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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/16/2008 9:43:19 PM | I dont understand how some guys say if she dont swallow, then they will find someone who will. 1st off, is that SERIOUSLY gonna make or break a relationship. And to answer the question about is spitting really that annoying, it doesnt bother me a bit. Your still havin an orgasm and its still goin in her mouth. What difference does it make what she does with it after your done?? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:19:50 PM | Are you kidding me? Seriously? That does not make me a mean and nasty person. Guys chime in here. Of all the mean and nasty things women do, is that really something that would be considered mean?
Do you expect a guy to please your orally? Would you like it if he didn't like the way you taste, so he didn't go there?
I honestly don't give a rat's ass if any of you do anything for a guy.
I like giving head. Maybe you don't. I get into it and get off on it. I also get off on having him inside me. I am not partial to oral, I just think when you have sex, you should give your best. Men love it when you swallow, especially if you are highly skilled at oral. If you are in that situation, why not make the experience one to remember?
Nevermind. You don't get it. Not my problem. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/16/2008 10:51:13 PM | | A lot of girls do swallow. heck I know girls that love that stuff. But honestly not swallowing doesnt mean they aren`t `not finishing`` the job. If you think the only way a bJ is finished is swallowing you are limiting yourself. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/16/2008 11:27:52 PM | Guys chime in here. Of all the mean and nasty things women do, is that really something that would be considered mean?
I thought you were doing just fine, but I'll note that I don't feel too thrilled about going down on women who treat me like toxic waste. There's nothing worse than being with a woman who thinks she needs a hazmat suit to protect her from cooties. On the other hand, someone who really gets into what she's doing, can ask for anything she wants in the sack and I'll go all out to accommodate it and like doing it. Thank you berry much.
I like giving head. Maybe you don't. I get into it and get off on it.
You're right - they don't get it. They expect guys to give even though they get disgusted holding up their end. You'll probably catch a lot of shit from the sisterhood for having a normal view of oral sex. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/16/2008 11:37:01 PM |
What difference does it make what she does with it after your done??
Watching her get up, head to the bathroom, spit and then gargle a few times with mouthwash is a real buzz kill. I can't think of much that would be less romantic, except maybe standing under one of those emergency showers in a biohazard area. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:24:08 AM | ubiquitous1 is saying the right thing.
And for every woman out here who has an excuse, I'm betting you do (or will) have a man who secretly comes to forums like this to complain.
No matter how good you think a guy is, niceness is out the window when not sexually satisfied. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:45:56 AM | I have read through this discussion and what stikes me is how opinionated everyone seems to be about this.
Sex is sooo intimate.
The desire to perform oral on a lover is a reflection of how much You care for/desire someone. If I really like a woman, I love to lick her and do it well.
Reciprocation is the most exciting part, I think.
I love oral both ways: give and recieve.
That isnt to say I love it all the time with every lover I've ever had.
I will say that the more attracted I am, the more I want to lick a woman all over...
There are so many variables that factor into this too:
Like clean, smell, taste, shaved, legs, kissing, lust,love, desire to please...
Position: what you like with that lover in particular, what you are into that particular time...is it an appetizer or the main course ?
Both are very good...
I think it's a woman's choice.
As it is a man's to lick and love to lick a woman..
I personally have never felt slighted when I woman did not swallow me.
Some women like it and some dont.
Sometime they do and sometimes they dont and taste does make a difference.
Anyhow, I always feel gratified and happy to both give and recieve.
Oral sex is an act of love and/or desire.
It is not duty for either party...
It's one part of lovemanking.. but I love it as a PART of my repitiore... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 7:40:56 AM | This is my last post on this subject since it has been beaten to death...
The "giving" aspect of a blowjob is just that. If you (a woman) is laying on your back receiving a tongue, then that is YOUR turn. If you are giving, it isn't about stopping when you feel like it. It's not your turn and it's not about you! I don't love the taste, but I don't focus on it or even think about it unless there is something highly unusual about it. Even then, you reach for your water glass in a few minutes and wash it down and move on. No, it doesn't taste like Godiva chocolate. Who cares? Just do it and make your man feel like he got the whole experience from a woman not afraid or too selfish to give her best. I know girls don't want to hear it is selfish, but it is. It has nothing to do with me. It is about me making my man feel wonderful. Period.
It does stay with them forever when they get a good bj. I have multiple men contact me after 15-20 years who tell me they will die happy if they just get one more bj from me. Not very likely to happen, but it is nice knowing I am still fresh in their mind after all these years.
Since it sounds like you girls need blow job 101 class, here are a few tips. Give a bj and a handjob at the same time. Focus your mouth on the head but coordinate your hand and mouth so that the guy goes nuts. Don't try to suck too hard. Do it gently and lovingly and sometimes tighten your grip with your hand. Remember to change it up a bit and not keep doing the same exact thing over and over. You can lead them to orgasm with increased motion, but do it gradually and very well timed. I like to rub the base of the penis on the side facing me with my thumb. Men seem to like that very well, but listen to your man to find out just the right spot that makes him respond more than others. I get so into it, I notice myself moaning along with them. That turns them on even more. Very simple with an interest to make them crazy with pleasure. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 7:58:48 AM |
Haven't you ever kissed a girl after she's given you a blow job and tasted it? It's a turn on for me when a guy is comfortable with that.
