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TS1964
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Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 252 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/23/2008 9:30:18 PM | OP
why do women not like to swallow while giving oral sex its like you working for something to happen any way just finish what you started you ladies certainly like if we stopped and hight of orgasm i was just wondering is there reason why you dont swallow are afraid to taste what is it so more men can understand A women shouldn't have to swallow a man's semen in order for him to feel fullfilled. She can still give a good BJ and have the cum go somewhere else on her body. I'll tell you what, you start swallowing your own. Then, if there's not a problem, ask the question again. | |
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TS1964
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Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 253 | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/23/2008 9:37:12 PM |
drink alot of juice (orange and cranberry is a plus, its tarty, aka gets rid of the yuck taste)
dont eat beef, tuna, or asparagus within 8-12 hours
do not drink coffee, it will taste like a leather wallet
eat fish, salmon especially, or just go out to sushi
drink alot of water so it isnt thick and goopy
make it sweet like candy and she will want it all the time.
plus it is a good gesture if she does do it, so make it not suck for her.
lol thats very true becuase some men do have yummy tasting cum and others its 2 thick or gross so this is the remedy huh lol guys take note i love how you ended your post 2 lol so true | |
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TS1964
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Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 255 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/23/2008 9:48:45 PM |
from Aloooohaha - Haven't you ever kissed a girl after she's given you a blow job and tasted it? It's a turn on for me when a guy is comfortable with that. You brought up another good notion to consider. Not only will many men not try their own semen, but many won't even kiss their ladies afterwards until they've brushed their teeth. Right guys? I would never expect a women to do something that I wouldn't do myself. I licked my own semen once just to see what the hell it was like and whether it would be suitable for swallowing. Well it definitely wasn't to me. And some women get upset if you won't french kiss them after spewing in their mouths, right ladies? I can understand your feelings, but I'd prefer that you do the oral rinse first. I'll admit that I'm turned on when my lady is willing to swallow (especially when she really enjoys it), but it's not something I would demand, ever.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/23/2008 10:47:21 PM | I try not to worry about if they swallow or not. Just be glad your getting a BJ. Right on, brother!!!!
It's one thing to not care if a woman swallows, but if you think you should be grateful for sex, regardless of whether that's oral sex or whatever, you have a bad case of PW. I put a lot of effort into trying to satisfy my partners and I'm entitled to seek out partners who don't act like they are doing me a favor by giving me a blowjob or anything else and then expect me to grateful for it. If a woman doesn't like doing those things, she should find someone with whom she's more compatible instead of trying to convince others to just deal with it. Believe it or not, there are women who like sex. | |
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Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 258 | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/23/2008 11:17:51 PM |
Not saying it's better, just tired of seeing the two compared when they're vastly different in my opinion. I find the whole "well we swallow when we go down on women so they should swallow too" argument completely weak.
Then stop using the reverse argument.
When have I EVER said that because I don't believe that the quantity of fluids are equal that a woman shouldn't swallow because of this? Oh right, never!
I would never have mentioned it had you and the other no swallowing zealots not made it THE issue.
Ah, this what your problem is. You're lumping me into a category I don't even think I belong in. Don't assume that because I don't swallow that I share all the negative views that others have expressed about swallowing. It's just simply not the case.
And, as I pointed out, men produce about a teaspoon, max, which casts your assertion very much in doubt.
Which really meant nothing if you can't provide an amount for vaginal fluid to compare. I can't argue with your "doubt" that women produce less. Discussion just doesn't work like that.
All you've done is try to rationalize it and you've spent most of your reply continuing to do so rather than just say you don't like it and let that stand on its own.
Haha. Like I said before, all I've done is argue the equality argument. I'm NOT rationalizing anything because I don't believe something as silly as whether I swallow or not needs to be rationalized.
For the record, I spit. I have a bad gag reflex and I usually gag as a partner is finishing in my mouth. There's just no way it's going down my throat after that. So I use a towel and discreetly spit it out and I've never had a partner have a problem with this. I'm not even objected to swallowing if it was a situation where my gagging was no longer a problem.
Based on that, I really don't see why I would have to rationalize anything. I just like to argue/discuss on forums to avoid work =)
After all that, if you wanna take my arguing as rationalizing, whatever, so be it. I can't help knuckleheads. | |
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TS1964
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Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 260 | |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 2:03:52 AM | Let's face it --pardon the pun, some women just don't care for a protein diet. And that's okay. You can always give her a pearl necklace. Now there's some jewels that are cost efficient and easy to deliver. 
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 2:34:43 AM | I think its dif for every woman,
its not wrong 4 her to not like doing it....i know ALOT that wont even give a bj !
