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 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 12/17/2008 6:05:13 PM
I'm going to assume many women know this, but here is a thought. If you like giving BJ but don't want that full load,, most men( i'd say all but who knows) their cum decreases each time the cum,, therefore enjoy sex, each can have a big O several times doing different things, then you can give a BJ, the cum will mostly be very little, you get to experiment some, and he still feels good.. the only problem is you may have to work just a little harder,,
Just a thought,,
 Kirota

Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/17/2008 6:13:03 PM

I think I have said this before, but I had to say it again. Woman who swallow are in loving long term relationships, not many out there anymore.


If this theory of yours is correct why are there women talking about loving it in this thread? That was a very general statement. How do you know that? Do you walk up to every loving couple you see and ask them is she swallows? Just curious.
 ubiquitous1

Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 478
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Posted: 12/17/2008 8:25:02 PM
sexysavage7.

Nope. Not the only thing I can do. This topic is about blow jobs, so that is what I am talking about. No lessons needed thanks. I do learn new things all the time, but it is only by paying attention to the person I am with. And yes, I am an expert at bj's. I could give you references. Seriously. I guess it is just a natural talent and wanting to please my man, especially the ones who say that they never are able to cum with a bj. Those are my favorite. I win...always and proud of it.

I just don't like the pineapple juice. Some men really have the swimmers, so that is an interesting sensation to feel them in my mouth and once I met a knew a guy with cum that was as thick as pudding! That was my most unusual and not easy to swallow, but I managed and am still here to talk about it.

Get over it and taste your man!
 itsmeaaron

Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 479
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Posted: 12/17/2008 9:16:16 PM
this is not a bullshit story, i thought it was at first.

part of the food pyramid they don't want you to read about...

Q: Are there any health problems associated with swallowing semen or female cum?



A. The good news is that it's beneficial! Recently studies have shown that regular consumption of semen or cum can actually have some wonderful health benefits. they contain at least 13 prostaglandins and high concentrations of hormones that retain potency if taken orally. The quality of the seminal hormones is thought to be superior to even prescription versions. In the study women who regularly consumed their lovers sperm showed such benefits as a reduction in ovarian cancers, lowered depression and many even had acne symptoms lessen or stop entirely. It is thought that the oral consumption of the potent hormones had a balancing effect on woman's hormonal ups and downs caused by their periods and pregnancy or breastfeeding.

The key to the findings is "regular consumption". Only once in blue moon won't have the same effect. Those that indulged once or twice a week received little benefits. The ones who received the results were the ones who ingested semen four to five times a week or more! Now that's dedication. If this seems like a lot of work you need to remember that your partner can assist in producing it. All though preferable, a blow job is not the only way to obtain semen. You might be surprised how fast your man can produce sperm for you all on their own.

Oddly enough only married or monogamous women showed the benefits. Those with multiple partners showed no beneficial effects or even reported detrimental effects. This is thought to be caused by the differences in the hormonal makeup of multiple partners.

for both sexes: to make semen or cum taste sweeter: drink lots of water, eat high-sugar fruits (especially pineapple), parsley, wheatgrass, and celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon.

avoid things that will increase semen or cum bitterness or saltiness, such as: caffeine, alcohol, recreational drugs, nicotine, cruciferous vegetables (cauliflower, broccoli, asparagus, etc), red meat, dairy, garlic & onions (due to sulfer content), and junk food.


well ladies you heard em, 4 to 5 servings a week!
 sxysavage7

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 12/17/2008 10:43:16 PM

And yes, I am an expert at bj's. I could give you references. Seriously.


LMFAO! some people really trip me out. blowjob 101! hahahahaha Theres nothin wrong with suckin my man, nor tastin my man... I just won't be told I have to, end of story. Also, I don't need lessons either thanks... if I wanted to accomplish what you seem to have accomplished, I'd drop to my knees for the next available swingin****lookin to drop a load. Thankfully, I was raised with a bit more class and dignity, so... I'll pass! =)


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 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 12/18/2008 6:32:59 AM
.........then that is YOUR turn.

Loving someone is not about returning sexual favors cuase we all are suppose to know its about being able to do what your comfortable with and nothing else.

.............Just do it and make your man feel like he got the whole experience from a woman not afraid or too selfish to give her best

Not giving a bj does not mean ur afraid or selfish either one. It simply means it sickens some women out. Ur statement shows how uneducated you really are.

...........It is about me making my man feel wonderful

You can make a man feel wonderful without bj's. just a little info for ya.

...............I have multiple men contact me after 15-20 years who tell me they will die happy if they just get one more bj from me.

one of the worst qualities in a person is them being stuck on themself. Get over yourself. the men who tell you that are also telling 100 other women that too. Geezzz

................since it sounds like you girls need blow job 101 class

Sounds like you need class 101 on respect, morals, and dignity.

....here are a few tips.......

