|
|
|
|
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/26/2008 5:24:19 PM | Has anyone read a poem named "The Blindmen And The Elephant?" That is what we have going here a lot of people misunderstanding and misinterpreting what each other is saying. The point that needs to be made again is this.
TO EACH HIS OWN!! DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND IS COMFORTABLE FOR YOU!!!!
WE SEEM TO BE TRYING TO CONVERT OTHERS TO OUR POINT OF VIEW. EVERYONE HAS A VALID POINT AND THE SAME RIGHT TO FREE SPEECH AS EVERYONE ELSE. EVERYONE IS ALLOWED TO STATE THEIR OPINIONS AND POST WHAT THEY WISH. THIS IS A FREE COUNTRY!!!
IT'S AS IF TO SWALLOW OR NOT TO SWALLOW HAS BECOME A RELIGION!!!
 | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/26/2008 9:01:11 PM | Women/ Men have a choice, I respect their choice, I have always said that in this forum,, and all forums
I know what it is I want from life and a partner, both in and out of the bed room,, and if a woman is not able to give that to me,, we are not a good match.
Non negotiable, why that is, we are not in a true meaningful relationship yet, so now in not the time to start veering from what I want.. ..,I would expect the same form her,, if I can't or won't give to her what she needs or desires,, We both move on,
I refuse to start any relationships where the woman has sexual hang ups, whether it be going down on a man, or laying on the bed like she is doing me a favor,, if she finds body fluids disgusting or gross, if she refuses to kiss me after I went down on her, if she shows little interest in sex, and pleasing her man, if she feels uncomfortable with her body or mine,, I have on two occasions, women who found going down on a man disgusting, and then to find out those same fears transformed in to other hang ups,, My opinion of a star fish... even though the effort of trying to change things with some success, I'm just not at this stage of my life, where I need to be a sex teacher, emotional psychiatrist,,I would rather a woman come with her own tricks ,, skills,,, I'll supply some of my own ,, and lets have fun,, Sex should not be work,, as the same will apply to her,, if what I have to offer is not good enough, move on,, because I'm not about to change any time soon... | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/26/2008 9:44:41 PM | I'm not looking to argue, but I won't stand by and have your misrepresent what I said.
You did say something about a gag reflex.....that's why I ask. You have insulted me by saying I am projecting myself on your statements....
you said this to me
Maybe you fixation on oral is because you lack in the penetration department
Then my replay..
So much for her gag reflex,, hmmmmmmmm...
How am I directing that toward you,, If I were, I would have said this
---------------------So much for YOUR gag reflex,,
You seem to want or need to take my comments personally.. I don't know why that is,,,
I have rode horses my whole life and you really need to talk to a man that has has sex with a cowgirl. It takes a lot more skill and stamina to ride a horse than it does a man..
I appreciate the fact that you ride horses,, But I don't need to talk to any man that you have ridden to verify your skills in bed,, because I don't care.. it's non of my business..
That is the second time you expressed to me about your sexuality,, I 'm not sure why you have a need to tell me these things..
I don't think you should have to settle for less than what you want sexually from a women............but you should appreciate the ones that do and respect the once that don't even though they are not compatible to you.
No explanation needed, because you have no clue who I am or what I do or do not respect, those word you wrote are just your opinion of me,, again I don't care.. It's not personal with me..
I think it is pretty wrong to make general statements about women just off of a few personal experiences
I agree it is wrong,, but I have not done that,, I spoke of my experiences, or what I don't want.. therefore in my opinion,, starfish still applies..
That would be like me saying men are boring in bed because they don't last long enough to even make it worth me taking my pants off. Yep, that would be a pretty broad statement to say just from my experiences...........because I know not all men will only last about 5 minutes.
In my opinion, it would be ok if you did, do you know why,, Because I'm smart enough to know its not true, ,,, if it were true and you slept with all those men ,, except for one,, and that would be me,, therefore it's still crap,, and I don't let or try not to let this crap get to me..