4 myself....i get hot by making my partner hot, and in all honesty would
rather go down on a man than him on me
plus at the end of the day.....i was always taught its "rude to spit" 
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 4:30:32 PM |
When have I EVER said that because I don't believe that the quantity of fluids are equal that a woman shouldn't swallow because of this? Oh right, never!
In msg 196, you wrote:
What is this reciprocity BS? It implies equality, and unless a woman is a "squirter," there's nothing equal about a load of cum and the fluids excreted when a woman orgasms.
Ah, this what your problem is. You're lumping me into a category I don't even think I belong in. Don't assume that because I don't swallow that I share all the negative views that others have expressed about swallowing. It's just simply not the case.
You seem to be making a fair effort on their behalf for someone who doesn't share their views.
Which really meant nothing if you can't provide an amount for vaginal fluid to compare. I can't argue with your "doubt" that women produce less. Discussion just doesn't work like that.
What I cannot provide (at least at the moment) is a reference. However, women couldn't get their panties as wet as they do with a teaspoon of fluid and I have little doubt that after spending 15-20 minutes (which is typical) performing oral sex on a woman, that I swallow well over a teaspoon of vaginal fluids,
After all that, if you wanna take my arguing as rationalizing, whatever, so be it. I can't help knuckleheads.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 10:05:21 PM | | Basically I don't think there is anything in the rules of dating that says I have to swallow if I don't want to. For some men/women it means that they love them and care for them and that is why they do it.....Some say it is because they enjoy it. It doesn't matter the reason that they do or they don't. It all comes down to a personal choice. I don't think my love for my man is based on how much cum I do or don't swallow. | |
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TS1964
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Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 264 | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 11:33:08 PM | Do me a favor, jizz all over your hand...make sure you swallow every last drop. Come back and let us know how that worked out for you!
I find that the men who have never tasted their own cum are the ones who question more often why women won't swallow
^^^ LeavemBe from pg1 provided a crucial thing boys for your understanding!
it's all in the taste... pineapple boys???? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/24/2008 11:41:56 PM | That's what I was saying earlier when I stated that if he really wanted to know the answer to his question then he should tell the girl not to swallow but to bring it up and give it to him instead.
This is something I have done and after the initial shock I have seen four different reactions from the men. The first is that they enjoy having it fed to them, the second is that they don't, the third is that they won't even kiss you afterward, and the fourth is that they haven't made up their mind yet!
On a personal level, if the man can't take it then he shouldn't expect me to. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 7:40:08 AM |
Basically I don't think there is anything in the rules of dating that says I have to swallow if I don't want to.
No, but there is something in my rule book that says I won't get into a relationship with a woman who doesn't want to swallow. There are enough women who want to swallow that I don't think I have to give up anything to find women who want to. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 7:45:42 AM |
On a personal level, if the man can't take it then he shouldn't expect me to.
By the same token, you shouldn't expect a man to eat p*ssy unless you do and you aren't bi. I guess you could expect it if you promised to not get wet. I expect women to reciprocate. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 7:48:47 AM |
No, but there is something in my rule book that says I won't get into a relationship with a woman who doesn't want to swallow. There are enough women who want to swallow that I don't think I have to give up anything to find women who want to.
Just the same as there are plenty of men that don't base love on how much cum I swallow or don't swallow. We all of our choices on what we want and don't. I might swallow for the right man............but him telling me that is one of his "requirements" to date me would be such a turn off I wouldn't even bother talking. If swallowing shows you she loves you...............where is the love and respect for her to not want her to do something that she doesn't enjoy. Ya know.............if you guys didn't "require it" and put it as such you might get it a little bit more. JMO | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 9:22:18 AM | Just the same as there are plenty of men that don't base love on how much cum I swallow or don't swallow.
Sexual compatibility is important.I won't apologize for wanting or expecting it. How many divorces do you think are caused by overlooking that? Since you happen to be divorced, what makes you an expert upon what love should be based? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 9:41:29 AM | i just wanted to say hello to everybody on the forums !..i'm used to talking on a another website and not quite sure how to use the forums here ...but love oral sex ( especially to completion ) and most importantly if i love the taste of the woman ? because if the physical chemistry there's then you're both rocking !! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 10:04:21 AM | | This is my first foray into the forums here... My what a lively topic! I guess it is ultimately up to the woman whether she wants to swallow or not. Just to be on the safe side I eat a lot of parsley... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/25/2008 10:29:27 AM | | This is just too funny! How can there be 12 pages of posts about swallowing cum! Some do, some dont...PERIOD! As far as the medical side of it, there is risks with any sexual behaviour and if you don't trust your partner enough to get a lil cum in your mouth, don't trust them enough to even get in that position! | |
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