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| | How do you stimulate the clitoris?Page 5 of 11 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11) | | That explanation and description defies any other on here. ROGER, you got the goods, honey. | |
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TrinB
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Msg: 103 | |
| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 12:17:36 PM | touch it... and kiss it with wet lips.....
oh and then while ur F**king her put your finger there....oooooooweeeeee! | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 2:09:53 PM | important tip Trinb...lol...wtg however, thinking he's looking to seduce and make love...if he's as shy, as he says he is...he won't be that aggressive
OP, suggestion if I'm wrong...stop looking at the pictures in the porn books, and read the stories...they're along the same line as Rogers method, lol very detailed...read the ones written by females, so you you know what works for chicks from their words
keep us informed when u make your first chick, moan and sqirm...
did we leave anything out ppls?  | |
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TrinB
| | Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 106 | |
| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 3:07:43 PM |
if he's as shy, as he says he is...
divine345-i didn't notice anywhere where the OP stated he was shy in his original post....if it was stated later...well, then i really didn't see it....i didnt thumb through all 6 pages of responses...LOL
oh and my golden rule i don't view no pic profiles....many times they are fake/ staged profiles...more fake than some of the profiles with pics
also: i know the threads that are posted just to get conversations started and keep members glued.....i just participate like you all do.....
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 5:49:32 PM | he did mention somewhere in this thread re: the shy thing...for his age he'd have to be..unless he's been in prison for a long time lol
and yes Trinb...I'm aware of the "trolls" thanks tho incase I wasn't ...but hey...its free entertainment makes me chuckle...the way I see it...somewhere out there in "forum land" were answering someones question  | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 6:15:52 PM |
rub it up and down
slower then faster then slower then faster
apply a varied amount of pressure
insert your finger inside her pull it out and rub her clit with your wet finger
I nearly had an orgasm. | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/13/2008 6:31:11 PM | | OP.........go to the closest book store and purchase "The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus" by Violet Blue. Excellent read and if you aren't a tongue master after reading and applying said knowledge God help ya! | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/19/2008 10:03:19 PM | | LOL once again i read some insane bullshit by cat*eyes ... the only stupid posts i see here are the comments she leaves...she calls MOST people morons and idiots while telling people she masturbates with batteries!!! maybe she should go back to dressing like something out of the rocky horror picture show and leave the dating and sex to the NORMAL people!! rofl!! | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/20/2008 6:07:58 AM | Amoungst the jokes...no...penitration rarely touches the clitoris...You can during intercourse stimulate her and in many instances give her a real pleasure but in my experiences...oral will give a woman toe curling climaxes.... | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/20/2008 8:19:19 AM | You're kidding me right? When I read this I thought you were like ten years old or something? Almost any kind of direct touch can stimulate a woman's clitoris, even intercourse in certain positions.
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/20/2008 8:50:33 AM | There's a method I love to employ.
I prefer to have my head in the woman's full view, so she can see my lips. I take a moment and lick my lips slowly, giving her the chance to view my tongue.
I bring my lips together and gently blow onto the clitoris. Just lightly, with a cool breath. I follow with a kiss, barely touching it. I move my lips slowly around her left lip, making sure to spend a little extra time near the rounds and creases of her bottom.
At this point, I add the tip my tongue. I lick the slit of her bottom (to let her know I can, but I don't yet), then lick upwards to the right lip. I would go back to the kissing.
From the clitoris, I'd lower my tongue to the top of the entry, and move it slowly in and out. I'll add one finger just below for further penetration. My tongue's entry will move over the clitoris, so I'm achieving ever possible motion. | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:43:36 PM | Danzfriendchefhero says [There's a method I love to employ. I prefer to have my head in the woman's full view, so she can see my lips. I take a moment and lick my lips slowly, giving her the chance to view my tongue.I bring my lips together and gently blow onto the clitoris. Just lightly, with a cool breath. I follow with a kiss, barely touching it. I move my lips slowly around her left lip, making sure to spend a little extra time near the rounds and creases of her bottom. At this point, I add the tip my tongue. I lick the slit of her bottom (to let her know I can, but I don't yet), then lick upwards to the right lip. I would go back to the kissing.]
