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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:11:05 PM | I'm guessing that most of the "older" women who refuse to do it have come across these men who taste really foul and think that all men taste like that. I know i did. After being with a man who tasted really bad for many years, then another relationship with a similar man, i thought that was how every man tasted, then i had the pleasure of one who was the other extreme (thank you!!) Otherwise i would probably be in the same camp as all the other women who refuse to do it.
I honestly don't think some men know or care how bad they taste. Sucking on the equivilent of a human lollypop with a constant foul taste oozing into your mouth is NOT very pleasant.
A big thank you to all the men who do care how they taste, we do appreciate it and you will also receive the benefit by having a woman who loves to give head and swallow. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:13:13 PM |
Are you telling me if your woman consistently tasted like rotten meat down there that you would still want to eat her out??
Did I say that? If I didn't, why are asking me this? If you want to fly off the handle and create strawmen for whatever has you in a snit, don't expect me to defend your strawmen. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:14:11 PM |
If you want your woman to enjoy bjs and swallowing you gotta make sure you do everything you can to make it good for her
I completely agree, no agreement with me........
While a man my not be aware of the taste, other than though kissing or going down on a woman after he has cum, by then it may all taste different, therefore I thinks a woman should be able to tell her partner of the quality of taste, good and bad, for example,, I remember eating a dinner with a female friend, a day later we had sex,,she said wow you tasted different, (like garlic) we ate a lot the night before,, now she wasn't complaining, just making a statement, my point is,, the taste of cum is different all the time so I have been told by several woman, But, I have also heard some men consistantly taste bad, and may have a lot to do with what we might call a normal diet,, not just a spicy dinner the night before,, men do not always know, but if they are aware of tasting bad consistantly,, they really should change their diet in my opinion, if he wants his woman to give a BJ..she must communicate that to him... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 5:23:29 PM | Did I say that? If I didn't, why are asking me this My point abelian (which you completely missed) was that if your woman tasted consistently bad you wouldn't enjoy going down, in fact you would probably refuse to. But many guys know they taste bad but still expect their woman to give them a bj and swallow. You implied that it is something you can't change, when in fact you can change it with a little effort.
And i'm a long way from being in a snit!! The question is why some women won't give oral sex and swallow cum and i'm telling you why "some" women won't do it.. The comparison between a foul tasting vagina and a foul tasting ejaculation is to try to get you to see things from a point where you can understand why some women won't go there.. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 6:37:04 PM | Yep, cum is essence of you.
Well, I say, be prepared to do unto another as you want done to yourself. Maybe go down on her first and get her to cum four or five times, lap it up, then maybe she'll be warm to the idea of swallowing yours too...! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 6:50:52 PM | I think it's about time that any man who feels THAT strongly about his woman swallowing, should simply swallow HIS OWN cum before he issues any strong statements about what his woman should do.
It's as simple as that....no need for pages and pages of arguments....because there is really no one answer....the correct answer is something to be decided between the two people....it's THEIR duty to each other to discuss it. (If they can't discuss it, then, in my opinion, they should not yet be planning to be intimate with each other.)
Just my thoughts....
KK
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 7:07:35 PM |
As long as everyone keeps at it.......noone will have the ever coveted last word here!!
I think it might be time to agree to disagree......
and stop taking someone else's personal views.....personally!
Very true...........
I think both genders take it personally even if they say they don't.........anyone who has to take the time to defend every statement that they make does worry about what others think......or they wouldn't keep defending themselves. Not that there is anything wrong with it.............just admit it and quit telling everyone else they need to not let it bother them...........when clearly this person knows that they are guilty of the very same thing.
Now.......as to the ORIGINAL topic.
There are as many reasons not to as to love doing it. It really doesn't matter why. I haven't found a man that turned me on enough to want to swallow his cum.......maybe I will someday.......maybe I won't. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 8:33:23 PM | My ex had an injury that required him to take Lortabs.....
talk about changing the taste....definately could taste the meds in his cum....
