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 onlytheone

Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 51
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/4/2008 4:50:31 PM
Two people should be comfortable together.

In the privacy of their own home

 funninthesun

Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 52
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/4/2008 5:10:08 PM
i think thats hot for a woman to do that to a man.
 namrael

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 53
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/4/2008 6:19:11 PM
I swallow.

I would, however, be rather indignant with a partner who threw a "just finish what you started" attitude at me when I was pleasuring him, though. Perhaps this is related to your troubles?
 Dare to

Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 54
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/4/2008 7:28:06 PM
Some guys just don't seem to realise that they taste absolutely disgusting. Enough to make you throw up kind of disgusting!!! Just imagine the worst tasting kitty you have ever put your face near and then tell me you "wanted" to put your tongue in it. No?? Well that's how bad some men can taste and then they wonder why no woman wants to go there.

Change your diet and you might get a completely different response..
 cortchubby

Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 55
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/4/2008 7:35:09 PM
To Dr Manhatten:

PLEASE! The "defender of womens feelings" bit isnt gonna get you points out here and as a matter of fact will subject yu to public ridicule.
And YES women are sperm recepticles.What do you think a Vagina is for?
Some swallow some dont
Those that dont are out here

Enough said

A REAL Doctor
 stv728

Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 10/4/2008 7:54:08 PM
cortchubby:

I think maybe you need to climb back into that bottle of jack you climbed out of. Just curious here, how many lonely nights have you finished up that bottle and used it as a sperm receptacle?? No offense...I am just curious. And your "what do you think a vagina is for?"...that's a little off topic from the question here....most people swallow stuff that goes in their mouth.....maybe you can swallow with your vagina...IDK
 qhkgjmdn

Joined: 9/13/2008
Msg: 57
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 12:03:19 AM
Hey i just think it is just plain out NASTY!!! wipe it up with a napikin or something. Then go back town. "Shocker" BJ is a BJ
 malefreedom

Joined: 9/28/2008
Msg: 58
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 12:59:53 AM
So, looks like people are torn on this one, some people like it some don't.

 lucie453

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 59
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 4:18:36 AM
As many other women pointed out...some guys taste good and some don't. For a guy I dated that didn't taste as good I just made sure he was past the "taste point" when he got off. I didn't have to taste it so much but still swallowed, which he loved!
 Miss W

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 10/5/2008 4:57:34 AM
I don't...they don't mind...and they are usually very grateful to get one.
 goodlistener711

Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 61
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:20:47 AM
Not a BJ anyway unless she swallows.

Some do....

Some don't

If a guy has been in a relationship with a lady that does....it's hard I would think to be in another relationship where she doesn't.

Of my buddies where this has happened, they knew that going forward in their relationship, but admit they miss that aspect of the intimacy part.
 ImAHotMess

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 62
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:36:43 AM
What women? lol Maybe it is you. I have no problem doing that at all. I always finish what I start and enjoy doing it. :) I would rather do that than have sex myself sometimes....maybe I am different. Something VERY hot about doing that to a man (whom I am in a relationship with that is.) And for the record, some men do not enjoy it. I was married to one. It is not always the women.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 63
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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/5/2008 8:53:13 AM
Ladies don't spit.
 Firewolf65

Joined: 1/1/2006
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Posted: 10/6/2008 12:36:49 AM
If a woman is willing to be that intimate with me great, and I have no problem kissing her if she spits, swallows or let's it go else where. Besides it is my fluids. Just be happy and enjoy the intimacy and stop focusing on her not swallowing.

I bet you don't go down on a woman.
 gene709192

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 10/6/2008 2:46:07 AM
well then, i look at it like this,if she tells me she doesnt swallow,then that tells me shes not swalling cum from every guy shes ever blown.call me crazy but the thought of kissing someone mouth thats possibly has had alot of samples in it,not for me.but if thats youre thing .
 VAPurr

Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 66
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 5:44:22 AM
Guys should eat pineapple I have been told.

The stuff can be downright acid like and burn your throat.

The man needs to watch his diet and I think certain drinks
can be awful.