Geez.... If you are going to go into this much detail at least alert us to set our alarms 30 minutes earlier, so we are not late for work. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo
Come on, give a girl a heads up on this type of post! | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/21/2008 2:17:45 PM | | A rather vague question, doesn't specify during what, exactly. While you can use anything that will fit, tongue or fingers seem to work quite well. If you're going to use your fingers, make sure your skin is soft, and your hands are clean. For those of us who work outdoors a lot, during the winter this may seem difficult. After washing your hands, run them under warm water for a while. Rub a tiny bit of vasaline into your hands, continue to run under the warm water for a couple of minutes, it will work it's way into your skin. Blot your hands dry with a paper towel to get off the residual greasy feeling. If your tongue is dry and rough, you have more problems than anyone here can help you with. Try different things. If your girlfriend doesn't seem to enjoy it, try something else. There are explicit instructional videos for this, and what works for one woman may not for another. Take your time; although many women can make themselves come in a short time, that's because of direct feedback AND a perfect fantasy going on in her head, which you don't have the benefit of. Give her plenty of time to get into the right mood. Some like it soft, some like it hard, some side to side, some top to bottom, some a mixture of both, basically try the Sam Kinison theory and do the alphabet; when you find the letter that seems to ignite some sparks, try continuing that. BE GENTLE. A clitoris is not a penis, and you can't yank away furiously at it to make it come. One thing I can say, is when she starts to come DON'T STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND START DOING SOMETHING ELSE. Yes, they like being teased, but not usually when on the verge of orgasm. | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/24/2008 12:03:14 PM |
talk to it---a lot
Distance might be right but mighty actions speak louder than whispering worshipping cherishing words  | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/24/2008 12:42:47 PM | | Oh let me count the ways...LOL.......my best advice is to pay attention to how your woman responds when you do certain things. I've been with my man for a while now and he still can't get it exactly right (frustrating!!) But he tries and that's all that matters! | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 10/24/2008 2:49:58 PM |
…how do you stimulate the clitoris? Wow, OP wide open question here; how you stimulate it depends on when and why you are stimulating it. First you need to realize that even though the clitoris is the key to giving her an orgasm, it is where you FINISH; NOT where you begin. Foreplay, anticipation, teasing, touching, kissing, licking, nibbling, are all essential elements that need to be in play well before you even think about stimulating the clitoris. When a woman is aroused, the clitoris will become engorged and swell, much like the penis, and become much more sensitive. You want her dripping wet, and her clitoris swelling, BEFORE you start any type of direct, or indirect, stimulation.
How sensitive is it to touch? It is exquisitely sensitive; so, in nearly EVERY case, very light touch is called for. If you are touching it with your tongue, or finger, try to see how lightly you can touch it and still remain in contact; also, make sure your finger or tongue are moist before you touch it directly. Ask her to let you know if and when she wants firmer or lighter pressure; and whether she wants faster or slower movement. Ask her to masturbate for you and pay close attention to when, where, and how, she touches her clitoris. Does she go directly across it; or does she circle it? Does she start one way and then go another? Does she use light or firm touch? If she changes up, when, how, and why does she change? Pay very close attention to what she is doing when she comes; and try to emulate this pattern when you have changed places.
Does it get enough stimulation with regular penetration or do you need to stimulate it some other way? Most women DO NOT get enough clitoral stimulation through straight intercourse. The best way to achieve this is to put her on top; that way she can position herself, and adjust her movements in such a way as to get the correct amount and type of clitoral stimulation she needs. Most of the time this will consist of grinding or very small strokes; so you may not be getting a lot of stimulation yourself. This one’s for her, take one for the team, you can go back to concentrating on you after she has cum.
Another way to stimulate her clitoris during sex is for you to do it manually or with toys. With her on top facing you, you can place your hand on her belly, and stimulate her clit with your thumb while she rides you. When using doggie style, or from behind, you can reach around her rubbing her clitoris with your fingers. Just remember NOT to get TOO rough. They also make small finger tip vibrators (which I like) that you place on the tip of your finger (duh) and you can use one of these on her clit while you are inside of her; this can assure she gets the needed clitoral stimulation while enjoying several different positions. These fingertip devices are also a lot of fun while going down on her; or all by themselves as stand alone vibrators while laying beside her.
