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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:18:15 PM |
It's not whether you swallow or have sex,, it's about safe sex..period,,,so with a condom, like I said before,, giving head is still possible..with no mess...
Yet, so many men are demanding that she swallow or she isn't satisfying in bed!!! Can't be safe and swallow at the same time.........just isn't possible. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:23:15 PM |
But aren't we discussing oral sex with a trusted partner or spouse - when disease is NOT the issue?
Can all spouses and partners be trusted?  I'm sure a "trusted" partner isn't going to tell you they slept with the neighbor or someone else they met. Just a hunch though!!! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:33:44 PM |
Yet, so many men are demanding that she swallow or she isn't satisfying in bed!!! Can't be safe and swallow at the same time.........just isn't possible. I think your going overboard with that statement,, I Think if your in a relashionship, most would have been tested, so therefore,, those women you speak of can do there thing,, but still refuse to swallow,, so it's not about disease ,, Now if a man demanding on a one night stand, need i say more.. I don't think most women posting here were talking about disease ,, they just don't like the slime so they call it.. therefore I think your trying to divert this off topic, and yes disease is a very important topic, I mentioned it my self,, but the the main reasons why women don't swallow,, you have mentioned your safe cowboy friends, and activities, what are their thoughts about you swallowing knowing they are disease free...  | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:36:54 PM |
But aren't we discussing oral sex with a trusted partner or spouse - when disease is NOT the issue?
Can all spouses and partners be trusted? I'm sure a "trusted" partner isn't going to tell you they slept with the neighbor or someone else they met. Just a hunch though!!!
You have to be kidding me,, why don't those women who feel like you just give up sex completely,, you will say anything to make a point seem valid..
If you can't trust your partner,, why have sex with him in the first place.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:42:59 PM |
Oh wow would I hate to be your man.
You'd make up any excuse .
How many men have you dated had a disease?
You are more likely to die in a car accident than contract HIV in a trusting relationship.
Its statistical fact.
But I guess you trust NO ONE.
Must be a very LONELY and SELFISH way to live.
LMFAO...........I don't need to make up any excuse. I will if I want to and I won't if I don't.........period.
I don't trust people at face value............why does that make me selfish and lonely? I have two daughters that I am raising on my own.........I can't afford to throw all caution to the wind. Are you trying to tell me that every person can be trusted? Seriously!!!!!!
BTW, did it make you feel better to insult me when all I asked was
Can all spouses and partners be trusted? I'm sure a "trusted" partner isn't going to tell you they slept with the neighbor or someone else they met. Just a hunch though!!!
Take a chill pill..........I know not all partners can be trusted..........whether it be male or female.
You have to be kidding me,, why don't those women who feel like you just give up sex completely,, you will say anything to make a point seem valid..
If you can't trust your partner,, why have sex with him in the first place..
Oh yes, there must be something wrong with me sexually huh? I guess cheating never happens.........never!!!! Who is finding the need to insult whom tonight? Who is getting their undies in a knot tonight?
I guess my oldest daughter has a half sister 4 wks older than her because all ya'll can be taken at your word.......lmao. People cheat...........it happens. Hell, there are married people on this site looking for shit on the side on this site..........reality check please!!!!!
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:45:26 PM | african,,
wouldn't you agree, I think some women have some real relationship issues,, we just can't be trusted ,, it's not about our slimy seaman,, I finally get,,
It's seems some will have sex with a man the y are supposed to trust,, where a condom during intercourse, because they really don't trust him,,
I don't know any man who would even consider that kind of treatment,,,Ouh | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:52:53 PM | | At some point, I'm usually going to trust somebody about something. I just don't want to live in a world where I'm unwilling to trust anybody. Of course, I'm speaking within reason, and within my own intuitive/instinctual mechanisms of judgment. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:54:21 PM | thats probably where you went wrong .
i don't know anyone who'd have sex with someone they only know at "face value".
Was the father of your children a STRANGER ?
are you kidding me?
You impress only yourself with your debating skills.
do yourself and your children a favor and grow up a little..this isn't high school.
Why would I have a child with a stranger...........WTF? I was with him 7yrs.......left when I found out about the cheating.
Don't ever talk about doing my children a favor...............you have no idea about my children and never will.........don't ever talk to me about being a parent. Ever!!!
You don't know me enough to even know my name let alone my parenting skills........
If I say "SUP" like you will that make me more grown up? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:59:53 PM | Why you quoted me,, I have no clue,,
Why would I have a child with a stranger...........WTF? I was with him 7yrs.......left when I found out about the cheating.
Don't ever talk about doing my children a favor...............you have no idea about my children and never will.........don't ever talk to me about being a parent. Ever!!!