No one wants or needs your tips and the only reason you wrote that crap here is to turn the men on. it dont take a genius to see that. Why dont you just email each one of them and offer them your services. it would be better than making and a$$ out of yourself in the forum.

....You can lead them to orgasm....

I can lead my man to orgasm without having to stick his****in my mouth.

Note for you........you seem to think you are the only one who knows how to give a bj well your not ..not by far. please get over yourself.

And another thing if all you got going for you is giving bj's to men than I truely feel sorry for you. the rest of us women can get and keep a man due to who we are as a person not what we have to offer them sexually. I know if a man only wanted me for bj's then he can take a long walk on a short pier
 ubiquitous1

Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 482
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:04:49 AM
Whatever. The forum is about blowjobs. Anyone get that? Yes there are more ways to please someone than that, but since this is the topic you all chose to post on, I am keeping my comments to that topic and not about any other type of sex or anything non related to that. Snide remarks made about what I am lacking in other areas is done only just to be snatches. Congratulations.

As for trying to turn men on by posting what I have, hardly. Again, any boyfriend I have is shown that I care about them. Yes, there are many other ways to do that, but I don't pick and choose how I show my affection.

Again, girls. You are selfish. End of story. If you don't need lessons in how to give one, then my comments obviously would not apply to you and therefore you would not be upset by my words. Obviously I struck a chord????
 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:32:31 AM
Snide remarks made about what I am lacking in other areas is done only just to be snatches. Congratulations.

I believe that is what you done with the class 101 crap. So congradulations to you too. and calling someone selfish becuase they dont like giving bj's is a ridiculous remark. I also odnt eat spinach so what do you call that?? am i selfish for that too?? grow up lady.

....Obviously I struck a chord????

Yes you struck a cord but not for the reason you think. Your unbelievable stupidity is what struck the cord. I dont need lessons becuase I do not give bj's at all. And just becuase you do does not mean everyone has to. So to call us selfish is stupidity on ur part. I think i have said all I need to. I belive my point was made.
 lonestardaddy

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 484
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:45:19 AM
OP and others, Thanks for another entertaining thread here in this particular forum. As some, who've experienced what sperm tastes and feels like in quick gulping amounts, I'll pass on the latter as I'm quite heterosexual ...and have a gag reflex that makes eating some foods and going to the dentist a challenge for me, but I have tasted my own and will kiss my partner afterward w/o making her first brush her teeth. I'd think that swallowing sperm for a woman is her personal preference to be respected ...whether she does or not.

I've been in relationships w/ women who didn't love me, but who loved giving me oral sex and swallowing, except for one who learned that massaging my prostrate while deep-throating me resulted in other than snot coming out of her nose, but it was pleasant for me.

I've heard of sperm referred to as a "protein shake" ...and it could be part of one's balanced diet if necessary for her RDA. As for my female SO's cum, it's not a matter of my swallowing ...and this agrees w/ my gag reflex, but savoring her juices. I will sometimes stop mid-stroke and go down on her to do so. After I might cum in her there? I haven't been asked, but if she'd like me to I would.
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 485
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:46:54 AM

especially the ones who say...


'ones'? So how many guys have you given BJs to?


Some men really have the swimmers, so that is an interesting sensation to feel them in my mouth...


Nonsense! Sperm are so tiny, you could never feel them.


Get over it and taste your man!


What's the obsession with 'tasting' your partner? I truly don't get it. I'd rather feel him.


N.
 Cogie36

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:51:30 AM
Snatches??? What the hell kind of juvenile remark is that......as you so plainly pointed out......this is about blow jobs.....you are whining that you struck a cord with others......well maybe you should look in the mirror because calling others a " snatch" would seem to me like someone has struck the cord with you......giving a blow job and swallowing is a personal preference....if you do it.....yay for you.....and if you dont......well then let you and your partner work that out......has nothing to do with being selfish.....maybe others didnt learn to be as great as you are because they detoured down the hall to " snatch 101" ....... being so judgemental of others must be a tough job....ok now back to the forum.......
 ubiquitous1

Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 487
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Posted: 12/19/2008 9:42:59 AM
Obviously people have different ideas about sex and the lengths they will go to please the person they are with. There are givers and takers. I prefer to know that I made someone feel good. Not only by giving a BJ, but in all other ways as well, in bed or out.

As for "learning" to be great at it, it is because I genuinely have an interest in making my sexual experiences great ones, not just laying there on my back waiting for the guy to do it all. To each her own, apparently.

Again, I don't care if some of you have issues with a gag reflex or not. That is your problem or business or whatever. I guess it depends on the person you are with and their preferences, but please don't assume that because you don't like to do something, that you are making up for it in other areas. I can assure, you the guy won't tell you. Again, many women aren't good at oral, so by the time it gets to orgasm, they might just be happy to get it over with and be fine squirting it all over your face and hair or a towel. Isn't that a turn on? Oh baby....
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
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Posted: 12/19/2008 10:02:19 AM
Know the bst way to stop your girlfriend from giving blow jobs ???marry her
 slickerthanyouravg

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 489
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Posted: 12/19/2008 10:21:56 AM
I find it hilarious that someone earlier said "Women are not sperm recepticles".

