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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 7:55:12 AM | Yes WE are pathetic because you THINK we do not please our men, but in many cases as already stated that is not the case, but we are not here to find a man who only likes a woman who swallows so we must be pathetic? What the hell does saving a loved one have to do with swallowing your cum for God's sakes. That comparison just shows what an shallow person you really are. Did you get the first person to give you head and swallow by telling her you would go blind? Or just say she was insensitive to your needs and would obviously not save you in a car crash so didn't love you? What swill...
And yes I take it personally that a man dared to have his son in a pic (since removed... why? same reason you don't put I need good head and I mean a swallower... go suck bananas girls! on your profile. It shows how shallow you are and I called you out so you removed it.) while saying he is not looking for a wife only a woman who will swallow. Shallow...
Yes there were many good points here about choices, why a woman would never swallow, some STD info that is not only ignored, but that supposedly mature men know nothing about because that knowledge might mean less head (the more adamant the more ignorant) and why your cum may taste like crud, but none of those guys were listening. It is all about the gulp.
I pictured me shoving the banana down Norm's throat (which is what I would do if you told me that you needed me to swallow even if you taste like crap) so that just took all the fun out of this thread for me. I gotta go because there are just too few men on here who are actual sensual beings. Most (including the author) should get a vacuum toy that swallows and find their true happiness in life.
(and hell ya it is cathartic Norm... have you looked at your own posts and lengthy replies? At least I recognize I am doing it lol) | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 8:38:19 AM | kirota
Did you agree or disagree with your friends. Please tell us your responses,, Did you say you found swallowing disgusting and gross, I'm wondering about there comments back at you..
What is there to agree or disagree on? See that is YOUR deal. Why does anyone have to agree to swallow or disagree with swallowing? I listened to them the same as they listened to me. Some said they would never have done it until they met "the one" while others liked it before and some still don't do it at all. Why do I have to agree or disagree. I'm not sexual with them. I don't have a penis to know if it is amazing to have a girl swallow my cum.
I told them that the thought of swallowing sperm is not attractive to me........some agreed it still isn't for them and some say they love it. To each their own. Not one person at the table had to try to down grade anyone for not wanting to or for loving it. We all have had different experiences and respected each other for those differences. We found out that I like some other wild sexual things that one of the girls that swallow won't even try.............just like I was a bit shocked at some of them that say they swallow they there were a few that were shocked that others of us like some other things that are considered taboo. To each their own. Maybe my friends are not like normal people............if there is such a thing. One person said that he used to think that not getting one sexual act was a deal breaker for a relationship with someone..........but has now been married to his wife 13yrs and she doesn't do that particular sex act, but on special occasions. Both of them compromised on that act because everything else in the connection was great...........
so listening to them makes me realize that both sides of this heated argument in this thread could compromise a little bit for the right person. If someone isn't willing to compromise a little bit they are probably not the person for you based on more than just sexual things. Now, that goes for the ones that demand it and the ones that say they will never do it.
your right, she did, but I didn't need to attempt to insult her,,or bring her family into a blow job discussion,, even though I may be considered controlling in her opinion, you didn't here me say things off topic, like my spelling abilities, but some people like I said before will do just about any thing to prove a point, grasping at straws..
No you didn't bring family into it, but your buddy African did and you found it necessary to insult me through posting to him.........so guilt by association does play into things sometimes. We all do it...........we all try and make our case sound the best......you do the same thing, but you just do it in a more round about way............
Go back and read your post to African in his last posts.........you insulted with out directly doing it which you think makes you better. Yet, we all see your insults no matter how well you think you hide them. Which is okay......we all insult at times..........I can admit it........can you? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 10:40:53 AM | you said this..
No you didn't bring family into it, but your buddy African did and you found it necessary to insult me through posting to him.........so guilt by association does play into things sometimes. We all do it...........we all try and make our case sound the best......you do the same thing, but you just do it in a more round about way............
Go back and read your post to African in his last posts.........you insulted with out directly doing it which you think makes you better. Yet, we all see your insults no matter how well you think you hide them. Which is okay......we all insult at times..........I can admit it........can you?
I said this,,
african,,
wouldn't you agree, I think some women have some real relationship issues,, we just can't be trusted ,, it's not about our slimy seaman,, I finally get,,
It's seems some will have sex with a man the y are supposed to trust,, where a condom during intercourse, because they really don't trust him,,
I don't know any man who would even consider that kind of treatment,,,Ouh
I used the words "some women"....... I must ask you, where did I mention you, or even quote you.
