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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:53:47 PM | | As much as I love oral, I don't see why she HAS to swallow, or even take it in the mouth, if she doesn't like that. It's really hot when she does, but if she doesn't, I hope she knows how to get the job done without ruining the finish. You ladies know how that one goes... You're almost there, and he starts doing something else. It just blows the whole deal. (No pun intended.) | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/19/2008 7:05:27 PM | Obviouslly many here do not consider this aspect of sexually to be a "nasty deed
Some do and some dont. Myself I consider it quite sick. But this is my own personal opinion which I am entitled to have.
However the original question was swallowing cum and why they wont do it.. The answer is that its a very nasty thing to do and some just cant stomach it. This is something the man should understand and accept. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/20/2008 2:09:37 PM | I just don't understand what is so nasty about a human body. If you think the person you are sleeping with it so nasty, why are you with them? Are a woman's juices equally nasty? I bet men don't think they are nasty either. I find this whole thing insulting to people who have been treated in that manner. Pretty sad.
If there were a man's hygiene that was questionable to me, I would not be getting into bed with them. Simple.
Again, it seems that sex is just sex to some people. To me, it is much deeper than that and an acceptance of that person and sharing the very most intimate experiences with them and enjoying them completely and letting them enjoy me. Maybe most people have that wham bam type of relationship without the depth of feeling and attraction? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/20/2008 2:20:16 PM | I love how it keeps bein made about thinkin your partner is nasty... it's not about that at all. I see nothin wrong with swallowin for a man I'm into, so it's not an issue for me... however, I can see from their perspective as well.... say for instance someone thats not into swallowin cum but does enjoy lickin ass... just because that person enjoys lickin ass, doesn't necessarily mean they want someone to take a dump in their mouth... it's the same principle really. To find swallowin cum gross, isn't to find your partner gross... simply the slimy substance slidin down the back of your throat, and I don't see why it should effect someones relationship at all.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/20/2008 2:54:58 PM |
I don't see why it should effect someones relationship at all.
I believe a all women have a choice, that said,,
If I were to get in to / or start a relationship with a woman,,and our sexual appetite were not on the same page,, I wouldn't be in it,, because I like it when a woman please this man,, because I will do the same,, and I like giving and receiving oral,, fluids included,, so for me it makes a difference..
I think if a woman is pleased by her man,, she would want to reciprocate,, there is another forum going why don't men like toys,, I added that because there are some men who do not,, but are more than willing to try so he can do for his lady,, what she likes,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/20/2008 9:05:47 PM |
why do women not like to swallow while giving oral sex its like you working for something to happen any way just finish what you started you ladies certainly like if we stopped and hight of orgasm i was just wondering is there reason why you dont swallow are afraid to taste what is it so more men can understand
The only way I think you'd truly be able to understand is by getting yourself a boyfriend, giving him oral sex and then letting him shoot 3 or 4 loads of "juice" in your mouth at a fast speed. 
It has never appealed to me and never will. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/20/2008 9:44:27 PM | Wouldn't it be grand if your male companion thought the same about you - that he didn't want to insert any part of himself into your 'nasty' orifice? I bet men must just feel great being thought of as 'nasty'.
It's a part of the person you love. It's what makes babies. How that translates to 'nasty' is completely beyond me. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/21/2008 6:14:24 AM | Men seem to love bj's I know I love oral as forplay and oral all by it's self. There is no reason to get into a big name calling arguement over this. (Unless you are both seening the same man and he's chosing one of you over the other?) Tongues and lips are so much more dextrous the other body parts, that's why we love it.
Why it turns men on when You swallow? I haven't any idea but they seem to love it and sex is all about pleasing your partner. You want him to leave you satisfied and purring like a kitten don't you? It seems that you ladies should want the same. I know sometimes it's nasty and sometimes, it may make you want to gag. But giving bjs and swallowing or spittting or whatever you do doesn't make you a s--t or a wh--e. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/21/2008 10:23:12 AM | As already said.
How do you feel if a guy gets up after pleasing you, looks like he wants to puke, runs to the bathroom spitting the entire way.
Or.
Guy smiles, mmm taste good.
Which kills the mood more? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/21/2008 10:56:43 AM |
As already said.
How do you feel if a guy gets up after pleasing you, looks like he wants to puke, runs to the bathroom spitting the entire way.
Or.
Guy smiles, mmm taste good.
Which kills the mood more?