Because TECHNICALLY speaking..........lol.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2008 10:41:56 AM

I find it hilarious that someone earlier said "Women are not sperm recepticles".

Because TECHNICALLY speaking..........lol.

Ouch,,, but funny,,

I would say,, lucky for women, the hold the key, as to who plugs in,,,
 catkin2007

Joined: 12/18/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2008 11:43:10 AM
Bottomline OP, some people like to swallow and some don't. Reasons vary by person and situation. My guess is that they probably tried it once and it tasted bad, or they were with a guy who didn't respect their right to not swallow.

For me, I've done both. It depends on the situation and the person I am with.
 mattw357

Joined: 8/17/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2008 12:10:54 PM
can we just stop all the hatred and realize that any woman that is willing to put their mouth anywhere near a penis is a hero...absolute hero.
 sxysavage7

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 12:16:45 PM

Whatever. The forum is about blowjobs. Anyone get that? Yes there are more ways to please someone than that, but since this is the topic you all chose to post on, I am keeping my comments to that topic and not about any other type of sex or anything non related to that.


Correction... The forum is about blowjobs and SWALLOWIN, you really don't pay attention much do you? lol I was right on subject with what I had to say, no man will ever tell me I HAVE to SWALLOW, I do it by choice when I want to... and yes Ms. Best blowjob ever, some men do in fact enjoy ejaculatin on a woman's face, back, ass, tits, and sometimes even their feet, among many other different bodyparts/items (do you not read all the posts?). You know what they say about people who "assume" things, right?


Snide remarks made about what I am lacking in other areas is done only just to be snatches. Congratulations


This is the funniest thing you've said yet lol I've been called a****before, even heard a **** referred to as a snatch... but never, have I ever been called a snatch before. That made me giggle, thanks! =) As for what you lack... no one made snide remarks about it, we simply pointed out that if swallowin is the only talent you've got... well, I wouldn't expect very much out of life, sorry gal.


Obviously I struck a chord????


not quite, seein as how I've already admitted I suck****and swallow... at least when I want to. I just find people like you humorous. Maybe some women in the world enjoy feelin like nothin more than cum guzzlin pieces of meat, but me... I have way too much class and self respect to view myself that way.


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 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 2:14:31 PM

can we just stop all the hatred and realize that any woman that is willing to put their mouth anywhere near a penis is a hero...absolute hero.


Sorry, but I don't feel like a woman has to be a hero to do that. If it's a heroic act for some woman, I can save her the angst by finding one who enjoys it. If you really think your body is so revolting that it requires heroism to touch, your self-image needs some work.
 Huntington24

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 495
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Posted: 12/19/2008 2:17:59 PM
Im sure he ment it as a joke, take it easy.
 Street King

Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 2:26:54 PM
If she refuses to swallow it's because you have some work to do concerning the wooing of her heart and soul. Once you've broken her down she'll do anything you want -literally anything. Just concentrate on the spiritual and emotional intimacy and eventually she'll never say no.
 sxysavage7

Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 4:02:17 PM

If she refuses to swallow it's because you have some work to do concerning the wooing of her heart and soul. Once you've broken her down she'll do anything you want -literally anything. Just concentrate on the spiritual and emotional intimacy and eventually she'll never say no


I agree with this to a point... someone that is special to me, that I have a good solid connection with, is defenitely more likely to convince me to try new things that I may have been too worried about tryin before.
However, this girl still has her limits lol I don't think any man on this green earth would convince me to let him whip me with a whip or pour hot wax on my tender flesh, or anything else that may inflict pain. lol I'd make sure you explore your boundaries before gettin too carried away guys.


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 kittenhere

Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 5:22:04 PM
Again, I don't care if some of you have issues with a gag reflex or not. That is your problem or business or whatever

then quit making it your business by calling people names jsut beucase they cant or wont do the nasty deed. This is the first thing i actually agree with you on...that its none of your business. there is no reason for you to down anyone or call them anything becuase their opinion is different than yours about bj's.
 voodooguru

Joined: 3/27/2008
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Posted: 12/19/2008 6:15:32 PM
I'd rather my GF not swallow, but be able to properly spell, than swallow but write like third-grader.

Ubiquitous seems to know how to do it well, swallow, and have a command of at least one language - a trifecta!
 OpieDopey

Joined: 6/16/2006
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Posted: 12/19/2008 6:35:37 PM
kit says. "jsut beucase they cant or wont do the nasty deed"

Obviouslly many here do not consider this aspect of sexually to be a "nasty deed"

Makes me wonder....
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