It has been my observation through reading this forum and from other readings..so I just happened to respond,,
That said,, again I will say, it's your thin skin, or if you feel included in my opinions,, it is you who who project those feeling,, not me,, It is you who takes comments personally, even though your your name wasn't even mentioned,
Should I say when a woman says a man sperm is gross, That is some generalization wouldn't you say,, I could take that personally,, but I don't..even though she is talking about me,, hell I could taste like pineapple, and she may like pineapple,, but she will never know, because she said a man cum is gross.. therefor I could feel insulted,, yet i am not,,
see my point,, most likely you will not..but its' up to us to control what affects us,,only you can do that,, I'm not in control of you or your feeling,, you are,, so take charge, and don't give me that power,, and try not to take everything so personal.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 11:25:12 AM |
What the hell does saving a loved one have to do with swallowing your cum for God's sakes. That comparison just shows what an shallow person you really are.
What the hell does saving a loved one have to do with swallowing your cum for God's sakes. That comparison just shows what an shallow person you really are.
Um, uniquelikeyou, aren't you the same one who posted about people replying to and quoting posts without even paying attention to what was actually said??? If you had taken the time to read what I was responding to instead of immediately taking offense, you would have noticed that I was responding to kittenhere's statement that love doesn't make you do something that you normally wouldn't do! Good grief! Some of you women are hopeless!
I've read this whole thread and don't recall a single man saying he forces his woman to swallow his cum! I sure as hell have never said it or done it! Some of you are absolutely blind with fury just because some of us men refuse to forego our wants all for the sake of coddling some inhibited woman's feelings!
FOR THE RECORD:
I have never said I needed a woman to swallow my cum for me to be satisfied!!! So will you all PLEASE stop putting words in my mouth and misconstruing my statements!!!??? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 3:18:11 PM |
And yes I take it personally that a man dared to have his son in a pic (since removed... why? same reason you don't put I need good head and I mean a swallower... go suck bananas girls! on your profile. It shows how shallow you are and I called you out so you removed it.) while saying he is not looking for a wife only a woman who will swallow. Shallow
because I can,, and i always change our pictures,, don't fret, you didn't call me out,, you don't have that power,,, you will see us again,, interesting what I do, that you take personally,, why is that I wonder,, never mind I don't care..
You now you should really chill with your personal attacks, I would think as mature adult,, you come come up with a better defence, concerning BJ would be in order,than to use my or any other profile, then to some how want to beat me with a banana,, LOL.... you an aggressive woman, or just angry with men.. , I bet there are some men that might like that,, or not..
I pictured me shoving the banana down Norm's throat (which is what I would do if you told me that you needed me to swallow even if you taste like crap) so that just took all the fun out of this thread for me. I gotta go because there are just too few men on here who are actual sensual beings. Most (including the author) should get a vacuum toy that swallows and find their true happiness in life.
Lets be clear ,, Now where have I said a woman has to swallow, I have always said a woman has a choice, and now where have I said, she has to swallow my cum,, Have I made my self clear enough..
Don't flatter your self I wouldn't allow you or your mouth to come near me,,
OT
If a woman has issues with cum then don't do it,, I have no issues with that. It's your RIGHT... Just as it's your right to have man issues, or any other sexual hang ups,, I don't care,, if it works for you great... it's not my concern, and has no effect on me..
other then this,,
don't get up set with me because I like BJ,, I wouldn't be with a woman who didn't like her **** pleased , so I have a right to choose just like you girls do..,
The difference is,, some women can't accept the fact, because you don't like giving a proper BJ,, some men will say,, she is not the girl for me,, I'd say, it's not all about you,, you may want to jump all over that,, but I'm more than willing to please my partner orally......... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 3:45:25 PM | Has everyone gotten off yet???
This is like the Thread that refuses to die.
Some women don't give BJ's, much less swallow, because they might get a disease???