It's really sad that certain words tick some people off, choosing words in these forums is like trying to defuse a bomb,, so many highly sensitive people, who take these forums way to personal,, I would understand, if rude , crude comment were made towards someone directly,, and their are just a few who have done that..
rdcnorm, I'm sure you are a very nice guy.....or I am hoping
thank you,, but please, don't hope for me,, because there is none.. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 4:51:46 AM | It has a lot to do with what you have eaten/drank and if you smoke,these things cum out in the taste
Although what a man eats does change the taste of it, that has nothing to do with why some women cannot perform a bj. I for one do not even know what it taste like nor am I ever gonna find out. It is the slime that keeps me from doing it. It was never meant to be ate.
Afraican, who mentioned poision, well that has never been said. what was siad was that if a man is sick with a sexual disease and she gives him oral she will become deathly ill. I do remember telling about a woman that it happend to. It was never meant in any way to say that ALL men have disease or their cum is piosion. The point was a woman does not know if a man is sick or not that she goes out with on a date and gives him oral. There are alot of women who go out and do this for men and the woman cant even remember so much as his name. this can be a bad situation for the woman. Its a huge chance they take. So dont turn something I previously said into sometiong it never was. However , a man can be the cleanest man alive and i sitll will not perform oral on him. I can be completely madly in love with him and I still will not perform oral on him. oral does not mean love at all. it has nothing to do with love. Some of us women cannot do it becuase it makes us sick and vomit. Not everyone can handle slime. So afraican, if you wnat to down a woman becuase she cannot handle slime by all means go for it. We dont care what a selfish, uncaring, disrespectful man thinks about us. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 5:34:35 AM | I disagree with a lot of anti-blow job people, I got such an awesome blow job and she swallowed it down and moaned. I fell in love instantly. We had a long term relationship after that. I loved her, and she definitely proved she loved me.  | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 7:03:13 AM | .....and she definitely proved she loved me
Again oral does not prove love at all. You can do oral on a complete stranger.
.....I disagree with a lot of anti-blow job people
Explain how you can possibly disagree with a person who dont like slime? . If we dont like slime than who are you to tell us we are wrong for not liking slime. makes no sense whatsowever. How can someone be wrong for not liking something??? if they dont like it they jsut dont like it. My husband dont like pork.. he will not eat it. And i asked him why and he said he just dont like it. Would it be right for me to tell him he is selfish and such and such becuase he dont like pork??? should i threaten to leave him becuaes he wont eat pork??? You guys need to think before you speak and think you can tell soemne what to like and what not to like. You dont have that right. What you do have is the right to leave the person you claim to love becuase they dont like soemthing that you think they should like. And in that case good riddens. No one tells anyone what they should and should not like. I dont tell anyone what they need to like in order to keep me. Geez people wisen up. If you feel you have to have a bj's then by all means go find a woman who can help you with your sexual preferences but there is no exuse to to down a woman who cant do that. We are not any less of a woman than the women who do give bj's. some like it , some dont...whether you agree or not.
.....I fell in love instantly.
Wrong ...you fell in love with the bj NOT the woman. get it right. Bj.s have nothing to do with love whatsoever. If it did then no one would leave anyone who gave a bj. You loved the sex, not the woman. If you loved the woman you would not give a shit if she gave you bj or not. For the men who claim they will not fall in love iwth soemone who dont give them they are sadly mistaken. A statement like that means they have never been in love. And if they put bj's above a woman, chances are they will never ever know love. I think thats very sad. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:01:30 PM | | You can control the taste of your semen to some extent, eating fruit for example will alter the taste. Eat lots of citrus fruits. Personally I don't have a problem with swallowing, it's easier than using half a dozen kleenix tissues. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:07:33 PM |
Afraican, who mentioned poision, well that has never been said. what was siad was that if a man is sick with a sexual disease and she gives him oral she will become deathly ill.