But guess what.....I still swallowed!
Takes a whole 2 seconds.....hell......takes me longer than that to down some nasty tasting Alka Seltzer!
I never understood the spitting thing......u can still taste it!
Do I expect all women to be this accomadating? No.......I don't.
It's a personal choice......Men find it sexy......and I think it's far sexier than finding something to spit in!
But, once again.......it's personal choice.
I don't do anal. It's not my thing.
If I met a man that enjoyed anal.....and wanted to continue to enjoy anal.....I would have absolutely no issue with him moving on......because we wouldn't be sexually compatable. I no more want to be with someone that isn't willing to do things I like....then I expect a man to be with someone that isn't willing to do things he enjoys.
Why is this so hard for people to understand?
We all want someone that rocks our world......there is page after page in this forum alone to prove that....settling for someone that doesn't.....shouldn't be a crime as it is being treated in this thread. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 10:08:46 PM |
I never understood the spitting thing......u can still taste it!
Not only can you taste it, but you have to taste in for longer! I never understood spitting, either. If he's going to cum in your mouth, you might as well get rid of it as quickly as possible!
I've become quite a pro at not doing either unless requested -- giving head while you're on top of a man is the absolute best way to avoid doing either. A properly placed tongue can stop it from shooting into the back of your throat and it can just flow down and out.
Creativity is everything! | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/29/2008 10:56:36 PM | IMHO a woman that loves you will do it. As a girlfriend once told me, it's a part of me for her. Why should she spit that out?
Others? some woman are not used to the taste and may not realize when it is coming and just gag or feel it's sick. Some men do not drip but can shoot far. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:17:05 AM | .......You saying go play starfish with somene else is saying that you would leave them.
.......and what is wrong with that? Sexual combatibiltiy is important
ms micki if you were paying attention at all you would have known that I wrote that becuase He asked me to give a post number and page number as to where he said he would leave a woman for not doing bj's and he also siad no one has put down on women who dont do them. I showed him where he did both...all in one sentence and one post. He asked me to find it and I did. Now he is mad about it. If he didnt wnat me to find it then he shiouldnt have asked me to.
I dont down men for wanting it , I down the things they say concerning it. its like a woman have nothing to offer them except bj's and women that dont do it are this, that, and something else.....starfish being one of them.
.......You siad , you like toys in bedroom....and you would much rather find out if my man does before i marry hinm and complain about it after the fact.
Ms micki let me uducate you just a bit. If I would have known this BEFORE marriage, I WOULD have still married him. Why is becuase that is not what love is based on. I choose not to throw away a wonderful man for soemthing so silly when good men are so very hard to find. I simply wanted to know why a man would be agaisnt it since I have never had one that was in my past. thats it. That is not a complaint, it was a simple question. Learn the difference. Now there is no reason for you to attack me with foolishness when I was not speaking to you in the first place. A poster asked ME a question and I answered it. There was no need for you to interfer in my answer when the question was asked directly to me, not you, unless you just want him to notice you. if you wnat to date him, just ask him. I'm sure if yoiu offer your bj services he will happily accept since it seems that thats all a woman has to offer him. Now buger off and have a nice day.
Mr Taylord, your next. "Cant" means she cant unless yoiu want puke all over you. Its not becuaes our mouths dont open. See these are the dumb kind of remarks I have been speaking of. Its the dumb things people say that I call stupid...not the person...but what they say. The only thing you are correct on is that a man does not need to start a relationship with a woman w ho cannot perform oral for him. In fact, he shoiuld make it known that he demands a bj before he ever tries to take her bed in the first place. If he does not feel comfortable talking to her about sex before they hit the sack then he shoiuldnt be hitting the sack wiht her to beign with. its too soon. Its not wrong to want but its wrong to expect or demand.
