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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 9:22:19 PM |
I didnt say puking, Looking like they want to puke.
Which is a common expression when they spit.
Whatever. It's still nowhere near the same thing. Women can thoroughly enjoy giving head, but not want to swallow the happy ending. And, I'm sorry, but MEN can also enjoy a blow job without swallowing!
I always thought with all the threads whining about women not wanting to put out, men would just be happy someone was sucking their penis to begin with! Geez... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/22/2008 9:23:27 PM | We only do it when we're tired of getting our towels dirty! haha. Nah, it's just personal preference. I wouldn't use their diet as an excuse (although it does affect the taste A LOT) because I don't really ask guys what they had for breakfast before I give them head. If you like to swallow- then you'll do it, if you don't then you don't. It shouldn't be a matter of just 'liking' someone or 'loving' someone that defines your decision, that's crazy...." Yea, I really like you and all but I'm just not feeling that deep connection with you that makes me wanna swallow your cum" | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 6:26:40 AM | .............Yet, in anouther one she said she got married a few months ago???
Yes i have had so much bad in one yr i forgot about the good, which was marriage. The bad outweighs the good by far.
...........Next year might bring you to divorce court
even that cant top death of two family members. However thats not ur business.
.........Yet another thread you were upset new hubby objected to toys, but seems you may have "brought him around"?
But, doubtful he might "bring you around" if he wanted a bj with benefits.....
a harmless toy that he doenst have to eat does not compare to eating bodily fluids. There is a big difference. as far as toy goes if he dont wnat to try it then its fine. As far as bj goes he doesnt care that i dont do it. Neither one of us is gonna make the other do what they dont wnat to. Thats the good side of our marriage.
Just becuase you do the nasty does not mean I have to. And since your not my hubby try not to worry about it so much. it affects you none. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 7:34:07 AM | I think if the expectation among women is that they should get their junk licked...
it has to be reciprocal.
spoken from someone who has no idea what true love is. It is not an, "I will if you will",type thing. that is not what love is. Your strictly into sex and could care less about the person giving you the sex. Thats really sad. All i can say is thank the good lord I am married and not looking anymore. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 8:30:23 AM | | Ladies, spitting is just unattractive. Some women feel as if it makes them "whorish" I don't know where they got that idea from, I'm sure even some nuns got a thrill from giving the ruler slap now and then(By that I just mean {if it is a religious reason}that may have been thier only taste of adrenaline and they may still feel guilty about it). Anyways, it could be a love issue, a diet issue(less meat+more fruits&veggies=sweeter taste!) or hygiene issue. Truly a person may be more inclined to swallow if they have strong feelings for the person, goes both ways, always. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 1:37:33 PM | as a guy that has went down on enough women to know all ****'s don't taste perfect either. I still do my best to breathe through my mouth and lick her to completion in order for the experience to be satisfying for her. I have had women kiss me after a blowjob and I must be a luck good tasting cum kinda guy, cause it didn't taste offensive at all.
For any woman that doesn't like the taste, or the way it lingers, try this. Grab a can of tuna soaked in oil, not water. Fill your nostrils with it, no different then when a guy is licking a soaking wet ****. Now once the tuna smell is deeo in your nasal passages, roll over and go to sleep.
You can blow your nose all you want, that smell is there for hours, sometimes days. Specially if she is a squirter, which is a huge turn on but that fluid can often times be very musty.
Bottom line, either you are a pleaser or a teaser as a lover. The choice is yours. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 2:18:41 PM |
Whatever. It's still nowhere near the same thing. Women can thoroughly enjoy giving head, but not want to swallow the happy ending. And, I'm sorry, but MEN can also enjoy a blow job without swallowing!
Variety is the spice of life. I enjoy both.
I always thought with all the threads whining about women not wanting to put out, men would just be happy someone was sucking their penis to begin with! Geez...
Only guys with a bad case of PW. The rest of us know there are women who like sex and to not date women who only manipulate men with sex. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 2:21:33 PM |
spoken from someone who has no idea what true love is. It is not an, "I will if you will",type thing. that is not what love is.
You are correct. That is why I figure a woman ought to swallow regardless of whether or not I feel like performing oral sex on her. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 3:35:57 PM |
another rule, if a woman wants me to go down on her, she should expect to go down on me also.(at some point in time.)
where I would say,, It's me who want to go down on her, and if she likes what I'm doing, it's almost a certainty, ( with the women I have known anyway ) they are more than eager to do the same, yet it's not something I expect or demand, I hope it happens though,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/23/2008 4:28:15 PM | I will if you will" = unselfish
It is very selfish on ur part. When you love someone you will do whatever you like that pleases them as long as YOU dont mind doing it....... no matter if she returns it or not. If she cant then you will respect her and not throw this i will if you will crap in her face. Thats not love, never has been and never will be. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 6:21:46 AM | I don't get women who can't reciprocate that to their men.
I dont understand why you dont get it. I cant write it in more clearer english if I tried. So let me give you an example. suppose something made you very sick to your stomach but you had to eat it to make SOMEONE ELSE happy and fill fulfilled.........Would you do it? The answer is no.