would it be at all possible for your to cite some sources? That is a ridiculous allegation and I would LOVE to see some proof. For you to continue to spout that without any reference really makes you look immature. | |
|
| |
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:26:41 PM | | pardonmemiss , what resources do I need to not like bj's?????????? People need to use their brain to think with. Just becuase she died or nearly died becuase doctors were having a hard time controlling it does not mean it is gonna be in some book somewhere. If you wnat to know where I got it from I will happily tell you. My sister is good friends with a doctor and he told her about this woman that he was treating who has disease all in her throat , stomach and everywhere and they are having a hard time getting rid of it. It seemed nothing was working. I never heard if the woman died or got better. It is not alligation its a fact. It is the doctor who told my sister to never ever give a man a blowjob. He had proof of what it can cause for the woman by his patient. Does not matter if anyone belives it. If you just use ur mind and think for yourself you know its defiantely possible. And I have never called it poision. someone accused me of it but i never said such a thing. he put words in my mouth that I did not say. I said disease not poision. You know what makes a person look immature ??? its saying things like no one can get sick from oral or she should do it becuase i want her to. this is immature. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 1:04:57 PM | I sit and ponder the thought of the possibility of a healthy man sperm can give a woman some sort of deadly disease.. although there may be some truth, I have no clue. I have never heard of such a thing..
But what i have heard of is unsafe sex, causing all types of heath issues..as I would assume most of us are aware of..
Now if a woman doesn't swallow because of that fear of disease, she really shouldn't have unprotected with him either,, nor should he with her..
So we have a choice,, when we are not sure,, we put a rain coat on,, there are no guarantee of not catching some kind of disease , but that does reduce our chances,,
Now for a woman who doesn't like the taste of seaman,, the condom will collect all those tiny little sperm.. That certainly would not be the way I would like a BJ.. but it at least gives a woman another option, for those who do not have a gag reflex issue..
That same concept could apply for the man in your life who you believe is disease free, again something to consider,,
As for the gag reflex,, that can be overcome with work, just by using a banana and
practice,
Now i see no excuses,,
It is the doctor who told my sister to never ever give a man a blowjob.
I bet,, if that were true,, I'd say there would be an awful lot of sick women laying in the hospital, or the streets,, I'd say that doctor is a quack, in my opinion...
 | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 1:05:47 PM | Sweetness, if a man has aids it can be spread through ANY sort of bodily fluid exchange. Including *gasp* sex. I don't hear kitten denouncing sex, only repeatedly saying how swallowing semen will make a woman "deathly ill".
Kittenhere, after looking at your post history with little more than calling everyone with a different view than yourself "stupid", I've realized that there is no point in trying to reason with you. I'm not telling you to change your opinion on the matter, I'm only asking that you not be completely off your ****ing rocker. It looks like that's not going to happen. Please continue your judgemental tyrade and call everyone stupid for their sexual habits. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 1:47:11 PM |
A blowjob doesn't prove love at all
I disagree. If you really love somebody you wont be grossed out by them, or their body fluids. I would never be able to live with a woman who couldn't do the job right. That's just me though, everybody has a match out there. I'm just looking for the ones who are damn good at giving blow jobs. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 1:53:15 PM |
If you really love somebody you wont be grossed out by them, or their body fluids.
That is ridiculous, unsupported logic brought on by obsession with blow jobs, and nothing more. I don't care WHO you are...if you lick my face, I'm grossed out, and I very well may slap you. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 2:46:35 PM |
If you really love somebody you wont be grossed out by them, or their body fluids.
-------------------------------
That is ridiculous, unsupported logic brought on by obsession with blow jobs, and nothing more.
The only truth you that is concerning BJ.. that is not a sign of love..but can show love..
As for the rest, I f you do love someone,, you may be grossed out by body fluids,
BUT. you will do what ever it takes to care for that person,
example, while my wife with sick with cancer,,I cleaned more body fluids, some I never even knew existed, I did things that I would never believed possible, even my gag reflex disappeared.. love will enable you do do things you may dreamed possible.. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 2:59:14 PM | .........even my gag reflex disappeared.. love will enable you do do things you may dreamed possible..
You were not asked to eat the body fluids either. Some things that you are calling love (which is not love) will not make a person do anything. Some things are just not gonna happen.
.......you will do what ever it takes to care for that person,
Eating their cum is not caring for them. So no if that is what they require I offer no help.
to poster below me this thread is about bj's. and no love for somene will not enable some to do things that normallly would not do. bj's being one of them | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 3:05:59 PM | kitten,, your to quick to judge,, you should re read what I wrote , never once did I say in my last post eating cum or body fluids, it was about what we would do for love and i excluded BJs
you really do have some issues,, not only that,, your insensitive to what i was attempting to say,, | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 3:30:57 PM | Well...