Orally you are only limited by your imagination, and what she likes. You can use just the tip of your tongue and either lick/flick the clitoris directly; or, if she prefers, circle it with without direct contact. You can lick it over the hood; or place a finger just above it and push up; this will retract the hood, and force the clitoris to pop up right under your tongue, so smooth, and moist, erect, just waiting for you to very gently run your tongue over it. You can also suck it into your mouth putting pressure on the shaft and head with your lips. You can suck it in and out of your mouth this way, with, or without, gently licking across the tip of the head with your tongue. Lots of women thoroughly enjoy this; especially if they have a larger, longer, type clit. Also, at this point, you can bring your lips together and hum a buzzing type sound which greatly accentuates the sensation. They even make tongue vibrators that you can use while doing this. All the while you are doing any of these techniques; don’t forget about the rest of her; or the rest of her pu$$y. While doing any/all of this you can be touching/caressing her breasts; playing with, or pinching her nipples; caressing her face with the fingertips of a free hand; tracing your fingers up and down her thighs; squeezing her ass and pulling her into you; and when it comes time to work towards her orgasm, you can insert two fingers into her vagina, and crooking them in a “come hither” type of movement, stimulate her g-spot at the same time you are licking/sucking/stimulating her clitoris. However, once she starts building toward her orgasm, DO NOT CHANGE, OR STOP, ANYHING you are doing. Keep doing exactly what you are doing, until she starts to cum; then you can alter it according to whatever will increase the intensity or duration of her orgasm. You can use a lot of these techniques to see how long you can keep her orgasm going; seeing if you can stretch it into several minutes long. I love seeing how long I can keep her coming. The limiting factor here may be how long you can go before your jaw cramps, LOL.
Other ways to stimulate the clitoris include blowing on it. Alternate licking and sucking with blowing every now and then. You can purse your lips and blow cool air; or with them open and apart you can blow warm moist breaths. Another fun thing to do is to put an ice cube in your cheek, and occasionally let cool water drip from your mouth over her clitoris, and or between her lips; or switch to using the cool part of your tongue that was in contact with the ice. You can also get a mouthful of wine, and let it drip over her clitoris and pu$$y, then gently, teasingly, lick it up; then pull your face back and blow on the wet area. I also enjoy taking a bunch of grapes and stroking them up and down over the clitoris, and the entire region. She feels the smoothness and coolness of the grapes coupled with the lumpy/bumpiness of the bunch as it gently caresses her. After that you can take one grape in your mouth, and trace it back and forth over the clitoris, then down between her lips, and run it in and out of her vagina with your tongue. (No, I’ve never lost a grape, LOL) After that, you eat that grape, or feed it to her, and begin again with another one.
Another fun thing to do, although this is more letting HER stimulate her own clitoris, is to pull out of her, holding yourself above her, with just the head of your c*ck resting against her; have her reach down take your c*ck in her hand, and masturbate herself using your c*ck. It feels incredible being “used” that way; feeling her fingers tighten, her back arch, her face tensing, her movements quickening, and her breathing getting more forced and rapid; and the whole time she is holding you, and using you, to stimulate herself; then suddenly pulling you into her, locking her legs behind you, and clamping onto you while she cums; and all you had to do was to sit and watch, and feel. Incredible.
I hope this didn’t come across as too gratuitous; although I’m sure I’ve offended some. The bottom line is that your imagination is the most critical element involved in sexual pleasure; and when dealing with the clitoris, be gentle, be moist, listen to what she is saying, and how she is reacting; and when approaching orgasm, don’t change anything. The gentle part can be the toughest; because with guys, when we get close, we like it faster and harder; but if you get too hard with the clitoris; you’ll ruin everything. Enjoy. | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:43:40 PM | | When I was a young fella I read books on technique...all the stuff you see here...and of course it all works. Then one day I discovered that if you can get into your partner's mind, if you can seduce her with your thoughts, if you can make love to her with your mind first...she's halfway to many orgasms before you even get down there...and at that point, every technique will seem wonderful for her... | |
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| How do you stimulate the clitoris?
Posted: 11/14/2008 11:05:52 PM | | It's not nearly as entertaining to read, but I believe this is the key to the whole enchilada. Opening up a door or remembering a special day takes a lad much closer to the holy grail than a perfectly lubed finger or flicking toungue tip. | |
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