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 BobbieRB

Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 376
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/13/2008 10:52:00 AM
IMO This is how I am dont know about the rest just me
Wash it wax it shave it I hate hair!!!!!!!!!
A guy dont like hair in his teeth any more then a girl.
If it smells funny I'm not going to have that lol.
Tast bad O no way ewww.
If I really like you I'm going down on that likes its my fing JOB.
I like the way it tast if your dite is right then its all good .
I like to play in it have it on me as well but I'm a little odd so that again is just me lmao
 Shelly0187

Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 377
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/13/2008 12:20:23 PM
My theory is this..... if a guy wants to know why we don't want them to blow their load in our mouths.... then they should blow their load in their OWN mouths. The day I see a guy actually do this and not throw up, i will vow to do it for any guy, every time for the rest of my life.
 Arlo Troutman

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 378
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/13/2008 1:13:50 PM

(shelly0187) My theory is this..... if a guy wants to know why we don't want them to blow their load in our mouths.... then they should blow their load in their OWN mouths.


Meh. If I was that flexible, I'd never have to leave my apartment...
 Deuce Light

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 379
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Posted: 11/13/2008 1:18:34 PM
Is that all it'd take Shelly?! Hell, I'd take one for the team and bury one down the hatch if it meant making the load on the men you may encounter in the rest of your life that much easier in this sense!
 yepimlonelytoo

Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 380
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/18/2008 7:18:25 PM
sometimes it doesn't taste very good, that's why, personally i would never stop at the height of my partner's orgasm so he didn't ......in my mouth...it's never that bad. I would hope he returns the favor.
 moondowner

Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 381
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Posted: 11/18/2008 8:57:09 PM
FYI http://www.tatom.org/documents/CNN.com-StudyNewstudyshows.htm
All women want to be healthy.
 tallNfun1

Joined: 9/16/2008
Msg: 382
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:00:17 PM
who is "they"? i'm a woman and i do it!
 tallNfun1

Joined: 9/16/2008
Msg: 383
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:01:27 PM
oh yes and i enjoy every second of it. its like what else is the point of evenin givin oral if your not ready for the end result?! the pleasure a man gets...mm mm good knowin you did somethin right
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 384
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:41:48 PM

My theory is this..... if a guy wants to know why we don't want them to blow their load in our mouths.... then they should blow their load in their OWN mouths.



My theory is this... Women who subscribe to your theory only get oral sex if the don't get wet and I stop before they have an orgasm. Women who swallow get anything they want.
 r0ckstar420

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 385
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Posted: 11/19/2008 12:07:03 AM
lol that is priceless
 macscujo

Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 386
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 12:45:39 AM
That's the best part of giving a BJ. I don't give many, only to my good slaves. Think about it, it's like him going down on you with a good session or oral and not licking you clean. I prefer my men at the end of my whip but be fair ladies.
 pixelplay

Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 387
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 2:44:53 AM
Maybe its to do with how much they are paid and not to do with love at all hahahaha
 eantonio

Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 388
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Posted: 11/19/2008 4:38:57 AM
I remember when I ws child, my parent thought that leading by exmaple was the way to go. When there were foods that I did not like they would eat it in front of me and tell me how good it was and to reassure me that nothng bad was going to happen to me like a vegtable monster would pop out of my bellie or something. There efforts paid off, b/c most of the time I would trust them and try it for myself. I write all that to say this. maybe you should try it first with her. Allow her to take a big mouthful and then swap it back in your mouth for you too swallow. In addition to that act being a complete turn on, for most women, it shows her that you are not going to ask her to do something that you are not willing to do yourself. lastly, take a look at your diet. Lots of fruits and healthy foods do make a world of a difference in the taste.
 Spoken For

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 389
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Posted: 11/19/2008 4:53:11 AM
Because to me, it would be like me blowing my nose into a kleenex and asking you to swallow a big blob of snot. Would you do it for me, if it really turned me on?? Same texture, IMO, not happening.
 cltlkr110255

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 390
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Posted: 11/19/2008 5:09:10 AM
I've read most of the posts on this subject and am not quite getting it. The majority of women I have been with swallow. I have found that women that really get off giving a bj will. The ones that do it becasue they feel they have to, don't.

Taste, texture, etc do cum into play...but how do you know that the first time? I have been told mine taste good, so maybe that's why I have the experience I have.