I wonder what you guys would do if every woman quit performaing bj's for you. Does this mean you would never have a relationship??? never fall in love??? or die even?? I think not.
.....Norm calling a woman a starfish is his way of saying she's boring in bed.
Was this woman you? NO?...Then why get your panties in a bunch?
no this woman was not me. but i was asked a direct question and I answered it. thats why it was brought up again in the first place.
And ms micki , its really not your business to spout off at the mouth to any woman who dont do bj's. If your a female then you dont have a dick. so dont worry yourself with if other women do it. Just say ur peace in here that you do it and love it. Thats all you needed to say. Its not up to you if we do them. Its not your concern
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:08:32 AM | kitten
Lets get this straight, you said I said I would leave a woman I was in love with, I quote you below
<div class='quote'>there are men who have posted here including youself who will leave his so called love if she can perform bj.s for him.
my response to you was this
<div class='quote'>Please find that for me and give me the post number,,
never have I said that,, I would leave some one 'm in love with "love"
you have yet to show me where I said i would leave a woman I was in "LOVE" with,,
me saying a woman is a starfish that I'm having sexual relations with has nothing to do with love,, as I stated before.. and her being a star fish has nothing to do with you... PEROID>>>.. having sexual relationship has nothing to do with love, nor does dating, it's a process to see if two people are compatible in all areas of life,, and sex being one of them,, If she drank so much where she was constantly violet or not in control of her self I would call her a drunk as well, and i would say go be a drunk with someone else..
<div class='quote'>Learn the difference. Now there is no reason for you to attack me with foolishness when I was not speaking to you in the first place. A poster asked ME a question and I answered it. There was no need for you to interfer in my answer when the question was asked directly to me, not you, unless you just want him to notice you. if you wnat to date him, just ask him. I'm sure if yoiu offer your bj services he will happily accept since it seems that thats all a woman has to offer him. Now buger off and have a nice day.
Wow, bad hair day,, I thought this was a forum where we all can add our input,, you have made comments to others when they were not directing a question or statement towards you,, get over your self,,
we do have forum spelling police here, I know I have been accused of poor spelling, I'm only suggesting you be careful....OK :)
So I ask you again,, where did I say I would leave a woman I was in "LOVE" with, that is not a hard question, and I dare you to prove I said that,, because if you can,, I will say I'm sorry, and never post another line in this forum again,, I'm sure that would make you happy...find it please,, just to remove me from your life, why I/others affect you so,,, I have no clue,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:13:53 AM | I already gave it to you the post and page both. Forget love becuase there is no love to begin with from a man who demands bj's or its bye bye. thats not love. thats no better than paying a hooker on the street except you get it for free when you use ur girlfirned.
Wow, bad hair day,, I thought this was a forum where we all can add our input,, you have made comments to others when they were not directing a question or statement towards you,, get over your self,,
it was directed straight at me. maybe you need to go read it again. You also need to defend yourself if you can..not others. I think they are capable of defending themself.
Ps if you dont like what I said ..............goooooooooood who gives a sh it. Nice maybe your rubbing off on me. I seem to have the same attitude you do.
Im not wrong you are simply angry that I found your post and page. I can accept that.
.....however, when two people are in love, it does enhance that experience. if both agree and enjoy it sure. but if one dont and the o ther leaves becuase of it...there was no love.
any hooker can give a bj. my point is not that women who do this are hookers my point was that a man who leaves a woman for not being able to do bj's has about as much respect for her as a he does a hooker | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:21:40 AM | I rest my case, you admit your wrong,, you could not find any post of mine where I said I would leave a woman I was in love with,,, 
Ot, swallowing cum has nothing to do with love,, however, when two people are in love, it does enhance that experience, I know this because I have been told,, and it shows in their performance,,, and because of my emotional connection is different and I can feel it as well, (love)
PS are you calling women hookers because they give BJ, because they are not in love,, that is what that sounded like to me,,
looks like you has a change of heart with that up date about hookers... | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:41:38 AM | although if you do love the person you would want to taste them !!!!!
