| Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear?
Posted: 9/30/2008 8:33:53 PM | The panties were white and the look in good condition. No the stains were from washing the panties. But she should've washed her as more that's for sure.
I loved the bacon strips comment. Reminds of the the dog going crazy for bacon strips in a old dog food commercial. LOL.
Some of the guys say they would've still went there, then they are welcome to it. I bet some of those guys would've sniff the panites as well. To remember the piece of a** that they had got. 
Oh I did happen to see her today and I couldn't stop thinking about Bacon. No more Bacon.  | |
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| Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear?
Posted: 9/30/2008 9:09:36 PM | I would expect a skid mark in the underpants of a small child..but in a grown woman/man??? Hella no...someone needs to go back to ass wiping 101 and learn to make love to a bar of soap! Either that or she was just n-a-s-t-y to the tenth power!
I don't blame you for getting the hell outta there...god only knows what type of cultures and "friends" she may have hanging out in her nether regions. People sometimes just don't even have a clue when it comes to the most basic form of hygiene. My question is OP, if she had some skid marks in the panties were there not other "flags" to clue you in as to her sense of personal hygiene.
If she had visible marks in her panties and hadn't bathed or changed in awhile, it makes me shudder to think about your sense of smell or lack thereof...maybe time to have your sniffer checked out honey!
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| Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear?
Posted: 9/30/2008 9:42:34 PM | lilbee_71 said,
I don't blame you for getting the hell outta there...god only knows what type of cultures and "friends" she may have hanging out in her nether regions. People sometimes just don't even have a clue when it comes to the most basic form of hygiene. My question is OP, if she had some skid marks in the panties were there not other "flags" to clue you in as to her sense of personal hygiene.
There weren't any obvious signs. Perfume goes a long way in covering odors.
If she had visible marks in her panties and hadn't bathed or changed in awhile, it makes me shudder to think about your sense of smell or lack thereof...maybe time to have your sniffer checked out honey!
Well now that I think of it, I think my nose was a little stuff that day. LOL. Next time I will make sure that I keep unstuffed so i can smell the "red flags" you speak of. LOL. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2008 10:14:48 PM | The panties were white and the look in good condition. No the stains were from washing the panties. But she should've washed her as more that's for sure.
I haven't seen this mentioned yet but is there any possibility what you saw was a blood stain? Maybe she unexpectedly got her period- a little spotting on the first day can be on the brownish side. I feel bad for the girl if that was the case. It would be absolutely mortifying to have that happen. Then again, if she was wearing previously stained "period panties," that was a really bad call on her part. | |
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| Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear?
Posted: 10/1/2008 8:36:32 AM | You are always supposed to make sure that you wear clean underwear especially on dates.
Right, because you may be in a car accident. Of course, if that's the case, your drawers aren't likely to be clean. "Did he have on clean underwear?" "Yes, we found it in the glove compartment."
Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear?
Strictly speaking, that's physically impossible.
Speaking of which, OP, just how clean was YOUR underwear? You may have had a few tire tracks of your own, not to mention beer farts and fermented ball sweat. Maybe she's not the only one with a soiled reputation.
As for her getting clean panties, what's the point in that? She was already naked. Do you put extra change in a parking meter just before you drive away?
In the words of the late, great Redd Foxx: "You gotta wash your ass. How can you tell somebody you love 'em, knowing you haven't washed your ass? Go to bed damp. Hit that thing with the washcloth!"
By chance, did you meet her on POF? | |
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Posted: 10/1/2008 10:57:57 AM | I saw the girl in question today and she tried to explain to me what happened. She said that she had showered that day, but she "mistakenly" put on a pair of dirty panties she had laying next to her clean ones? OK I was going along with what she was saying so she could save face.
But then she threw in the " I forgive you for being Ignorant." WTF? Her trying to turn the fact that she was wearing dirty panties into my fault just made me glad that I didn't go there with her.