If it made him sick, theres no reason he'd be doin it in the first place. I wouldn't ask nor expect any man it made physically sick, to do it. As I have also already stated, in my last relationship I was pleased orally maybe once or twice every 6 months or so... he got it on a regular basis. Was it frustratin? yeah, a little, I'd be lyin if I said no... but it wasn't really his thing so, I lived with it and enjoyed other things with him. I don't understand how people can be so close minded that they can't enjoy the same luxary... it really is a very sexy thing sometimes :p
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/21/2008 11:36:43 AM | | AFTER READING SOME OF THE POSTINGS...I FIND IT INTERESTING THAT ALOT OF MEN..ARE "MORE" CONCERNED IF THE WOMEN LIKE TO SWALLOW OR NOT..I BELIEVE..THAT ALL THIS IS A 'SIDE" ISSUE...ALL THESE THINGS ARE WONDERFUL.."IF" ONE "KNOWS" WHO THEY ARE .....AS A MAN..AND THE TRUE DEFINITION OF WHAT IS A "MAN"...MOST MEN I KNOW..INCLUDING MYSELF..WANTS TO BE PLEASED...AND NOT GIVE ANYTHING IN RETURN..LIKE SATISFACTION...AND "NOT" JUST IN SEX..BUT AS A "MAN TREATING A LADY" AS A LADY...AND "SHE WILL RESPOND AUTOMATICALLY"...IF YOU "GIVE.." IT WILL COME BACK..IN ALL MATTERS...BEING SELFISH IS A BEING A "SPOILED BRAT"..AND A "MAN"..WILL "GIVE" AND SEEK NOTHING IN RETURN...BUT WOMEN "SEE" THAT ..AND "WANT" TO GIVE...AND GIVE...BECAUSE "HE" HAS PLACED "HER" WISHES BEFORE HIS OWN.........WE ARE INFESTED WITH THE "ME"...SYNDROME...I WANT ..I WANT ..I WANT.......AND NOT WILLING TO LET SOMEONE ELSE BE THE BENEFICIARY........QUIT BEING SO SELFISH..AND THINKING OF YOURSELF...THERE IS "MORE" TO LIFE THAN JUST EJACULATION...... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 5:49:21 AM | ........I just don't understand what is so nasty about a human body
human body .....nothing ....eating ejaculation is whats nasty.
.......If you think the person you are sleeping with it so nasty, why are you with them
Its not them thats nasty, its having to eat the ejaculation that is nasty.
......Are a woman's juices equally nasty?
To some men.......yes, There are men who do not do oral on a woman.
.....To me, it is much deeper than that and an acceptance of that person and sharing the very most intimate experiences with them and enjoying them completely and letting them enjoy me.
We accept the person or we wouldnt be with them in the first place. We can share very intimate experiences without oral. You can enjoy each other completely withoiut oral.
Maybe most people have that wham bam type of relationship without the depth of feeling and attraction?
If a wham bam outside of oral is all you know sexually then i truely pity you. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 6:25:53 AM | Obviouslly many here do not consider this aspect of sexually to be a "nasty deed"
Well duh, if its them ur eating i guess they wouldnt think it was nasty.
as far as oral on a woman......yes there men who wont do that. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 6:48:20 AM | My only comment has to be that I don't see why it has to be discussed that widely, among so many people who will probably never meet and experience this with each other. To me, it's something that needs only be discussed between the two people involved....and, BEFORE it's actually scheduled to take place...so there are no surprises.
Does this make sense to anyone else? Or do some of you just want to discuss it to death, finding fault with other people who are not on your wavelength?
Personally, I find it MUCH MORE IMPORTANT for two people to be able to discuss compatibility openly and honestly, rather than debate the merits with strangers.
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 7:03:11 AM |
We can share very intimate experiences without oral. You can enjoy each other completely withoiut oral.
'Enjoy completely'... 'without'... ??? Uh, it doesnt quite work that way. Its not complete if it without something.
Personally, while receiving oral feels good I dont really get off on it too often and I'd rather do other things. But does that mean I'd be happy sexually with a woman who didnt like to do oral? No way! Oral sex is pretty vanilla and if she has hang-ups about even that, I can only imagine what other restrictions, boundaries and limits she has. To me, sex is about FULLY enjoying another persons body and sharing everything with them intimately. Sex is fun and silly and wet and messy and sticky and sweaty and smelly and yes nasty - and thats the way it should be! I would not be sexually compatable with someone who has all these hangups. We only get one life - life it to the fullest! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 1:42:23 PM |
As already said.
How do you feel if a guy gets up after pleasing you, looks like he wants to puke, runs to the bathroom spitting the entire way.
Or.
Guy smiles, mmm taste good.
Which kills the mood more?
If a man is getting sick going down on me, I don't want him doing it. It destroys the point of sex -- enjoyment for both. And, no, running to the bathroom puking is NOT the same thing as not swallowing a man's cum. The same thing would be a women running to the bathroom puking after giving a blow job. I'm sure you can close your eyes, use your imagination, and see the vast difference.
I think "spitting" is tacky. I prefer to just be in a position that doesn't force swallowing, like being directly over the penis. It can just flow freely where it may! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 5:36:20 PM | Its not complete if it without something
oral does not make it complete. If oral is what has to happen in order for him or her to feel complete then there is a big problem. also not giving oral is not a hangup. I could say well if you dont lick the cheese from between his toes the sex is not complete. that would make aobut as much sense. another poster gave a good example. if you want to lick their a$$ is it ok if they take a dump in ur mouth if it made them happy so they felt complete? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 7:49:57 PM | kit said in another thread about what this year brought you,
"Well this yr brought me nothing "
Yet, in anouther one she said she got married a few months ago???
Next year might bring you to divorce court
Yet another thread you were upset new hubby objected to toys, but seems you may have "brought him around"?
But, doubtful he might "bring you around" if he wanted a bj with benefits..... | |
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