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Posted: 10/3/2008 7:36:30 AM |
Interesting report in the paper this morning about differences in male and female responses .
A DUH! study there. I wonder if next they're going to investigate why the lines at women's restrooms are longer than the line at men's. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 7:59:03 AM |
the lines at women's restrooms are longer than the line at men's.
Cause we wash our hands.
ewwwwww | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 8:14:25 AM |
The result is that men, regardless of their looks, are successful in landing better looking than them fish, while women tend to end up with fish of equal or lesser physical appeal.
See that, guys??
Y'all got it made in the shade!
So, for all of you fellas who think we're something evil incarnate, ever hatching nefarious plots to mess with ya, 'cause we think we are just SO much better than you...
...re-read that!
(where'd that evil looking wink smilie go? AH! found him!)
HnH 
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Posted: 10/3/2008 8:55:17 AM | | Of course it is true. Looks have very little to do with timing, personality or true chemistry. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2008 11:12:47 AM |
And flush the toilet...
Hey, we flush the toilet... from the guy before us... 
Of course it is true. Looks have very little to do with timing, personality or true chemistry.
 Absolutely. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 9:56:14 AM |
Who's to say what ugly is? Ugly to one person isn't necessarily to another. Same goes for whats considered beautiful.
If a man considers a woman ugly and he pursues her figuring it's an easy lift to his ego, it speaks volumes to how much more ugly he is as a human being than she could ever be.
Everyone has the right to reject anyone else, for any reason.
Thanks for saving me the typing. MHP, once again, says it efficiently and elegantly. | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 10:30:02 AM |
Who's to say what ugly is? Ugly to one person isn't necessarily to another. Same goes for whats considered beautiful.
If a man considers a woman ugly and he pursues her figuring it's an easy lift to his ego, it speaks volumes to how much more ugly he is as a human being than she could ever be.
Everyone has the right to reject anyone else, for any reason.
Thanks for saving me the typing. MHP, once again, says it efficiently and elegantly.
...See, he's not just eye candy...he's smart too
...maeflowers | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 2:12:35 PM | OP . . . this thing about beautiful or less beautiful or ugly or whatnot . . .. all sounds like the saying in Spanish [cleaning it up] . . . “An idiot’s reasoning . .”
If I were you, I would stop attending these so-called educational single gatherings and heed less to this so-called guru you been having discussions with.
If you really want to understand men’s rejection . . . you pursue men . . .you make the first move whether you are at a club or on-line or whatever . . . pursue the so-called handsome or not so handsome . . .
I for whatever reason men rarely approach me . . . (oookay . . so I’m a smartassssssssss . . . hey but an adorable one- LOL!) . . . so about a year ago . . . I took the bull by the horns and started to pursue men . . . in clubs, at bars, on-line . . .
Nowwwww . . . don’t get me wrong for I’m not saying I’m beautiful . . . what I am saying is that I was totally “INDIFFERENT” towards a man feelings when he approached me . . . and I don’t think I am (was) the only female that has been INDIFFERENT . . . IMO . .. females do take for granted what it takes for a human being putting themselves out there to be rejected.
IMO, rejection is rejection . . .also, IMO, there is nothing better for building character than one’s journey in the “acceptance of rejection” . . .IMO . . . those that avoid rejection . . . avoid life . . . aka “PLAY IT SAFE” . . .
I personally believe that men are much more gentle in rejecting a female than a female is rejecting a man.
*bows to men*
Best of luck,
~Myth~ | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 9:08:13 PM | After reading the three pages in this post, there was a conclusion. I really don't like the word Rejection. For one thing being a fluffy (fat) and average looks of a woman, there are many men that ask me out. I say "No" because if I feel we have nothing in common or if they are only into their own ego indulgences, then I can't see the point of wasting each others time. Many men think that us overweight women are desperate or stupid. So I rather be alone then just play games. I kind of feel for the very attractive women. It must be hard to know who their friends really are sometimes. I accept and love who I am today. Fluffy, ugly or whatever...I know who I am and exactly what is wanted in a relationship --and if that doesn't happen...so be it. There is so much life to keep me joyful and busy.
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Posted: 10/5/2008 9:25:01 PM |
Nowwwww . . . don’t get me wrong for I’m not saying I’m beautiful . . . what I am saying is that I was totally “INDIFFERENT” towards a man feelings when he approached me . . . and I don’t think I am (was) the only female that has been INDIFFERENT . . . IMO . .. females do take for granted what it takes for a human being putting themselves out there to be rejected.