Then they best forget all sex forever. And sounds like you guys better be careful, her mouth might be diseased and your****might rot & fall off... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:08:02 PM | This thread will NEVER die. Many of us guys find it too awesome if a woman swallows. It's a really big turn on for a lot of guys, some woman find it fun too, so if we could just put all the non-swallower woman on an island and all the swallowing woman on an island with me, that would be great. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:29:43 PM |
Godammit norm... You are one stupid sonuva****. Ever think of running for Congress?
and you point is, this topic is about oral sex,, not what you think of me,, but I guess wise ass remarks is oral..or in that anal because I thought heard some crap somewhere.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:22:51 PM | | If a man wants a woman to swallow his stuff he better make damn sure it tastes good. I don't care how much i love a man, if his cum tastes like something scraped off the bottom of the fridge i'm not letting it anywhere near my mouth a second time. On the other hand if he goes to the trouble to make sure he tastes the best he can then i have no problem at all. I would never expect my man go south on me if i thought it was a bit funky, i expect the same courtesy. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:14:53 PM | I truly do not understand what is wrong with stating that certain things are dealbreakers.
At my age......I know damn well I don't want a man that wont go down on me......and not just go down on me.....but be good at it! It is a deal breaker.
For some folks.....smoking and drinking are deal breakers.....and they have no issues with clearly stating it.....
At this point in our lives......we know what we are willing to accept....or not accept in our relationships.....mostly from our past relationships.
Be real easy to say......."Eh.....no big deal.....I can live without oral sex".....when in truth......I did it and refuse to do it again! Why should I go thru the rest of my life w/ someone that I'm not sexually combatible with.
and...
I don't see where putting my sexual desires in my profile is needed. That is what dating is for.
You don't swallow.......that's fine.....
just be sure to find a man that doesn't mind that u don't.
It's really pretty simple..... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 10:44:30 PM | | Nope no self esteem issues here but would you have sex with yourself ( I don't mean masterbation because thats probably the only sex you get ) Women are beautiful creatures and men are just well men, I cannot find attractiveness in men and I don't understand what women find beautiful about a man. Although I understand why they want us around. Oh and I believe you meant **** not pvssy. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 10:50:35 PM | I'm not retracting anything... In your posts you seem to think that your king s**t and women should do what you want. So as I said GROW UP !!! and relax you will find some woman with such low values and morals that you will be able to build up your own ego by " MAKING" her do whatever you want... I bet you drive a lifted truck to... ahemm... compensate don't you .   | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/28/2008 11:08:52 PM |
I'm not retracting anything... In your posts you seem to think that your king s**t and women should do what you want. So as I said GROW UP
I noticed that you couldn't find a post to support your last personal attack. I'm betting you can't find a post to support this personal attack either.
I bet you drive a lifted truck to... ahemm... compensate don't you
If it makes you happy to believe that, be my guest. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:58:06 AM | | For the guys who put bj's above everytihng else I feel sorry for you. Its ok to enjoy a bj when one is given but to expect it or demand it is where you guys go wrong. And to claim you will never be in a relaionship with a woman who dont give them is even sadder. bj's never have and never will make a relationship. if bj's made a realationship then all the men that do receive them would not be divorcing or cheating if married and boyfirends woud not leave girlfriends etc. All I can say is that if the guy is so self centered that all that matters to him is a bj then he is not the man for any woman. As to the question of this thread the women that dont do it is becuase we simply dont like it. it makes us sick to our stomach and vomit. Why would a man want to make a woman that sick? Because he is self centered. liking it and demanding it are two different things. I do bleive the guy should have what he wants therefore he needs to find the woman that can do it but there is no reason to down a lady that cant preform bj's. There is no exucse for that. We simply dont like it. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 6:25:23 AM | | bump420, Im not sure who you are speaking to but for me im happily married. But dont fret. You're a good looking man and will have no problme finding a nice lady (unless you require bjs) jsut kidding about the bj part lol there there are good woman who both give and dont give bj's. Your future partner is still out there and you will find her when the time is right. keep your chin up and stay sweet. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 7:08:15 AM | | cincydrummer, thks. I just wonder where he was when I was single lol No one flirted with me. lol Most of the time I couldnt get a guy to answer my messages. So hell I feel honored he flirted and in such a cute sweet way.lol. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 8:39:00 AM | For the guys who put bj's above everything else I feel sorry for you.
Please don't feel sorry, I don't think any man here said they put BJ before anything else.
As I said before, and some men will agree, if a women is not sexually compatible with us, we will not be getting into a relationship anytime soon with her..
Its ok to enjoy a bj when one is given but to expect it or demand it is where you guys go wrong.
again, most of us do not expect or demand anything, it's your choice to give a BJ,, and if you don't want too,, that's OK,, but to expect some of men to get into a relationship with a women who doesn't like it..