I don't think it is natural for one to be turned on by the taste their own bodily fluids. It's cool if you like guys that like their own stuff....it just turned my stomach and I had to say it.
Also, who cares if a woman swallows? The OP needs to stop watching so much porn, nobody wants to swallow your disgusting goo, get over yourself. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 7:59:52 AM |
Since it sounds like you girls need blow job 101 class, here are a few tips. Give a bj and a handjob at the same time. Focus your mouth on the head but coordinate your hand and mouth so that the guy goes nuts. Don't try to suck too hard. Do it gently and lovingly and sometimes tighten your grip with your hand. Remember to change it up a bit and not keep doing the same exact thing over and over. You can lead them to orgasm with increased motion, but do it gradually and very well timed. I like to rub the base of the penis on the side facing me with my thumb. Men seem to like that very well, but listen to your man to find out just the right spot that makes him respond more than others. I get so into it, I notice myself moaning along with them. That turns them on even more. Very simple with an interest to make them crazy with pleasure ROFL! I think it's great when one woman tries to tell another how to give the best blowjob because SHE obviously does it the best. hahaha makes my day *grin* As I've stated, I don't mind swallowin, so long as he doesn't mind kissin me. HOWEVER.... to state someone is not freaky or has no right to be near a penis if they choose NOT to swallow is just way too funny. a woman doesn't HAVE to swallow to be freaky.... trust me =D I've been with plenty of men who really got off on shootin all over my face, or all over my boobs, or all over my ass or all over my stomach for me to rub in. Not swallowin doesn't mean you're not freaky, it means you're into other things. It also doesn't mean you're worthless... if thats the only thing you can manage to do in order to be freaky and please your man... maybe it's you that needs a few lessons ;)  Savage | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 8:53:56 AM | no chance ..
its like trying to knock back second hand puke 
when I see a geezer shoot his produce into a cup and do a down in one ..then I will !!
I must thank the lady offering her blow jobs tips ... at 42 I had often wondered what the hell I had being doing dislocating my jaw for no apparent reason 
thanks mrs  | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 9:10:11 AM |
Taste can be an issue. Seriously men, I tell you that pinapple juice is your friend.
I think we'd all be a lot happier if it had the taste and texture of honey or maple syrup.
Pineapple juice, eh? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 9:21:58 AM | Vegetarians taste better... pineapple juice is your friend.
... and yes i will kiss you back!
Sharing is what making love is all about...
Live clean: no smoking, no drinking, no meat; it's worth it... my last two lovers said they never swallow, they didn't even like oral sex...
... then they couldn't get enough.
They both complain how bad the other men tasted... it was the smell? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 9:37:36 AM |
I think we'd all be a lot happier if it had the taste and texture of honey or maple syrup.
Pineapple juice, eh?
If only Ben and Jerry ice cream,,could cum up with the flavor of the month... we men would have 51 flavors to offer to some women... I need a tuna sanwich,, LOL... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 2:35:08 PM | This is my take on swallowing or not swallowing. For the girls: I realise that some times the taste and the texture isn't all that pleasant. And I am by far not an expert, but I am very open with the men I have been intimate with and this is what I have learned.
The next time he has his head between your thighs and you are right there just at the peak and about to explode? He stops what he's doing and switches gears! Wouldn't you just want to kill him!!! (All things being equal in sex I figure it's the same for him.)
That's what I have learned from asking guys about why they like for a woman to finish oral with oral and not switch to a hand job. As for swallowing? It's already in your mouth at that point, spit or swallow is up to you but I figure you might just as well swallow and for some reason that turns guys on. And as I like to say "your pleasure is my pleasure and vice versa." | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 2:39:08 PM | ubiquitous1 is still the winner. Kissme1973 is also correct.
My favorite answer is from the women who claim that the way THEY get off is different than how a guy gets off so that justifies their view that the man must never move away and switch to a hand right before the woman cums. That said, I avoid those same women because they truly are selfish in the worst way.
They don't reciprocate fully; expect you to not move away; call you selfish if you want them to finish/swallow you.
No thanks. If you've been with one woman like that, you've been with all of them. Same attitude. Same lack of willingness to please (if I want a handjob, I'll give myself one). | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 3:21:24 PM |
The next time he has his head between your thighs and you are right there just at the peak and about to explode? He stops what he's doing and switches gears! Wouldn't you just want to kill him!!! (All things being equal in sex I figure it's the same for him.)
When I stop that doesn't mean I'm done,, or could just be part of my foreplay,, BUT.... if her hands are pushing on the back of my head I know better,, keep going,, PS I have 3 rules let her have her big O first, Then we can share In a big O together, Or she might want to do something different,, makes no difference to me,, in the end ,,all is satisfied,, I think good sex is all about oral,,there is a whole body to explore... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:40:59 PM | Everyone has their preference.....I mean seriously when men get off its not like you are drinking a cup full....its one quick gulp and you are done.....they like it.....you will see that you didnt puke......and all is well again......  | |
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