It's hot when my lover gives me a big wet kiss after I cum in her mouth....and vis versa.
 Deuce Light

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 391
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Posted: 11/19/2008 6:49:02 AM
^^Does your wife know you snowball other women with that mouth?

I'm not sure why some get so bent out of shape about this subject. If you don't like it you don't like it. I don't think there is a very large percentage of women that actually LIKE the taste and texture of spooge. I dated one for a while last year that LOVED it and would beg for it, like if I did it in the condom it was a complete waste of a snack! I think she was an anomaly in that sense and most women are probably in the indifferent field; they could do without but like to do it to please their man, plus it makes them feel more connected to them. My ex-wife wouldn't have it anywhere near her body. To be honest I hate liver and i wouldn't voluntarily eat it, no matter how much I loved someone unless it was doused in sauce and I could eat it with a bunch of other things. But plain? No thanks. And NO one is going to tell me "well if I can eat it then you can eat it" and me change my mind.

Next time someone asks you to swallow their load and you don't want to tell them you like to give golden showers and have them swallow their urine and see if they'll return the favour. Dirty Sanchez, anyone?
 wntcom41

Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 392
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 7:50:57 AM
I totally agree with you..kayskg there is your answer in a nut shell .. sorry bout the pun heheheeheh
 wabanaki

Joined: 11/6/2008
Msg: 393
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 2:37:17 PM
one of my girlfriends liked to rub it all over her. i hated that cause she wanted me to roll with her in it
 wabanaki

Joined: 11/6/2008
Msg: 394
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 2:46:15 PM
don't worry, i found out that if i hold onto it, its way bigger and harder so i can bang away until she takes the whole thing and is tired out but some chics get unhappy when a guy holds back. It's like a champaine bottle when it goes off though, CUMIN AT YA
 ihateyourface

Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 395
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Posted: 11/19/2008 3:04:47 PM
is not that i dont like swallowing per say i just view not swallowing as less risky....ive always had this crazy theory of no cum in me =for the best!
 ¡ff

Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 396
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Posted: 11/19/2008 3:54:26 PM
A man's taste is like his smell. It's one of those triggers that make him completely irresistible, to me.
I adore oral but it, like all intimacy, is reserved for the one man who makes me crave his presence, and his taste.
I'm curious if the OP is having trouble with his LTR partner not swallowing or women he hooks up with.
If these are women the OP is "casually" dating, maybe consider waiting until you're asked to cum in her mouth before taking up residence in her throat...
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 397
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Posted: 11/19/2008 4:36:16 PM

I remember when I ws child, my parent thought that leading by exmaple was the way to go.

Presumably we're talking about adults.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 11/19/2008 4:38:15 PM

is not that i dont like swallowing per say i just view not swallowing as less risky....ive always had this crazy theory of no cum in me =for the best!

I guess that rules out kids for you.
 cltlkr110255

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 399
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Posted: 11/20/2008 11:50:30 AM
^^Does your wife know you snowball other women with that mouth?



Not sure if this was directed at me, but I did have a life before marriage and my wife and I do swap cum.
 NOLA Chick

Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 400
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Posted: 11/20/2008 8:15:52 PM

Because to me, it would be like me blowing my nose into a kleenex and asking you to swallow a big blob of snot.


Sad, but true. But, the good news is, that if he's already cum once, the second time it's not like that. If a guy hasn't gotten off in a while, it's a whole lotta thick, sticky, gunk that's really hard to deal with, like trying to swallow a tablespoon of snot. If he's had a wank earlier in the day or you're on to round 2, it makes it easier because it's somewhat less in volume and thinner. Then, it's no problem.

Sorry if that's a bit blunt and crude, but I don't know how else to put it. I absolutely LOVE giving head, but I can't stand swallowing. You can do whatever else you want with it, but I prefer not to choke it down. I've even had it stuck to my eyelashes and in my hair and it didn't bother me at all the way trying to swallow under pressure does. Think about it guys. You want her to swallow while you're still in her mouth. That's quite a bit going on there (choking hazard! LOL!)

Also, if a guy is a heavy cigarette smoker, it will actually make me physically ill. I'm not sure, but I think nicotine might concentrate in semen and it causes some serious stomach cramps. I discovered this the hard way with my ex.
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