Thank god I've never met a man that desperately needed me to let him lick my face.
Not to minimize your story, because it does have merit, but the two are not equal. No one NEEDS their cum swallowed. It serves no actual purpose.
All I can say it that I had a great 7 year sex life with my ex, and when you care about someone none of this arguing means sh*t. The give and take is natural. Do I love swallowing? No. But if my husband asked me to during the act, I did it, because I wanted him to be happy. When I was pregnant and throwing up every second of the day and he asked me to swallow, I said no, and he was ok with it because he wanted me to be happy.
In here, we argue over f*cking. At home, (I hope) we revert to making love, and those are two completely different things. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 3:54:45 PM |
No one NEEDS their cum swallowed. It serves no actual purpose.
you are absolutely right it servers no purpose,,
as I have said before , women have a right to choose,,
for me it's not about her swallowing, or even spitting cum out..
I won't speak for any other man, just me,, assuming a woman will go down,
When she stops right before ejaculation,, well that kind of wrecks the whole feeling,, even if she is good with her hands, as she takes over the stroking with her hands,,,, the feeling is different, and many times it's like getting 1/2 the experience..
It's like pulling out of a woman just before I cum,, some women like it on the chest, as for me I don't care to,, I'll do it for her, but the feeling for me is not the same,, 1/2 the effect of cumming inside of her..
The point is it's not where the cum goes, it's about finishing without stopping,, | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:02:25 PM |
Here is a list of the STDs that can be contracted through unprotected oral sex:
1. HIV: Yes, the big one! It is possible to contract and spread HIV through oral sex. If you are performing oral sex on someone with HIV and you have any cuts, blisters, or open sores in your mouth, then the infected semen can enter your body through those cuts and the HIV virus can enter your blood. Alternately, if you are receiving oral sex from an HIV+ person who has cuts or blisters in their mouth, then there is every chance of the HIV virus entering your body through cuts or abrasions on your genitals.
Breast milk also contains the HIV virus. Therefore, oral sex on the breasts can also put you at risk of contracting HIV. Since saliva does not contain any significant amounts of the HIV virus, kissing your partner does not pose risk of HIV, unless of course you both have cuts or blisters in your mouth.
2. Chlamydia: This is an STD caused by the Chlamydia trachomatis bacteria. It affects women more than men and can cause severe damage to their reproductive system, including permanent infertility. Majority of the cases of Chlamydia do not show any symptoms, but some common signs of this disease are:
* Pain while urinating
* Smelly vaginal or penile discharge
* Spotting after intercourse
* Persistent lower back pain
3. Oral Herpes: An STD caused by the herpes simplex virus, oral herpes can result in small, painful blisters and cold sores around your mouth. Although not a permanent infection, it can take months and sometimes even years to be cured completely.
4. Gonorrhea: This is another STD that can be transmitted through oral sex. The Gonorrhea bacteria usually affects a woman's vaginal opening first and can then spread to the insides of the womb. This STD can cause infertility in women, and also increases the chance of a tubal pregnancy (a pregnancy that does not happen in the womb but in the fallopian tubes).
5. Hepatitis A and E: Both these diseases can be spread through oral sex. Hepatitis A and E both are contagious viral infections of the liver. Although not fatal in 99.5% of the cases, these diseases can weaken your liver considerably. Some of the common symptoms of hepatitis are:
* Fever
* Diarrhoea
* Loss of appetite
* Vomiting
* Jaundice
* Dark coloured urine
* Pain in the abdomen
Some other STDs that can be contracted through oral sex include syphilis and yeast infections.
All ya'll have to do is google STD's through oral sex if ya want to find out........happy reading. | |
|
| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:13:19 PM | I would hope, those who do not swallow use protection during intercoure, because those same diseases apply...
It's not whether you swallow or have sex,, it's about safe sex..period,,,so with a condom, like I said before,, giving head is still possible..with no mess... | |
|
|
| Page 25 of 44
|
4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44 |
|
Home
login 