Women can get the idea that is like piss but a guy
cannot pee with a hard on.

Nature took care of that.

VAPurr
 Ear to hear

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 67
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 6:00:47 AM
Dude...some woman do and some dont....Im always thankful when I finish in their mouth and they spit....I have had some say they liked my taste soo....I was doing something right with my diet...lol.
 bttmbi20

Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:34:38 AM
see ima bi male and i ahve a girlfreind ....wen i go down on her i go to work until she cums i love the taste ...like wats the pointing of doing oral if ur not gonna swallow ...i do the same with guys ....i think it should always been done for both sexes
 uknowho

Joined: 10/2/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:39:47 AM
some do and some dont.. just be happy they are at least willing to give u one!
 2squishy

Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:40:31 AM
Same goes with some men who hate it when a woman squirts in their mouth too... Not everyone is into swallowing cum...either sexes... I am sure they don't stop using their hands so you at least finish.... A lot different if they quit stimulation all together... (in regards to your example)
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 71
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Posted: 10/6/2008 7:48:36 AM

I think some guys should just be damned glad anyone will give them oral and not worry about where "it's" going.

I concure! I can't for the life of me imagine why it would matter - you still get to cum!!
 Viker25

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 72
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:00:51 AM
And that, is what it's all about!
 HayYou2

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:05:42 AM
I agree with alooooohaha. For me, it's a huge turn-on to kiss a woman after I have cum in her mouth. It's one of the most intimate experiences that two people can share. After doing it a few times, I have actually gained an appreciation for the taste and texture and often enjoy it on my own.
 TakeMeTheWayIAm

Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 74
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Posted: 10/6/2008 11:36:29 AM
Leeanne: "I concure! I can't for the life of me imagine why it would matter - you still get to cum!!"


Normally I agree with you but this time I cannot.

Imagine that the next three guys who went down on you then did the following:
* you came
* he licked
* he then turned his head and spit, as if the taste weren't to his liking

And then the *next* guy did the following:
* you came
* he licked
* he smiled

Trust me, it makes all the difference in the world. In one case you feel like you don't taste good, that something's wrong with you. In the other case you feel good about yourself.

Does it really take that much effort to try to please your lover and make them feel good about themselves? I mean, honestly, how many times have guys lied and said that "no, that dress doesn't make you look fat" to a woman? So if swallowing is really a quiet lie that says "your come tastes great" then is it such a difficult lie to make? It's a selfless act and I think it's the mark of a great lover to just go along with it.

It's no different than any of these gestures:

* she's calls you during a project at work and says "are you busy?" and you answer "no, i was just sitting here."
* she asks if you like the candles that she's set out in your bedroom and you answer "oh, they're great" when you really think the smell they're putting off is too much
* she asks what you think of her perfume, you think she's used too much of it but you answer "oh, i like that"
* she has a new almost-butch-looking haircut and asks what you think of it and you say "it looks cute on you"
* she cancels an expensive trip at the last moment because of some plot complication and asks "do you mind?" and you say "no, i hope your sister is okay", knowing that you're now out all that money
etc

So really, all I want is someone who--even though come isn't something that she'd order on a restaurant menu--would still recognize that swallowing is a gesture that promotes a happy relationship and it's something that makes him feel good about himself.
 lilbee_71

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 75
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/6/2008 12:14:06 PM
Takemethewayiam.........some women do and some don't, get over yourself and stop generalizing that it will make the relationship happier....if a relationship works it works, swallowing, spitting aside.

Find someone who fits the bills for what it is you're looking for and don't try to pin your hang ups on everyone else.

Would you swallow a mouthful of hot snot? Thats what it "feels" like in a womans mouth...some have a very strong and real gag reflex and I'm sure you'd much rather have the lady spit it out than to barf in your lap wouldn't you?

People should be with someone they are sexually open and compatible with and shouldn't be afraid to speak their mind and tell their partner what turns them on, if the partner is reciprocal then so much the better-win/win!!

If not there is always the option of searching until you find the woman of your dreams who will swallow for you.
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