Thank you.
I personally believe that men are much more gentle in rejecting a female than a female is rejecting a man.
And, Thank you!
It sure makes a difference when you walk a mile in the others shoes, doesn't it? | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 10:36:06 PM | I guess I am still looking for the sticker where it says what your attraction level is? How does anyone know what they are rated? And by who? OMG it's THEY at work again! Gosh wonder what they rated me
Seriously how does one guy know if who he is attracted to is a 7 cause to someone else she might be a 9 and to a third guy she might be a 5..while he might be the reverse to different women so basically this whole thread is something that should be flushed...and dont forget to wash your hands! | |
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Posted: 10/5/2008 10:38:02 PM | ...See, he's not just eye candy...he's smart too
Ladies, I saw him first...  and it appears he has finally publicly proclaimed his love for me. Hiya Sweetiebumps...  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:27:09 AM |
Ladies, I saw him first... and it appears he has finally publicly proclaimed his love for me. Hiya Sweetiebumps
I've never felt so rejected *crossing PeteredOut off list too. snif | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:32:36 AM |
I've never felt so rejected *crossing PeteredOut off list too. snif
Oh it's nothing personal Sweetie... (he said cautiously noting the weaponry on her profile pictures).  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:41:13 AM |
Cause we wash our hands.
we learn not to pee on our hands.
That is so true,, I wash my hands before I pee,, the reason is,, I don't want to touch my thing with dirty hands,, that way my "little guy" is always clean,,
From experience,, men do wash their hand more then woman,,when I was young I used to be a porter,, I would have to clean the bathrooms nightly,,here is what I learned,, in the mens room the soap and paper towels always needed to be filled,, yet the ladies room,, the tampon machines,, always empty,, toilet paper always empty rolls,, yet I only had to fill the soap and paper towel dispensers 2 or 3 times a week,,go figure,, | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 6:56:21 AM |
From experience,, men do wash their hand more then woman,,when I was young I used to be a porter,, I would have to clean the bathrooms nightly,,here is what I learned,, in the mens room the soap and paper towels always needed to be filled,, yet the ladies room,, the tampon machines,, always empty,, toilet paper always empty rolls,, yet I only had to fill the soap and paper towel dispensers 2 or 3 times a week,,go figure
Pssssssssssssssttt!!!!!
It was supposed to be a joke.... | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:05:57 AM |
From experience,, men do wash their hand more then woman,,when I was young I used to be a porter,, I would have to clean the bathrooms nightly,,here is what I learned,, in the mens room the soap and paper towels always needed to be filled,, yet the ladies room,, the tampon machines,, always empty,, toilet paper always empty rolls,, yet I only had to fill the soap and paper towel dispensers 2 or 3 times a week,,go figure,,
Wait... We're supposed to use SOAP?  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:34:22 AM |
It was supposed to be a joke..
Yes I knew that,I laughed,, , but isn't it true with most jokes,, there is some truth to them,, LOL | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:33:51 AM | | I was in the restroom once and this woman left without washing her hands, another woman was in there with like a 3 yr old who said very loudly...Mom, she didnt wash her hands...the woman came back and did it. Got to love the potty police at the age of 3. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 10:41:41 AM | | So a question for everyone. How important are the pictures? Do you say okay or reject based on the pictures alone? Or do you take time to read the profile? | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 11:00:14 AM |
So a question for everyone. How important are the pictures? Do you say okay or reject based on the pictures alone?
Yes, I will reject someone based on their pictures. Often it has a lot to do with style. There are 50 year old ladies who look hawt, and there are 50 year old ladies who look like my grandma... it has less to do with "physical" appearance than "outward" appearance.
Or do you take time to read the profile?
I have a pornographic memory, so some profiles just stick in my mind (yes, it's sticky in there... ) | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:31:08 PM | | I always read a profile. Pictures are important in terms of giving some insight on the other person's lifestyle. For example, I like the city life, and wouldn't go for someone with pictures in his cowboy hat or boots, etc. At the same time, I don't rely on pictures for chemistry. I know, I am not photogenic, and I accept that other people might have the same issue. So, I don't judge attractiveness by pictures. Plus, I am not picky about looks anyway. | |
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