For some women blow jobs are just something they cannot do. its not a "WONT," its a "CANT," unless you want vomit all over you. If you cant understand that then I cant help ya. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 8:24:48 AM | I dont understand why you dont get it. I cant write it in more clearer english if I tried. So let me give you an example. suppose something made you very sick to your stomach but you had to eat it to make SOMEONE ELSE happy and fill fulfilled.........Would you do it?
I would either learn to like it or move on. Whining and hoping a problem goes away is usually a failing strategy.
For some women blow jobs are just something they cannot do. its not a "WONT," its a "CANT,"
Therein lies the real problem. I don't deal with people who use ``can't'' to mean ``won't.'' That in itself is a character flaw. There are some things you can't do, like get run over by a bus and come out unscathed. Just about everything less traumatic than that is ``won't.'' I'm not sure why you think it's such a big deal to admit you're better off just finding men that are happy to not get blowjobs than trying to convince everyone to be satisfied with an unsatisfactory situation. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 9:26:44 AM | I would NEVER want anyone to do anything to me that they didnt DESIRE to. If a man was going to lick my kitty to please me but didnt really enjoy it, or just wanted a BJ in return, I WOULD RATHER NOT. I would not enjoy having my kitty licked if the licker wasnt totally into it the whole visual, smell, and taste of it, and totally loved it. I would just rather he not. Only do it if you WANT to.
For me, i can only swallow if im feeling major chemistry and/or am in love with the guy. Its not something i could do with a one night stand or fling.
I once gave a man i had been dating and was really having feelings for a 45 minute blow-job to completion, swallowed it all and licked it off my fingers, made sure i didnt miss a drop. he then said lay down i guess i owe you one now, and i was like,,,,ummmmm,,,,,no ya dont owe me jack i did it cuz i loved it. Sex is about enjoyment not "owing". | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 10:41:39 AM | I would either learn to like it or move on
not true.
Whining and hoping a problem goes away is usually a failing strategy.
no whinning ..just a flat out no. and we dont hope the problem goes away becuase if we cant stand nastyness we jsut cant stand it and nothing can change it.
I don't deal with people who use ``can't'' to mean ``won't.
They do not mean the same things at all. cant does not mean wont. cant means u simply cant stomach it and wont means you might can but u might can but u aitn gonna do it. Threr is a difference there.
admit you're better off just finding men that are happy to not get blowjobs
I already have one. He happily accepts me for ME. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 12:43:11 PM | .......I can't ever imagine the women I care for making me SICK to my stomach.
it isnt the person making another sick. its having to eat the bodily fluids.
.......I can't ever imagine getting naked with someone who made me wretch.
It again isnt the person. what is so hard to understand about that.
.......But I guess for you -relationships and sex are analogous to a kid not liking cooked broccoli.
how childish.
But I guess for you its all about sex and to hell with your partner feelings about certain sexual acts. You have a lot of learning to do when it comes to relationships.
.......I'd hate to be your man.
with your lack of intelligence on relationship and love who would want someone so selfish as to only care about how HE feels and to hell with her. Yep, thats love through the eyes of an idiot. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 2:05:50 PM |
with your lack of intelligence on relationship and love who would want someone so selfish as to only care about how HE feels and to hell with her.
Not to be chastising, kittenhere, but you really should step back and look at the stuff you say. From the outside looking in, your slant seems to be that if you're not comfortable doing something, to hell with whether or not your partner likes it. How is that one bit different than him wanting you to do it without regard to how you feel about it?? It's called compromise. What if he didn't like buying you birthday presents, and the thought of it gave him a headache? You'd still want those gifts, wouldn't you? You'd feel like you're somehow entitled to them just because you're in a relationship. The attitude would be, "I don't care if you want to buy me a gift or not! You'd better not step foot through that doorway on my birthday if you're not bearing gifts like the magi or the 3 wise men!" | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 2:23:48 PM | ..........Not to be chastising, kittenhere, but you really should step back and look at the stuff you say
What im saying is if a person cannot do something they should not be made to esp just becuase he wants it. do you think I would make a man do something he didnt wnat??? of course not.
............How is that one bit different than him wanting you to do it without regard to how you feel about it?? It's called compromise.
there is a huge difference. Just becuase he wants soemthing im suppose to do it no matter how badly it sickens me out?? When something bothers another perosn you do not make them do it or threaten them. Only a low life scum bucket would treat a partner so disrespectful. And I dont see where him not givng a shit about me and my feelings would say DO IT ANYWAY regardless of how it would sicken me out is a compromise. Please fill me in on that one.
..........What if he didn't like buying you birthday presents
I hardly compare buying gifts to eating cum. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 2:51:22 PM | Without reading every post on this forum subject ;)
Each to there own!
For anyone that believes in wasting nothing in this life! :)
http://www.lulu.com/content/4956212
May i wish all the girls and boys a spirited Christmas and happy cooking in 2009!
Apologies if I appear to be insensitive to the subject the 1st few posts were enough on the night before the night!
And a special mention to lulu for here obvious observing hole in the cookery market! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/24/2008 2:57:59 PM | When I was very young, my daddy told me he didn't like cottage cheese. Gramma made me eat some once even though I told her it would make me puke. I puked.
I grew up, now I love cottage cheese.
When I 1st learned about sex, I thought , ewww icky, French kiss? No way!., swallowing, argggg. I grew up and loved sex and F kisses and pleasing my partner was more important than hanging onto my old thought patterns.
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