving oral...my only overall point is that men also have a comfort zone, and what they like and what they don't like..and I personally respect anyone's.
most women like to be dominated.
Many maybe..I doubt most...especially if as many women as men say on here hate sex, and/or are frigid..doubt they'd be in the "throw me against the wall and take me category"..lol..
Personally...I think the woman has the position of power when BJ's are involved...it's only dominant if he is forcing you ( in a playful way or not) or demanding, or saying demeaning things..as an act of voluntary giving...the woman has the power..kinda like how submissives have the power in D/s . | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 7:35:58 PM |
A blowjob has a somewhat degrading energy about it, especially when you cum in someone's mouth. You get down in front of someone, beneath them and suck; not good. Much worse if they pull out and cum on your face, or made a fuss if you don't swallow. There is a domination element involved.
And that's exactly why a lot of women like it. PC or not, consciously agreeable to a woman or not, most women like to be dominated.
You couldn't be more wrong.
Most ( not all ) women love giving oral because they are the ones in control....of the rythem and of the pleasure you recieve.
Even if a man is trying to force himself down my throat.......he's only going to get there if I allow it. I can very easily bite down and stop him rather quickly!
As for cummin on my face.......I don't find it degrading at all.
Never understood why some women do. | |
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| Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 8/13/2009 10:31:09 PM | I would never cum on my girls face out of respect... unless she is into it... cum is messy...why would I want her to have sticky eyebrows? LOL..
I can live without a blowjob if my girl is not good at it. I have only had one girlfriend who was really good at it and knew what she was doing.... the rest... I prefer they don't even try.. it is a turn off when you get a sloppy blowjob... in my opinion | |
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