thats not true. You can love them more than life itself. But not everyone can stomach cum. Nothing can change that. including true love. Make them feel good sure but there are other ways to accomplish that. I was once in love wiht the most amazing man on earth and i would not have been able to give him a bj. The best he would ahve got was a bj with a condom on. but thats nto what this thread is about . the thread is about swallowing. you cant swallow it if condom is on. And I cant attempt bj with no condom. Plus bj's are not necessary. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:48:16 AM |
My point abelian (which you completely missed)
If that was your point, you should have tried making it without insinuating something I didn't say.
was that if your woman tasted consistently bad you wouldn't enjoy going down, in fact you would probably refuse to.
Since I've tasted quite a few women without encountering that issue except once when a girlfriend had a yeast infection, I see that notion as a red herring. If the percentage of guys who taste bad is so large that most of them taste bad, it's more an issue of being squeamish. Oddly enough (with perhaps 1 exception) the women I've dated who didn't swallow were the most unreasonably finicky eaters with whom it was almost impossible to dine in any restaraurant that had anything but the most bland food. I'd also not marry a finicky eater. Crucify me. It's my life and given that you think I'm an egotistical **stard, why would you care if my attitude turns off women?
But many guys know they taste bad but still expect their woman to give them a bj and swallow. You implied that it is something you can't change, when in fact you can change it with a little effort.
Since no one has ever told me I tasted bad, (including my date last night), I have no personal experience to verify that claim. However, I am not a picky eater, so usually it's my girlfriends who dictate what I eat (as long as it's healthy.) If I ever have a girlfriend who tells me I taste bad (i.e., doesn't outright refuse just because she thinks the idea is gross), I'll let her adjust my diet to suit her. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 8:53:29 AM |
Plus bj's are not necessary.
Neither is sex, but lots of people do it for fun. If, by ``not necessary,'' you mean you prefer men who don't like bj's, then by the same criteria, I think bj's are necessary. If you have some other definition of ``necessary,'' you might try telling us what it is, so we know what you mean. | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:43:20 AM | If, by ``not necessary,'' you mean you prefer men who don't like bj's,
I think its a pretty explanatory statement. but if you need a defination it means you will not die without them. want and need are two diff things. Now you tell me what is the reason the man would want a woman to eat it??? | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:15:39 AM |
I think its a pretty explanatory statement. but if you need a defination it means you will not die without them. want and need are two diff things. Now you tell me what is the reason the man would want a woman to eat it???
This man does not want or need a woman to eat cum,,she has a choice,,
This mans wants/needs a "WOMAN" who ENJOYS giving oral.
Like I have said before, she is not doing me a favor if she does it just because I may want a BJ and she doesn not like it,, ,, I wouldn't get into a relationship with her either ,
I do want someone who enjoys all aspects of sex,, compatibility,, that is what I want and need and desire........
I don't need or want a woman who does things she does not enjoy herself,, that is a turn off for me..
Therefore we "BOTH" "NEED", "DESIRE" and "WANT" to give and receive oral sex because "WE" like,, | |
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| oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:28:32 AM | kit said, " If he does not feel comfortable talking to her about sex before they hit the sack then he shoiuldnt be hitting the sack wiht her to beign with. its too soon. "
Yet you hit the sack with your guy for how many months before you two got married, then two months into the marriage let him know you had never gotten off with him, that you were unable to without the assistance of toys, he was angry. What did you fake orgasms to get him to marry you? But, according to you you managed to talk him into going to toy store. He was willing to try...
If he now revealed to you he has not really gotten off with you, (after all you have never really seen his semen since it makes you sick) he needs a bj to do that, would you be willing to try.?
Maybe you have yet to get off with him, he hasn't gotten off with you, and all this stuff you type here is a part of your sexual frustration. | |
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although if you do love the person you would want to taste them !!!!!