She also said that she was disappointed in me for not being a real man and getting something "good" while I had the chance. When she said that All I could think about was Sepia's Bacon Strip comments.  I started laughing and said I was thinking about bacon. Then after a min of laughing I let her continue with what she had to say.
She said, "Brad, there are few things you need to know about women and dating."
1. "All women have worn dirty panties on dates at least once in their lives."
2. " Real Men don't let dirty panties or bad smells stop them from getting sex."
3. " As a Man, you should feel honored that a woman has allowed you to removed her clothes and you should be thankful for that pleasure."
4. "When you have a woman's clothes off, you should keep your mouth shut and enjoy the moment no matter what."
She said some more, but I was tired of listening to her. I told her I was thankful she had on dirty panties becuase, otherwise I would've gotten involved with a real nutjob.  | |
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:12:54 AM | "1. "All women have worn dirty panties on dates at least once in their lives." "
Ummm no I have actually always changed mine at least twice a day. You know wake up and put on a CLEAN pair ( I shower at night so I am also clean), then get home do my thing around the house, take a shower, and then I put on a new CLEAN pair.
2. " Real Men don't let dirty panties or bad smells stop them from getting sex."
I am a real woman and I know my ass would be running the other way if a man stunk or pulled of skidded up underwear, so I don't see what a real man wouldn't do the same.
3. " As a Man, you should feel honored that a woman has allowed you to removed her clothes and you should be thankful for that pleasure."
Ummm nope just not true, now if she is well groomed and so on, then you can go ahead and kiss her feet saying thankyou.
4. "When you have a woman's clothes off, you should keep your mouth shut and enjoy the moment no matter what."
Where's the fun in keeping your mouth shut?
Yup Op you're a lucky guy to have escaped. I'm almost tempted to tell you to show her this thread, but that's just my evil side talking. 
"I saw a commercial on TV this morning for Wendy's "Baconator" burger... and the first thing I thought of? The bacon strips comment. Needless to say I won't be rushing to Wendy's for one of those."
LOL!
I had to show this thread to my SO lastnight, he thought it was great too. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:18:24 AM | RacerMatt said,
I saw a commercial on TV this morning for Wendy's "Baconator" burger... and the first thing I thought of? The bacon strips comment. Needless to say I won't be rushing to Wendy's for one of those.
Well you are lucky you have just the comments, I have the real life image in my head for a long time to come. BK's Breakfast Bacon Wraps will never be the same for me. 
James in SD said,
Speaking of which, OP, just how clean was YOUR underwear? You may have had a few tire tracks of your own, not to mention beer farts and fermented ball sweat. Maybe she's not the only one with a soiled reputation. As for her getting clean panties, what's the point in that? She was already naked. Do you put extra change in a parking meter just before you drive away? [/qoute] My underwear was pretty clean. I made sure I took shower a few mins before leaving the house and I picked up a clean pair of boxers of the new pack. No mix up there. LOL. Dude, you seem my interested in defending her, did you wear stained tight whites on a date before? I know I haven't. Cleaned uderwear means no comments later about them. LOL. The getting clean panties comment was about just that. Once she showered, there was no need of her putting back on teh same panties. LOL. So what if she was naked, I wasn't in the mood to have sex with a truly dirty chick. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:21:05 AM | OP - I've been trying to avoid this topic just because of the "ick" factor involved. However, I saw this as part of your latest post and decided to jump in, because it just has to be picked apart...
She said, "Brad, there are few things you need to know about women and dating."
1. "All women have worn dirty panties on dates at least once in their lives."
2. " Real Men don't let dirty panties or bad smells stop them from getting sex."
3. " As a Man, you should feel honored that a woman has allowed you to removed her clothes and you should be thankful for that pleasure."
4. "When you have a woman's clothes off, you should keep your mouth shut and enjoy the moment no matter what."
I don't know how in the Hell you coulda made it to Number 2 with a straight face. She woulda got to Number 1 and I woulda just walked away shaking my head. You sir, have the patience of Job so to speak.
1. Um yea, of all the women I've ever dated not one has ever cited anything so remotely disturbing or revolting. They are women. Therefore her theory is all shot to Hell and she needs to recheck her "assertions".