And to claim you will never be in a relationship with a woman who don't give them is even sadder. bj's never have and never will make a relationship
sadder I think not,, your right it won't make or break a relationship, (if your in one) but I'm not going to get into one,,
This is not bust on you,, but aren't you married, and as we speak, you have issues with your husband not liking toys, ( i'm sure you can work through that) but would that have been something he should have known before marriage, as well as neither one of you like oral.. as for the oral,, it's that good sexual compatibility,, but you have other issues, I'm not suggesting your going leave him,, Sex is a very important part of a relationship , already you have issues, and haven't been married that long,, if I'm correct with that..
if bj's made a relationship then all the men that do receive them would not be divorcing or cheating if married and boyfirends woud not leave girlfriends etc.
isn't that the truth,,
I have read somewhere in this forum men can't be trusted in or out of a relationship, that is where the idea of sexual transmitted diseases came up,, hence the use of condoms while in a relationship ,, Now I have wonder why a women would have sex with a man who was suspected of cheating, or is cheating.. and wear a condom,,
Now if some women are able to do that with a man that cheats, ,, why can't he wear a condom while in a good relationship , and receive a BJ.. frankly I wouldn't but some men I'm sure wouldn't mind..
Now I'd say, if women can discuss the use of toys in the bed room, why can't the use of condom be used...
All I can say is that if the guy is so self centered that all that matters to him is a bj then he is not the man for any woman
See how this works, men get called self centered because we like BJ,, but "IF " we said "ALL" women who do not preform oral are damaged and have major sexual. problems..
What many of us say,, we like to "give and receive "oral, now how is that self centered..
Not good for "any women" you say,,I have read, and know of many women, who wouldn't be in a relationship if her man didn't want to give oral, or if they weren't good at it.. so I can conclude there are women who want to give and receive oral,
therefore I would conclude just many men have said,, if a women does not want to give oral, that is her choice,, but their are many women out there who do like it,, and it's those women I would be interested in ,, because of sexually compatibility,, That is just one facet of a good relashionship,,
as you already know how important compatibility means,,, because you have some issues with toys in your bedroom..
As to the question of this thread the women that don't do it is because we simply don't like it. it makes us sick to our stomach and vomit.
An no man is suggesting you have to,, But that is your problem with getting sick, therefore, if I were looking for a relationship that women would not be my choice,
so you understand,
There are some men and women who like to eat Sh*it, while having sex,, "true"
You can bet, I'd run from that as well.. everyone has there own sexual preferences,, and if people don't agree on their compatibility, run the other way..
Why would a man want to make a woman that sick?
We don't, therefore we would rather get a BJ form someone who likes and and won't get sick,, see we respect you and what you don't want...
Because he is self centered
see how your are,, direspecting men who like BJ, as some men walk away from getting into a relationship, because we respect that it's not your thing, and we don't want to make you sick,, but you can't respect a man for doing that because he knows there is a woman out there that he won;t make sick, and we can have a mutual sexually satisfying relationship..
liking it and demanding it are two different things.
your are absolutely right, I don't think any woman should do anything that is demanded of her,, that includes everything in life,,
But that does not say a man can't like something,, and not demand it,, therefore if we like like it, and a woman likes it,, how is that demanding,,
I do believe the guy should have what he wants therefore he needs to find the woman that can do it but there is no reason to down a lady that cant preform bj's. There is no excuse for that. We simply don't like it.
I don't think most men were degrading a women for not liking BJ... but you might what to suggest that same thing to your women friends and your self, when we have been called many thing because we want a sexual compatible relashionship with woman,, just reread your post and others , heel one one wanted to jam a banana down my mouth,, LOL.. and went as far as going to my profile so she could find ammunition to attempt to disrespect me,,
respect of what we all want goes both ways...
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 8:56:53 AM | .......therefore if we like like it, and a woman likes it,, how is that demanding
that isnt because both want but when the man says i want a bj and she says she cant do it and he says get lost then. thats when there is a problem. So much for love huh. There are men who have posted here including youself who will leave his so called love if she can perform bj.s for him.
........See how this works, men get called self centered because we like BJ,,
you should re read what I actually said. I said its self centered when a guy breaks off the relationship with someone he claims to love becuase shecant give oral. I never once said a man waning one is self centered. Isaid putting them above his woman is self centered.
.......I don't think most men were degrading a women for not liking BJ...
Go back and read throught the 27 pages of this thread.
and in fact i bleive it was you who called women that dont give blow jobs a starfish in bed. | |
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