You don't know me enough to even know my name let alone my parenting skills........
where did I mention your children...or were you just to quick to respond...again | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 7:06:29 PM | | OK HERE LET ME SPIT IT BACK IN TO YOUR MOUTH AND SEE IF YOU MIGHT LIKE TO SWALLOW YOU CUM. MMMMMMMMMMMMM I WONDER. ITS NASTY BITTER THICK AND I HAVE ENOUGHT FLEM IN MY THROAT THANKS. SO THINK ABOUT IT. ONCE YOUR CUMING YOU DONT STOP IT JSUT FINISHES ITS SELF. WE ON THE OTHERHAND ARE VERY DIFFERANT AND THIS IS WHY I WILL NEVER SLEEP WITH A MAN AGAIN. SO DO YA UNDERSTAND NOW. THANKS FOR THE REASURANCE. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 7:11:16 PM | I have no issues with snowballing,, or even going down on a woman after I have cum,, if it's good enough for her it's good enough for me,, and women have gone down on me and sucked their own juices,,
so your point is...
but spitting is not allowed,, unless we fight for it as it flies through the air,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 9:08:16 PM | I am really enjoying this thread, everyday I check out what someone has added to the venomous battle. I've suggested that we call a truce and agree that pleasure is in the eye of the beholder. But apparently this is a battle that must have a winner. Here is a little fact there are 25 sexually transmitted deseases. And I would summise that most of them can be passed from one person to another during oral sex. One can perform oral on a man wearing a condom, as rdcnorm suggested. (Talk about nasty taste, latex doesn't taste like "cotton candy!")
This whole battle started out about pleasing ones partner. And it has now become a battle about desease, name calling, and insult trading.
I have read the posts carefully and frequent missqoutes are common. Or should I say misinterpretations. Everyone has the right to their own opinions. But if you are going to quote someone, try to understand the context of what they said, before you post your answer. It confuses the rest of us and makes you look like a half wit. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 9:20:13 PM |
But apparently this is a battle that must have a winner
Your right there are no winners, nor should there be ,, it's all about choice, and choice is good,, but I find humor when some back peddle, grasp for straws to prove a point, twist words, take offence,, I'm sure I have done that my self at times,, but that is what makes this forum fun, it not about who swallows or not.. it's about laughter,,
and yes latex sucks yak.. but I mentioned it just in case other haven 't though of it,, it's may understanding,, they now "cum" in flavors.. so basically you can get a pink, banana tasting, that glow in the dark,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 10:21:07 PM |
I'm just looking for the ones who are damn good at giving blow jobs.
Although I quote, this has been said by many of you, even the DAD looking for a new wife (who says practice on a banana girls and you will be good to go lol) ...it is a deal breaker, so why the hell isn't that on your profiles? It will save you a ton of time and energy! I have written a few lines to help you out boys, so please feel free to copy and paste.
"Must give good head/ swallow and finish always and let me see her gulp/must do so lovingly and happily and when I ask for it and even if I taste like crud and smell bad or will be dropped pronto/must do it in the first few dates so I am not wasting my time!"
No need to thank me!
Lol... so glad you at least posted here so the ladies who hate control freaks, selfish lovers, players and those who know nothing about STD transmission can see what some of you wrote. Thanks at least for that to those who don't hide forum posts or post anonymously! (you know who you are... oh wait, you don't! but those reading do! hehehe) | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 10:48:50 PM |
even the DAD looking for a new wife (who says practice on a banana girls and you will be good to go lol)
If your going to quote me, please try and do it right,,I said this as instructional information,, I also said condoms can be used if women didn't like the taste of seaman...
As for the gag reflex,, that can be overcome with work, just by using a banana and practice
I have also stated women have a choice,, I also said, if a woman is not compatible with me when it comes to sex,, she is not my type,,
I have to ask, where did I say I'm looking for a wife, I didn't even say that in my profile. matter of fact, my profile says, I'm taking a break from dating,,so lets get your facts straight,, OK..
I think my profile is suggestive, meaning sex,, so I have nothing to hind,,
I have no issues with someone reading my posts, and if they happen not to like what I think or write,, that's OK too,, we all have choices.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 11:40:56 PM | | I don't see why any woman should have to perform oral sex on a man. She's not a vacuum cleaner. If both agree, fine, but it shouldn't be imposed on the woman as an assumption in a relationship. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/27/2008 11:51:03 PM | I didn't quote you or I would have put it in quotations? I was quoting literally from another thread.. not yours, but yes you have also said it is a deal breaker many times..
My mention of you was because your profile is sexual, indeed, yet does not say she has to give head or swallow. Why not please? Oh yes, because you are searching here in forums for that perfect woman ... good luck, but i suggest you use my text... I am sure there are some who will give you exactly what you want.. or you can pay for it...