2. Assuming that, in her world, "Real Men" translates loosely into "the ugliest men you'll ever find", then yea I could see that rule of hers in application. In the real world, where *I* live, "Real Men" will kick it to the curb or shoot at it thinkin' somethin' was on the verge of dyin' down there anyways so put it out of its misery.
3. I got nothin' for that except to say it's just about the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. "Honoured"? Oh man, get real...
4. She probably based this off the old myth that men will "fcuk it if it has a hole". WRONG. Desperate men perhaps...but not any man that has any dignity at all.
Just be glad that everything happens for a reason. As you yourself stated, it prevented you from latching on to a real nutcase. Be glad that you reacted the way you did, and never look down on yourself for doing it.
But then she threw in the " I forgive you for being Ignorant." WTF? Her trying to turn the fact that she was wearing dirty panties into my fault just made me glad that I didn't go there with her.
Yep. Women are famous for making their poor choices or habits or mistakes into your responsibility. I woulda replied with, "Thanks for that. And in return, I forgive you for your lack of character".
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Posted: 10/1/2008 11:37:05 AM | | Okay that was funny. There is a difference between dirty underwear and really worn underwear. None of my panties that I wear are dirty but are defiantly worn out, however, on dates, I make sure to wear clean underwear even if they’re Fruit of a looms. Also to ensure that my panties are fresh, I wear panty liners. I guess your date has never heard of them. Panty liners are the greatest things in the world. | |
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Posted: 10/1/2008 12:33:30 PM |
My mother always told me to put on clean underwear, she said "You never know when you're going to be in an accident."
Depending on the severity of the accident, even clean underwear can rapidly become filled.
"OH SH!T! I just lost my arm in a car crash!" :blurp:
But then again, why wouldn't you put on clean underwear? I don't think I've ever put "dirty" underwear on at all, ever. If I'm in a position to be putting it ON, it comes from the clean pile... | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 9:26:46 AM | When I'm goingon a date, there's no chance of them being dirty...I actually put thought into the process... like, will they show panty lines? What color looks best w/my bra? What kind do I need for wearing shorts/skirt/jeans? Just how sexy am I feeling? Hmmm....what kind would HE like to see? Is he a black lace kinda guy? White silk? Pink teddy bears? Bikini or hipsters?
Yeah, there's no grabbing one out of a pile.
Oh, and.... who on earth keeps a pile of dirty undies next to their clean panties? My clean panties are in my underwear drawer. The dirty ones are in the laundry room! GEEZ... and I'm not known to be a good housekeeper...but even I can handle that much!
And no, I have never ever ever worn dirty panties on a date. I've been known to run home at lunch even to freshen up and put on clean ones if I'm meeting someone for lunch at his house for a little together time!!! @@
And guys should not ever feel like they have to put up with something gross to get sex. Or that they should feel grateful. Sex is something you do together, sharing pleasure...not the girl granting you a favor. Ay yi yi.
I call "SKANK" of the first degree. Now if you never understood what defined a skanky girl, well, you do now.
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Posted: 10/2/2008 9:52:48 AM | Ok I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt with the previously mentioned causes:
Wetness/cream, unexpected period or "spotting" (has happened to me before, IUD's make you spot erratically :( and yes panty liners are a gift from heaven) However, given that she admitted to the wearing of dirty underwear... well icky poo! If they were stained throw them out! lol, she for sure had little care about her cleanliness given her responses. *yack* | |
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Posted: 10/2/2008 9:55:52 AM | James in SD said,
I said the first two things, but I don't remember saying any of that other stuff. Those look like your words, not mine.
Well I know that you didn't say all of that. If you read it, my responses are under the quotes. Just was making the point that you seemed intent on defending someone who doesn't like wearing clean underwear. Maybe you wanted to sniff them or something I don't know and I don't care.
I just know that I didn't want to go there so I didn't. There are plenty of pretty women that believe that clean panties and soap are their best friend.
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