I guess finding a mother can be way down the list when hey, your needs must be met! Actually not just met, but carried through exactly AS YOU WISH. Sheeesh men! Yes we all have choices... but your deal breaker attitudes toward women, lack of maturity, knowledge and hell, even ability to spell simple words (while you write a diatribe) in this day of spell check (semen...if seamen is a joke, correct your other spelling and I might laugh) is kinda scary.
You might want to write for a romance novel with your supposed passionate fluff... but if you are pushing a woman's head down and saying swallow betch, then you are not quite as passionate or romantic as you think.
I know you are going to write a little misspelled novel about me, Norm, but spare it... I do not care an iota what you think either. To me you are a control freak. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 12:11:06 AM | ^^^ I bet you feel much better now,, good for you,, Your not worth a response, because you are so off topic, with your attempt to attack me personally. That tactic doesn't work with me but nice try,, I would suggest discussing why or why not, you like to swallowing cum,,
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 12:50:11 AM | | Kevinc!, its the womans choice. Its also the womans choice to perform the act at all. We as men in general should feel privledged that any woman for the most part would want anything to do with us sexually ... I'am not supporting women or men in this post but just like we as men have a choice to go down on a woman and we have the choice how long to stay down, women also have the same choice. I have had women swallow and have them spit and it all feels the same to me. The only reason why I would prefer a woman to swallow is because there is less mess involved, besides that I would rather do it on there breasts or the small of there back or anywhere else they want to let me... its more of a turn-on (i think for both parties) to actually watch it shoot out and land on the body of the goddess that you are with. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 1:02:20 AM | | abelian, you just need to grow up. WOMEN HAVE RIGHTS and they can make there own choices, when a women is respected they are more likely to do the things that that are less than appealing to them. If you have a "you better finish or else attitude" most of them won't just out of spite. Treat them right and they will " treat you right" The fact is not all will swallow and thats that. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 1:11:09 AM |
We as men in general should feel privledged that any woman for the most part would want anything to do with us sexually
If you really believe that, you have some serious self-esteem issues. Stand a little further away from the pvssy whip. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 1:12:53 AM |
abelian, you just need to grow up. WOMEN HAVE RIGHTS and they can make there own choices,
Feel free to find any post in which I've said otherwise. If you can't find such a post, then retract your comment. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 2:13:35 AM | LMAO...................some of the chest beating and bashing, which I am guilty of too, just destroys any points that were being made..........When someone doesn't like someone in the forums they will find something to bash in ever post that person makes. I guess that is human nature to insult and then bash others for doing it and pretending they don't care when really it bugs the shit out of them........It just makes me laugh.
Went out tonight and talked with my friends about this............and yes I have mostly male friends............
The general census was that a chick that swallows is amazing............BUT, it's a huge turn off is she isn't into it as well. A couple of girls at the table said that they love to do it, but if their man makes it an obligation they won't do it just for the simple fact that they feel controlled. Others at the table had partners that didn't agree on the swallowing but still found great ways to keep things interesting in the bed room...........
Hell, one of the wives even said she would love to swallow but her husband finds it degrading to her..........I guess the point is everyone is different.......I was shocked as hell to hear some of my friends comments.......would have never guessed it. What a person says before they are in a relationship might just be different when they find the right person and feel totally comfort and sexual connection with them. I know some of my friends have said that and I thought a lot of them were prudes...........but were really into it since they found someone they are comfortable with.
^^^ I bet you feel much better now,, good for you,, Your not worth a response, because you are so off topic, with your attempt to attack me personally. That tactic doesn't work with me but nice try,, I would suggest discussing why or why not, you like to swallowing cum,,
but, she did get ya to comment about her post while you are professing not to comment........Sorry.........that was funny to me. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:39:00 AM | kirota
Did you agree or disagree with your friends. Please tell us your responses,, Did you say you found swallowing disgusting and gross, I'm wondering about there comments back at you..
but, she did get ya to comment about her post while you are professing not to comment........Sorry.........that was funny to me.
your right, she did, but I didn't need to attempt to insult her,,or bring her family into a blow job discussion,, even though I may be considered controlling in her opinion, you didn't here me say things off topic, like my spelling abilities, but some people like I said before will do just about any thing to prove a point, grasping at straws.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:57:37 AM |
...and no love for somene will not enable some to do things that normallly would not do. ...
I was gonna be done with responding to you, but you use zero logic in anything you say. Based on your little snippet that I quoted, are you saying that if your child or husband was lying injured in a burning building or car, you wouldn't make any attempt to save them even though there is absolutely nothing stopping you other that that's something that you "normally would not do?" It is absolutely clear that you (and a few of these other women) have never, ever known love, and I feel sorry for all of you.
You would be amazed at what actual love will embolden you to do or endure for the sake of that one you love most. Some of you ladies' responses and attitudes are just plain pathetic.  | |
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